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  1. Sexy Outfits for the Less Confident?!

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    carliexx [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi All! I'm new to the Forum but would like some advice from anyone out there that can give me some!

    Myself and my partner have been together for just over a year and we like to try new things. The problem is, as much as he tells me i'm sexy, i don't feel it! I'm very self conscious about my stomach and my legs but I really wanted to surprise him with a sexy outfit when he comes home one evening!

    Can anybody recommend a lingerie set/sexy clothing that i could order that would make me FEEL sexy?! I know it's a lot to ask because it's how you feel in yourself but i wondered if any other ladies have been in this position and have any suggestions?!

    Thank you in advance xx

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    A body stocking would be perfect as it covers tummy and legs 🙌 love honey do some gorgeous ones. I dislike my tummy after two babes but these skim over the bumps and are.flattering.

    I also love bodies and stockings and suspenders. So many lovely ones to choose from on here.

    I tend to find these make me more confident and have helped so much with forgetting about the insecurities xx

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Have to agree with the bodystockings idea.

    I am plus size, had body image issues most of my life.

    This https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32648 was my first LH purchase and I have made many since.

    Hope you find something you are equally happy with.

    BTW your avi is beautiful xxx

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    ScumptiousDumptious [sign in to see picture]
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    I recommend these basques . They come in plus sizes as well, also in red and black.
    They lift your boobs, the suspenders are removable, they fall about half way down your bottom. It covers your bulges and gives you gorgeous curves. The bones aren't stiff or painful. Comes with matching pants.
    So good I have both colours. I really feel sexy in them and they're (drum role please ) in the sale.

    hqttps://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37234

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    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    Aims85 wrote:

    A body stocking would be perfect as it covers tummy and legs 🙌 love honey do some gorgeous ones. I dislike my tummy after two babes but these skim over the bumps and are.flattering.

    I also love bodies and stockings and suspenders. So many lovely ones to choose from on here.

    I tend to find these make me more confident and have helped so much with forgetting about the insecurities xx

    Bodystockings are really super-sexy. Not only they "disguise" some of the areas you've issues with, but also give you a nice shape all around and scream sex-appeal. Some of them are so comfy as well that you can wear under your clothes for a bit of teasing. And they do give you a bit of a boost to your confidence.

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    HFVD [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello,

    My OH says similar things even though I think and tell her she is wonderful! We bought this outfit and it fits her perfectly (think she's an 18).
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36229
    It looks amazing on and fits perfectly not to mention how stunning she looks in it! Said it makes her feel sexy and confident. I've written a review for it if your interested.

    Good Luck! :)

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    Fun Louise [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello and welcome.

    Im not sure of your size, but If your a plus size this is fantastic https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37818 I absolutely love it. Coupled with a pair of stockings and you really will feel you can take on the world. I have never felt so confident and empowered as I did wearing this.

    Its made in base size but lovehoney don't stock it yet, but I'm hopeful they will as I have lost weight and the plus size is too big for me now.

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    lace21 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and welcome ☺
    As the others have suggested a bodystocking is great as is super sexy and covers you but also enhances at the same time, I myself am not that confident with my body but this makes me feel great! Also I have a french maids and nurse outfit and these are also great for helping boost the confidence and make you feel sexy. Good luck x

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    carliexx [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey everyone! Thank you so much for your comments, you've all been so helpful! Will have a look at all of your suggestions now, looking forward to giving my partner a nice surprise xx

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    I always feel instantly gorgeous in this: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30692

    Or a classic corset and stockings combo. If you're curvy like me, I always find going for a 50s bombshell look really makes the most of my curvy shape (especially as curves were all the rage back then!)

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    Lovehoney - Paige [sign in to see picture]
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    These always gives me instant confidence as well as being super comfortable and supportive! https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33912

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    carliexx [sign in to see picture]
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    Thankyou all for your help! I've had a look and saved some bits in my wish list that I'll be ordering soon! Much appreciated all and I'll update you with how it all went once I've given them a go! Xx

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    Heidi920 [sign in to see picture]
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    body stockings are amazing, I have one Sat in my basket at the moment! enjoy choosing x

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    carliexx [sign in to see picture]
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    I've got quite a few body stockings sitting in my basket so I'll be ordering a few! I'll review them all once I've given them a go! Let's just hope they work their magic ;) xx

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    Lovehoney - Kat [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi carliexx

    Following on from others reccomendations, I'd defintely say go for Lovehoney's own brand bodystockings; they're the best true to size fit, and hide a multitude of sins - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sexy-lingerie/lingerie-sets/bodystockings/all/lovehoney-lingerie/all/all/all/

    Although if you're looking to flatter your tummy area, a babydoll coupled with a pair of lace top hold ups is a sure fire winner. I love our new Barely There range which is slightly sheer for an extra sexy touch! Plus size - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37337 or up to 16 - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37336

    Feel free to get in touch with us at Customer Care if you'd like any more advise, we're always happy to help!

    Kat x

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    carliexx [sign in to see picture]
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    So I've placed an order for this one and I'm hoping it works it's magic!

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34585

    My other half is coming over on Friday so I'll be prepared and waiting!

    Thanks again for your help everyone

    C xxx

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    Lovehoney - Rebecca [sign in to see picture]
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    carliexx wrote:

    So I've placed an order for this one and I'm hoping it works it's magic!

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34585

    My other half is coming over on Friday so I'll be prepared and waiting!

    Thanks again for your help everyone

    C xxx

    Good choice!

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    Heidi920 [sign in to see picture]
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    carliexx wrote:

    So I've placed an order for this one and I'm hoping it works it's magic!

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34585

    My other half is coming over on Friday so I'll be prepared and waiting!

    Thanks again for your help everyone

    C xxx

    that's the one I have sat in my basket too! such a great price too. your OH will be sure to love it.
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    carliexx [sign in to see picture]
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    Ladies and Gents - thankyou again for your advice! My body stocking arrived yesterday and my OH came over to mine. As he went down to take the bin down, I changed into the body stocking with a pair of heels and looked in the mirror... at first I was very nervous and uncertain but as soon as he saw me in it the feelings went away! He loved it and has demanded that I order more! I felt sexier and more confident once I'd gotten past the initial nervous feeling!

    Thanks again all
    C xxx

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