• The joys of cuming in your partner

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Jazzy wrote:

    do you think it goes back to neanderthal times, when it was more about procreation and being "the" man?? I know my OH certainly enjoys it more without a condom, but can not really explain why. Perhaps it is something in the genetic make up of the person? Or am I waffling on?

    I just think that as a fella it feels better and alot of women like seeing their man enjoy himself alot!

    I know my girl likes the hotness inside her and the pulsing when I come.... Doesnt like the clean up though..

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    Sorry if this has already been mentioned, but what about the Nuvaring as contraception?

    http://www.nuvaring.com/Consumer/index.asp

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    Ecksvie wrote:

    I'm not saying that people using the pill are stupid or anything like that, but we all make mistakes. All it takes is one mistake to get pregnant, and there's no way I'd want to use a method of contraception that was that open to error if there was another option open to me.


    That's what I mean... that's your experience, and that's what suits you. You said you didn't understand why women would want to take the pill over the implant... I'm explaining some reasons why that might be, that's all :)

    Lunar Lunacy wrote:

    Sorry if this has already been mentioned, but what about the Nuvaring as contraception?

    http://www.nuvaring.com/Consumer/index.asp

    I tried it before Lunar, and it didn't suit me at all... I just couldn't get it to fit me properly! No matter how far I managed to get it in, it would always wiggle its way back out. Shame really, because it's a really great method if it works.

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    What's like a femidom? The NuvaRing?

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    The NuvaRing isn't a barrier method though... it's hormonal :) Just sits up around your cervix. You can't feel it when it's in properly and neither can your partner!

    I have heard male friends say that having sex with a female condom is like fucking a binbag, however.

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    I've never used a female condom, but from looking at them I'd imagine that description is about accurate. They look very loose and baggy, whereas your standard condom is skin tight (or, well, should be!). they're quite expensive too.

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    Better than a crisp packet, I guess...

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    Hehe most likely! Although I've heard good things about antique Monster Munch packets.

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    LOL :) Spicy.

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    shellyboo wrote:

    The NuvaRing isn't a barrier method though... it's hormonal :) Just sits up around your cervix. You can't feel it when it's in properly and neither can your partner!

    I have heard male friends say that having sex with a female condom is like fucking a binbag, however.

    wehey that sounds sexy bin bags are hot! lolz

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    I saw an article on the nuvaring in scarlet and it seemed to have a comparitively high (to say, condoms or the pill) failure rate...? I dont think i see the point in a moderately successful contraceptive, to be honest...

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    LivingFire wrote:

    I saw an article on the nuvaring in scarlet and it seemed to have a comparitively high (to say, condoms or the pill) failure rate...? I dont think i see the point in a moderately successful contraceptive, to be honest...

    lol i agree! what's the point in using it if it has a high failure rate? surely you're just gambling against bad odds then?

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    I'm on the pill and am fortunate enough not to have any side effects from it but I've heard it's not for everyone, also different pills have different effects on women. I'm on mycrogynon 30 and have been for about 3 years now but I've been warned that it's about 97/98% effective so there is still a chance albeit a small one that I could get pregnant. Also if you have bad diarrhea or vomiting you can inadvertently release it from your system making it ineffective. My current partner and I don't use condoms as I love the feel of him without one and also really enjoy it when he cums inside me but I definitely wouldn't put my faith in rhythm/ withdrawl methods without the pill.

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    morganalefay wrote:

    I'm on the pill and am fortunate enough not to have any side effects from it but I've heard it's not for everyone, also different pills have different effects on women. I'm on mycrogynon 30 and have been for about 3 years now but I've been warned that it's about 97/98% effective so there is still a chance albeit a small one that I could get pregnant. Also if you have bad diarrhea or vomiting you can inadvertently release it from your system making it ineffective. My current partner and I don't use condoms as I love the feel of him without one and also really enjoy it when he cums inside me but I definitely wouldn't put my faith in rhythm/ withdrawl methods without the pill.

    back in the days when i was on the pill (when i was in a long-term relationship and had a need for it) i was on mycrogynon for a while. gave me terrible migraines and acne, so i changed to diannette, which was good. if i ever go back on the pill its gonna be diannette again for me. x

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    poppy904 wrote:

    back in the days when i was on the pill (when i was in a long-term relationship and had a need for it) i was on mycrogynon for a while. gave me terrible migraines and acne, so i changed to diannette, which was good. if i ever go back on the pill its gonna be diannette again for me. x

    My girl went the docs the other day and got her microgy switched to Yasmin. She had some side effects... The only difference is the amount of progestone (SP?), they tend to give Microgy alot... tis the cheapest.

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    WandA wrote:

    Jazzy wrote:

    do you think it goes back to neanderthal times, when it was more about procreation and being "the" man?? I know my OH certainly enjoys it more without a condom, but can not really explain why. Perhaps it is something in the genetic make up of the person? Or am I waffling on?

    I just think that as a fella it feels better and alot of women like seeing their man enjoy himself alot!

    I know my girl likes the hotness inside her and the pulsing when I come.... Doesnt like the clean up though..

    Tis one of the good thing about condoms.....I don't have to crawl out of bed to clean up :)

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    And that puppies is one of the reason I love blowjobs!

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Hmmm. Now I know how to irritate a man...

    Do you?

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    I can honestly say that I get great joy from cumming in my partner.

    SG69 x

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    Me and my boyfriend cannot use condom as he never gets fully hard during sex and the condom wont go on (we are still trying to wean him of viagra, so we arent using it again).

    I was on the pill but I kept forgetting to take them and was having a period every other week.

    I then went on the implant and due to the high amount of progestogen I was bleeding constantly for 6 months until I removed it.

    Luckily (well kinda for the time being anyway) my boyfriend is on tablets which make him infertile, so I have took anything for a year.

    As for cuming in me it has to be done as 95% of the time we orgasm together, so if he didnt cum in me I would be without.

    I am thinking about going back on the pill though as I have extremely bad PMS and have nearly lost my job and my life over the mood swings. Can anyone recommend a pill for PMS?

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