• Sexy panties = sexy woman, big pants = not like sex sex

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    I think fashion often dictates as whats in and whats out. I have to say I was a tad dissapointed when the eighties style very high legged knickers went out of fashion to be replaced by the larger pants which I have got slowly used to and some of the lacey examples are very sexy. Choice is also quite personal. My Mrs prefers French knickers or pants that have a see through rear but doesn't like thongs unless wearing tight trousers for going out in.

    I have to say from recent personal experience you have to be careful with threads like this as they can easily get inflamed even though there is not intention to offend .

    But in answer to the question big pants doesn't mean any less sex IMO.

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    HappilyExperimenting [sign in to see picture]
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    I like all sorts of knickers but when I know I'll be seeing my OH I do like to make more concious effort when choosing my undies. I do have special big pants that are like granny knickers for my totm, they look like massive black bats on the washing line hehe.

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    Kittycat102 wrote:

    I find this thread kind of..I don't know..rude perhaps?

    +1, kinda offensive to those who like to wear 'big' knickers, it's like you're calling us prudes!

    So you can probably gather that I like to wear big panties. BUT, I also love sexy undies! I never just wear one or the other, I'll change it up every few days, and it also depends which undies are in the wash and which are clean and ready to wear.

    It has absolutely nothing to do with my sex drive. I want sex almost every day (or several times a day when I'm fertile and my hormones are going mad), but I don't like to wear uncomfortable underwear every day. I find thongs horrible to wear, but I love the way they look and the way they make me feel, but I'll only wear them a couple of times a week. I don't like the health risks associated with wearing thongs and certain materials too often either, but that isn't influenced by my sex drive.

    I just like to be comfortable, and when I'm comfortable I'm happy :) And when I'm happy, I feel sexy! I wear whatever underwear I want to make me feel good, my partner happens to think I look sexy in anything. I'm just as 'up for it' when I wear my big panties as I am when I wear my skimpy lace ones ;)

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    I think it's not always the size of knickers, it's the cut, the style and what they're made of

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    paulsballs wrote:

    I think it's not always the size of knickers, it's the cut, the style and what they're made of

    +1 Silk every time

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    mysteron wrote:

    paulsballs wrote:

    I think it's not always the size of knickers, it's the cut, the style and what they're made of

    +1 Silk every time

    I thought I would expand on my own post here . My favourite knickers that my Mrs wears are quite large French Knickers made out of silk. They have a sexy split up the sides and hang very lose . I enjoy it when she is on top of me wearing these as I can easily brush my hand up her thighs and bottom .

    These are probably her largest pants and IMO more sexy than some of her more skimpy lacy types. So what Paul is saying is bang on the money .

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    I have a bit of a problem with how much lingerie I own and I love to buy new panties or knickers as ya'll call them.

    So I have to agree to a certain aspect but also offer my insight:

    1. I like to match my panties and my bra. Now that is not always possible for a complete matching set but then I work to coordinate. If I am not matching I am generally feeling lazy and sick and just throw something on vs. really "dressing" myself up. That is definately a reflection of a "no sex" mood.

    2. I have underwear for certain purposes and often wear multiple pairs per day. I only wear cotton for working out and wont run / jog in a thong... way to uncomfortable!

    3. If I am trying to get more in the mood either for time with a partner or solo I will often go change into certain underwear to help my mood and to feel sexy.

    4. I have been buying more and more of the "cheekie" cut and just recently was gifted those awesome Lovehoney Flirty Lace Boyshorts and I love that cut because of how they make my bum look and offer more coverage in the front. And my partnter really likes those and finds them sexy so less is not always more for sexiness and comfort.

    Final note on "big panties" for you men on here: Sometimes a woman's health may also dictate her choice of underwear. A woman's body is a complex thing and certain fabrics, dye's or even styles of underwear may not be compatible for her to maintian proper vaginal health.

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    ^ uncalled for mate! (not going to quote as no doubt that post will be deleted...).

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    Yes, the tone just got well and truly lowered!

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    LadyS wrote:

    I think for some people this might be the case. I think if a woman is not interested in having sex she won't wear underwear that is going to encourage it I suppose. Whether that is a thong or a lacy short is down to the person she is with I guess.

    However, I had a rubbish sex drive with my ex, but always wore thongs because I found them comfier.

    Now my sex drive is very healthy and I wear all kinds of pants. The sexiest pants I seem to own at the minute are boyshorts with star wars or my little pony on them. I imagine to many people on here that sounds ridiculous, but I bought them with someone in mind and that person loves them. Hence they feel sexy as hell.

    But as a lady who loves the ladies I couldn't care less what pants a woman wears, I think they all have potential to look awesome :)

    Oh me want, Star wars ones, if they big and comfortable.

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    I wear different styles of knickers but nothing too sexy as yet. I have ordered my lingerie for my wedding for the day time and some black lingerie with crotchless knickers thrown in for our wedding night. My OH does not know about the black lingerie yet. I think it will cheer him up.

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    I love comedy knickers. I have ninja turtles, sponge bob, batman etc. I also have big high rib warmers that I wear when I just need to feel comfy like at work or Sundays. I also have lacey racey lingerie saved for special occasions. My knickers don't really define when I want sex or how much sex I have. Just what I choose that day or what's clean!

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    I wear what other people call "sexy" knickers almost every day. The exception is when exercising or during a long journey where I will wear something a little more plain and breathable (you know what I mean!) Occasionally, I don't wear any knickers at all.

    I think I enjoy sex as much as (or more than) the next person, and I think I am a sexy woman in a lot of ways - However! - I would hate for anyone to make any assumptions about my sex drive/desires based on the underwear (or hosiery, or shoes, or clothes, or make up) I choose to wear. Or any woman. That's a very slippery slope.

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    I both see the logic and can approve the basic theory.

    Im usually highly sexed and wear thongs or sexy lacy boyshorts ect. But if I feel fat or unsexy then big pants are an option. That and time of the month. In reality for women time of the month makes a big difference, and both affects their feelings of sexy as well as the practicality of bleeding like a stick pig. I'm one of a fortunate few that gets few periods thanks to my implant. But my friends all wear "big or period pants" when it's not a good time for them.

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    I just cant see th logic at all. There are some very nioce and sexy larger style knickers out there . Some stocked on here . thongs arn't always sexy in my mind .Any way its upto the idividual lady as to what she wears .

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    I think there may be a correlation. Advertisements for underwear tend to fall into two categories: sexy and comfy. Leading on from this I think the suggestion that people who wear "sexy" underwear more frequently might have a higher sex drive or think about sex more frequently could well be true. I have no evidence to back this up but anecdotally wearing more typically sexy underwear is the norm when expecting to have sex, at least in the early stages of a relationship.

    A correlation is very rarely perfect so even if this is accurate, you would expect it not to be for a proportion of women. I am definitely one of those women. It's extremely rare I wear "sexy" underwear because I prioritise comfort over everything else. Hell, I am usually in pyjamas (think of the kind your grandparents would buy you) when the person I am seeing comes round! I am most definitely highly sexed.

    Lovehoney is also a poor place to sample. The forum of a sex toy company will no doubt contain people with a substantial interest in sex. Given this, I would expect everyone, including those who rarely wear "sexy" underwear, to be very interested in sex.

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    i have all kinds of knickers,small large thongs

    just wear what i feel like at the time

    have found that my b/f doesnt mind what size they are in fact he tells me which type to wear which suits us both

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    My day to day underwear is plain cotton thongs but I wouldn't say they were sexy at all! I go for comfort. I find wearing Brazilian style underwear or pants uncomfortable when wearing tight jeans etc but quite happily wear them to bed.
    I have an average libido so don't see any connection with what type of underwear choices I have.

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    Interesting theory!

    I always have my fave knickers on, usually French knicker style, and always try to match colour of under punders with my bra! I would say I have a very high sex drive, however I do own a couple of "big pants" which I only wear to bed when it's that time of the month 😢 I hate them but OH says I am sexy in them , I'm still convinced he says that so he doesn't hurt my feelings, either way needs must!

    Lilmiss x

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