1. Plus size Ladies Lingerie advice needed please

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    Hi everyone

    I'm needing some advice on lingerie

    Top size i'm in between sizes usually a uk plus size 24-26

    Pants Trousers uk size 24 I have a big bootie

    Being big busted and since recently being measured 40G

    I have had 3 little ones and do have a bit of a tummy which i'm not really entirely comfortable with which i need to stop thinking like that, so hoping to boost my confidence both in the bedroom and in general wear so new wardrobe needed.

    To be entirely honest it's been a very long time since i last felt at all sexy in any way.

    Also to add though my OH the lovely fellow of mine has cancer and ed so being spontaneous is difficult to work round,so i would love to find some bits i could also wear in general without any expectations,so the OH isn't like oh no she's trying to jump me again!

    hoping you lovely lot could point me in the right direction if you yourself are round these kind of sizes what would you suggest?

    Thank you all

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    It going to be hard to find something to make you feel sexy without making him feel like you are wanting to jump him. But...

    What I would go for is this satin baby doll, it covers up as it's all satin; it is side tie though, so does give a glimps of flesh. But it's sliky style would make me feel sexy, and classy, without shouting come get me too much. And I think it would make a lovley night dress; and would tell me OH (if I had one) that I got this for myself, because I wanted to feel "nice " about myself.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36703

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    Hi hun I normally wear these kid of stuff for bed

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32841

    But without the knickers. They are sexy but to me they are bed wear not too much dressing up. Love honey do a lot of different style 1s like the satin baby dolls ECT. So you could wear these as an every night.

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    Alicia4Ever wrote:

    It going to be hard to find something to make you feel sexy without making him feel like you are wanting to jump him. But...

    What I would go for is this satin baby doll, it covers up as it's all satin; it is side tie though, so does give a glimps of flesh. But it's sliky style would make me feel sexy, and classy, without shouting come get me too much. And I think it would make a lovley night dress; and would tell me OH (if I had one) that I got this for myself, because I wanted to feel "nice " about myself.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36703

    Thank you Alicia4Ever

    That's great im not really fussy so open to a lot of things.It would be great to have a few bits as just general nightwear to give me that boost needed, im crossing my fingers things will improve so while he's on the mend i intend to work on myself more

    So even a few bits that may say come get me isn't too bad but would love to mix it up a little as i can tell when he's far too tired and when he isn't it's just getting the timing and mood right.

    Also i think it's time to throw away the general pants can't remember the last time i even wore a thong it's terrible, guess i've gotten stuck in my ways so time for a change.

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    Hey me me me me

    It's so difficult finding sexy lingerie when you're on the larger size, especially big boobies, innit? I've had (and sadly had to return) several basques and chemise - I am a size 20/22 and 44/46 EE bra size - all of the stuff I've had with bra cup style tops haven't fitted at all...my boobies spilled out of the cups both at the front and uncomfortably out of the sides too. I felt crushed, uncomfortable...and TBH, not at all sexy! the model in the pics looks big busted, but her boobies only curve sexily out of the fronts of the cups and she doesn't look crushed either... but no matter how loosely did the hook and eyes up at the back mine still spilled out everywhere!

    This fitted though, although tightly over the bust, as it's got a really lovely lace-up back - I got it in black (but that's out of stock) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32857

    I'm an 18/20 bottom half for jeans.... I've bought several plus size knickers and they all fit beautifully - and would easily fit another couple of sizes bigger tbh!

    I sooooo wish the plus sizes would have bigger cups - the 3X ex-large is supposed to fit 22/24...and it does fit me everywhere - bt the cups look to me to only be a CC or even D at a squeeze...it makes no sense, most girls who are a size 22/24 need DD minimum!

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    LadySpider wrote:

    Hey me me me me

    It's so difficult finding sexy lingerie when you're on the larger size, especially big boobies, innit? I've had (and sadly had to return) several basques and chemise - I am a size 20/22 and 44/46 EE bra size - all of the stuff I've had with bra cup style tops haven't fitted at all...my boobies spilled out of the cups both at the front and uncomfortably out of the sides too. I felt crushed, uncomfortable...and TBH, not at all sexy! the model in the pics looks big busted, but her boobies only curve sexily out of the fronts of the cups and she doesn't look crushed either... but no matter how loosely did the hook and eyes up at the back mine still spilled out everywhere!

    This fitted though, although tightly over the bust, as it's got a really lovely lace-up back - I got it in black (but that's out of stock) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32857

    I'm an 18/20 bottom half for jeans.... I've bought several plus size knickers and they all fit beautifully - and would easily fit another couple of sizes bigger tbh!

    I sooooo wish the plus sizes would have bigger cups - the 3X ex-large is supposed to fit 22/24...and it does fit me everywhere - bt the cups look to me to only be a CC or even D at a squeeze...it makes no sense, most girls who are a size 22/24 need DD minimum!

    Sure is LadySpider

    That's what i find off putting for example the item Tazzy84red has linked it looks lovely but i very much doubt i'll get my knockers in there.

    Thank you for the suggestion though Tazzy84red

    The one you have linked looks perfect not forcing the breasts to fit in a small cup size so that may be a nice option thank you,plus it's my favorate color being red.

    I thought id be a little daring and recently bought this but sadly had to return for being far to small should be advertised as a size 18-20 max in my opinion.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36256

    bought the matching thongs which fit nicely though so kept them.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36262

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    me me me me wrote:

    Hi everyone

    I'm needing some advice on lingerie

    Top size i'm in between sizes usually a uk plus size 24-26

    Pants Trousers uk size 24 I have a big bootie

    Being big busted and since recently being measured 40G

    I have had 3 little ones and do have a bit of a tummy which i'm not really entirely comfortable with which i need to stop thinking like that, so hoping to boost my confidence both in the bedroom and in general wear so new wardrobe needed.

    To be entirely honest it's been a very long time since i last felt at all sexy in any way.

    Also to add though my OH the lovely fellow of mine has cancer and ed so being spontaneous is difficult to work round,so i would love to find some bits i could also wear in general without any expectations,so the OH isn't like oh no she's trying to jump me again!

    hoping you lovely lot could point me in the right direction if you yourself are round these kind of sizes what would you suggest?

    Thank you all

    Hi me me me

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37589

    i recently purchased several pairs of these french knickers, I got the 3x/4x as like you never feel LH underwear is very roomy. To my surprise they are very generous I think mainly due to the cut/style and look and feel lovely on and I feel I could of gone down a size.  Maybe you could team them with a slinky satin chemise ?

    Good luck on the hunt x

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    I love this

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36051

    The cups are not moulded so your boobs will fit (my 38Gs fit) although it doesnt offer any support for them.

    Its really comfortable so if you wanted to just use it as a sexy nightie you could which means theres less pressure?

    Its not too clingy on the stomach either!

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    I love the crotchless tights. I have tried a few pairs and they can be subtly sexy. Some of the detailing on them is beautiful and you can wear them to spice up any everyday outfit. Plus with a nice skirt over the top ( which I do as I'm plus size and don't like the bottom of my belly) you can cover over any worry areas and feel sexy.
    Hope you find what works for you x

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    Hi me me me me,
    So sorry to hear of your OH’s cancer, I hope you’re both ok.
    I’m probably in the minority, but I find bigger panties very sexy, I often look on you tube at ladies wearing bigger lingerie, they look amazing.

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    Thank you all for your help.

    it's much appreciated, wasn't sure if lovehoney even stocked products suited for a size 26 it's a pain when your in between sized with making space for the boobies

    Subbysam

    That looks stunning i think i may go for it, thank you.

    K&s000

    That's a lovely pair,great idea, it's been a long time since wearing anything like those to think about it ever since becoming a mummy so time for a good change.

    Will have to save for a few weeks then out with the old and in with the new :)

    Thank you all

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    Knight1119 wrote:

    Hi me me me me,
    So sorry to hear of your OH’s cancer, I hope you’re both ok.
    I’m probably in the minority, but I find bigger panties very sexy, I often look on you tube at ladies wearing bigger lingerie, they look amazing.

    Thanks Knight1119

    He's doing good so far he's started his next round of chemo this week,then one more left to go, then scan to be done hopefully the news we've been waiting for fingers crossed.

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    You’re very welcome me me me me.
    I really hope the chemo goes well, fingers crossed.

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    Hi Me Me Me Me, sorry to read that you are not feeling sexy at the moment. I appreciate that it is all about confidence. Just wear something that you have always liked and feel comfortable in. Yes you could buy some lingerie that looks sexy, but you have to be comfortable in it.
    Keep your chin up and have confidence in your self. Best wishes.

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    Me me me me,

    I am sooo sorry about the OH, I really hope he can win that fight!

    About the lack of confidence, I know it can be hard, if you have some additional weight, I have it too. Although at this moment I am working towards getting rid of it.

    I do like the look of this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32855 but the sizing is on the smaller side, just up to 24. But I like the look and it would not be too revealing.

    Also this one looks good, but for me as ginger, it would have the wrong colour - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32654

    I always liked this one, but it is just too many sizes in one, and I am not sure it would fit you :-(

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11613

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    Laveila wrote:

    Me me me me,

    I am sooo sorry about the OH, I really hope he can win that fight!

    About the lack of confidence, I know it can be hard, if you have some additional weight, I have it too. Although at this moment I am working towards getting rid of it.

    I do like the look of this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32855 but the sizing is on the smaller side, just up to 24. But I like the look and it would not be too revealing.

    Also this one looks good, but for me as ginger, it would have the wrong colour - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32654

    I always liked this one, but it is just too many sizes in one, and I am not sure it would fit you :-(

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11613

    Thank you Lavelia

    They all look lovely, totally undestand what you mean with the last, personally with stuff like that which clame to fit such a huge range of sizes im rather sceptical about.

    Although i said 24-26 top i think out off habbit i do tend to wear stuff a little baggy, the whole going up a size making space for the bump and boobs, since having my youngest two which are only 2 & 3yrs and close together so still holding alot of the baby weight.

    Also i find it comes down to the brands also as a fair few i can wear between a uk size 20 up to 26 which makes it harded ordering. even a few bit's i've bought from here claiming to be the same size as each other have not been so sadly had to return.

    So it's the case of finding items which are more true to there size rather than going through the heartbreak that they don't fit.

    Im also trying to loose weight and improve on my health, but still need to have a boost in confidence and feel good about myself at the same time.

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    I am size about 18, so the last one should be fine for me, since I am on the lower side of the scale.But yes, those fit to x sizes tend to only work for those on the lower to mid section part of the scale, depending how the manufacter sizes it. And I know what you mean about sizing... 80% of my cloths is 18, even my lower part of the swimming suit, But I had to buy size 22 just to fit my bust in the top... Blew my mind off... And it was the same manufacturer...

    About the baggy cloths.. I am not a slim woman, but baggy makes it worse. I am not sure what your figure is, but I do have a typical pear shape, even as size 18 and the worst I can do is wear baggy. That just adds several kilos on top of I actually have. And unnecesarily makes my waist disappear.

    The cloths I look best in is those which emphasize my waist. Not sure about your figure, but maybe look for something which could flatter it?

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