Now this is a little random, so forgive me...
Being in a wonderful relationship for the last 10 years has taught me lots of things, but one of the things that it hasn't helped is my self-control. Since getting with my husband, I have expanded 3 waist sizes. Whilst he assures me that he finds me sexy, when it comes to being in the bedroom, I don't feel comfortable unless i'm wearing at least a XXXL t-shirt to hide the belly and the man-bosoms. In a stroke of good luck I guess, I am quite tall, so the weight is spread fairly evenly, so I get a lot of people tell me that I don't look as heavy as I say I am.
Now whilst I have been dieting (and I have lost 2 stone over the last 3 months) - i'm still along way to go from reaching my goal. In the mean time, I want to be able to feel 'sexier' in the bedroom, and ladies have their lingerie, a lot of which helps provide coverage but still maintain that flirty sexiness... but us plus size blokes - don't really have much choice..
There's some great underwear on here that i'd love to try, but are sadly just one size too small... and I just wouldn't feel comfortable parading around in just some sexy boxers or a thong!
So, I guess i'm looking for your thoughts....
Am I wasting my time trying to find something that can be flattering and sexy in the bedroom for a bloke?