1. Can flat shoes ever be "Sexy" ?

    dave82 [sign in to see picture]
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    I wouldn't say so! Like previous people have said a girl can still look sexy in flats but I wouldn't for example ask my oh to keep a pair of flats on in bed!

    Bionic Man [sign in to see picture]
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    Repliquant has hit the nail squarely on the head for me!

    LilMissMardyBum [sign in to see picture]
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    i think for me seeing a women in a pair of converse and tight jeans is as sexy as seeing a women in a mini skirt and heels so yep flats can be sexy in my eyes

    TheRunaway [sign in to see picture]
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    I love being comfortable and I think you can get similar materials for the look, comparing dominatrix heels with scuffed loafers isn't fair - I have a pair of patent flats with a bow and they are both cute and sexy. Paired with fishnet stockings I don't see why they can't be just as appealing as a high heel if that's what you're going for. If they fit well you can point them and rub and play just the same (although you can't press the end of the heel the same way but that's it).

    Nicely kept bare feet are very sexy and if they're clad in a nice pair of shoes it doesn't matter what type if you feel sexy in them. I have nothing against a high heel for effect, in fact I have an indoor-only pair since I gave up all the others. They're more an occasional dress up thing for me though.

    myghost [sign in to see picture]
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    flat shoes can be sexy but they'll never be as sexy as heels now i can no longer wear heels flats have to be sexy being a magpie for anything metallic & gliitery thats about as sexy as flats can get

    taraman [sign in to see picture]
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    Lol have to agree with Repliquant and Bionic Man. Not ever!

    Puddleduck [sign in to see picture]
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    I wear flats for work but toe walking I think makes them look far my elegant. Men comment on the way I walk more than women. So I do think on the right woman flats can be sexy.

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    Definately, might be strange but i have never liked high heels, trainers, flat shoes even wellies look more natural, to me comfortable equals sexy.

    Wellies and stockings, mmmmm, although that might be just because my garden needs weeding and its a bit too cold at the moment

    xKayteex [sign in to see picture]
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    Im 5ft11.5 so heels are a massive no! Lol

    Ive never had any complaints of flat shoes ;)


    Holz105 [sign in to see picture]
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    If a woman can't walk in heels it's not exactly sexy..
    I prefer heels myself but flats can look just as good if not better. It depends on the person.

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    I'm a shortie (5'3'') and with a boyfriend 6'1'' I look really small but I just don't enjoy wearing heels. They're difficult to walk in, painful and I just can't help but be terrified that the heel is going to slide or go down a crack or something and I'll go sprawling!

    Usually I would wear pumps or long boots because they are so comfy, and when I feel comfortable I feel happy with myself and the way I look as I'm not trying really hard to look sexy. So I feel less anxious, more comfortable, and as a result, more sexy.


    Boyfriend's thoughts:

    It is very clear when someone's trying to make up for their insecurities and there is nothing sexier than a girl who's happy the way she is and doesn't see the need in compromising her comfort as after all shoes are made for walking...

    kinkynottscouple [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm not convinced. As much as I love boots on women, flat heels just dont do anything for me. Its the heel that makes the ass look firm and peachy and theres just something about a woman in high heels


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    Imo Yes. But as a means to an end .Certain dances can only be done in flats and the dances themselves can be sexy .Try doing the Jitterbug wearing heels and then you,'ll perhaps see my point.

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    I think as much as I dislike high heels, there's the sex-appeal factor to them. If I wanted to have sex wearing shoes, it'd have to be high heels. Just yesterday I was watching a lesbian porn and one of the girls was wearing a flat sandals (kind of Havaianas style - no they weren't outdoors or by the sea or pool) and that looked odd, perhaps she should have bare feet like the other two!).

    Having said that, I think a woman can look very sexy with flat shoes and jeans for example. It's just not the "let's have sex" kinky or sexy kind of thing.

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    I can see the attraction of high heels , they make your legs look lovely and kind of add a sexy sway to your walk . But having said that I find them absolute agony to wear nowadays as I've got used to a life of trainers , boots and flip flops !

    Wearing them in the bedroom is the best option for me as it means the longest walk I do in them is round the bed !

    paulsballs [sign in to see picture]
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    Heels yes,platforms NO,the right flat strapy sandals with nice pedicured feet and the right colour nail varnish can be sexy to.

    lovelylumps [sign in to see picture]
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    I think flats can be sexy but a no go for the bedroom. But I'm not really a heel girl and wouldn't wear heels in the bedroom either

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    Heels( and big boobs ) are not a turn on fo me.

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    Ballet shoes in the bedroom during submissive play .... a huge yes from me. Also had my partner dress like a skater chick a few times with converse and it worked very well! I don't think the height of shoes really matters, it's how it's worn and what they are worn with.


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    Watching your partner work out just with a pair of Skechers. TBH I wasnt looking much at the shoes.

    I think its a very subjective debate and depends very much on other factors.

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