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  1. Any Bisexuals in a relationship still craving the other?

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    Yes man [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all, when I was in my teens and early twenties I was a very active Bisexual, I slept with equally as many women as men, women were my love, men were just for sex. When I met my now wife my Bi-life stopped instantly as I knew she was the one, but my craving for cock has never gone! She doesn't know I'm Bi and that I've slept with men but luckily for me she is very sexually experimental and loves to peg me, this is a good release for me wanting cock as it's the closest I will get but the craving and need for cock and gay sex still persists constantly and has never gone away! I always dream of the other even though I know it will never happen! As there are quite a lot of bisexuals on this forum I was wondering how many were in the same position and what you do about your cravings?

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    I am in a long term relationship and I wouldn't change it for the world. But I often think about having sex with other women and enjoying the sensuality of being with another woman.

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    Yes man I’m also in a long term relationship and I use this forum as a little escape from reality quite sad Iknow .I keep all my cross dressing and fantasy’s to myself and the forum often feel very guilty for dressing also a bit of a cheat for my thoughts etc . I would hate to put any of this on my family so best kept as a fantasy for me anyway.

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    It is such a shame that you haven't been able to tell your respective partners about your kinks. I find that really sad.

    I guess I'm mega lucky that I'm able to have sex with women as well as men, given the relationship I'm in. Yes I did crave another woman, and like you, I was prepared to forgo it for the sake of my husband, but luckily, he's a kinky bugger and over time, he encouraged me to find someone who we could both shag, and that's where Victoria came from. It suits us all down to the ground.

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    Thanks for your thoughts Mira it really isn’t to sad or bad promise..... sometimes some things perhaps best kept to your self for the sake of others . But really appreciate your thoughts x

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    Bex84 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah I totally get where you are coming from Mira, personally I wouldnt want to add another person to our relationship and sexual interests at the moment mainly due to negative experiences with an ex. However, if I were to ever become single again I would definitely consider a female partner ☺️ just not sure I could cope with three people again xx

    Your relationship sounds awesome though I love it 😍
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    I totally get where you are coming from Bex abuot negative experiences. I had a heck of a time allowing my now-husband to do certain things to me that had strong associations with an ex.

    I would never had considered doing half the stuff I now do with previous partners. There's just something about my husband and me that has fundamentally changed my mindset to such matters, and I'm making the most of it whilst it lasts!

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    Sorry to hear that so many of you have to repress a part of your sexuality in favour of your relationship / OH. :(

    I'm an heteroromantic pansexual: Sex can be amazing with ''anyone'', but I can have a romantic relationship only with men.

    Although I've never practically been in the position to have sex with a woman while beng in a relationship with a guy, I've talked with all the boyfriends I've ever had about me possibly desiring it. Very few were ok with it. A few considered it cheating. Most were okay with is as long as they could participate, too (ugh... men) At this point in my life, if someone isn't ok with it then I consider us to be non-compatible, end of.

    Finding alternatives (like pegging) is smart! However, why can't you talk to your partner, explain your desires, reassure them that they mean the world to you no matter what, and try to find something that works for both of you?

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    I only accepted I was bisexual last year and was in a loving heterosexual marriage of quite a few years. My wife has been really understanding and accepting. We have both had frank discussions about what this means to us and a committed to facing the future together. We have started to experiment with anal play and we are looking to get into pegging. I would like to try a swingers club to have the real thing in me, but my wife is not interested in that, so I’m not going to pressure her. I guess I don’t miss what I’ve never had in terms of same sex relationship, but I can’t deny I’m very curious about how it would be/feel.

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    KinkyMira wrote:

    It is such a shame that you haven't been able to tell your respective partners about your kinks. I find that really sad.

    I guess I'm mega lucky that I'm able to have sex with women as well as men, given the relationship I'm in. Yes I did crave another woman, and like you, I was prepared to forgo it for the sake of my husband, but luckily, he's a kinky bugger and over time, he encouraged me to find someone who we could both shag, and that's where Victoria came from. It suits us all down to the ground.

    Kinky, I'd love to tell my OH but I just know it's not possible, she has nothing about people's sexuality and has no problem with what people get up to the privacy of their own bedrooms, ironically she has experimented too. I just know from trying to introduce M/M gay or Bi porn in to our bedtime viewing that it's a no go, for her the idea of watching 2 men fucking has no interest for her, she doesn't like watching it or the thought of it. I have no problem with that and can understand from her point of view. Fortunately I have a great best friend who's female and I can confied in her, she was a bit surprised when I first told her but not completely shocked as she knows how perverted my sexlife is with my OH. I've known her for years so we're totally open with each other, she knows I still crave cock, she likes to talk to me about it, first it was typical wanting to know all the gory details and how it happened, now it's just talking about sex, our previous relationships, what it's like, why I like it and what does it for me, I can be open with her about everything, we share everything so to keep me satisfied she sends me lots of gay and bi porn to watch to as she puts it jokingly "stop me from straying" and encourages me to share with her what I like to see and watch. She's a great release and helps me accept this is the way it is for me and another way to live with it.
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    Suspender man wrote:

    Yes man I’m also in a long term relationship and I use this forum as a little escape from reality quite sad Iknow .I keep all my cross dressing and fantasy’s to myself and the forum often feel very guilty for dressing also a bit of a cheat for my thoughts etc . I would hate to put any of this on my family so best kept as a fantasy for me anyway.

    Sorry to bump this thread, but just stumbled across it and struck by how much your comments resonate with me. 

    I've been increasingly experimenting with cross dressing and have an almost over-whelming desire to dress fully as a woman and live like this (within the safe confines of home) when the fancy takes me.

    I think about it often, but know it will not happen as OH just not open to this type of behaviour. Discussion is pointless, so it has to remain as a rather sad fantasy. So envious of people on this site with open-minded partners. Sadly that doesn't apply to us.

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