I persoanlly have not received one of these emails and if its happening its very worrying. No company should be passing on your details to any third party without your consent.
LoveHoney's terms and conditions clearly state the following anything outside of this is a breach of their policy and dataprotection.
Lovehoney Limited is compliant with the Data Protection Act. We will not pass on your details to any third party without your prior consent. We only use your personal information in accordance with our http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/privacy/.
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We may share your personal information with members of Lovehoney's group, which means our subsidiaries, our ultimate holding company and its subsidiaries.
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In addition to my previous post, I can confirm that I have actually received one of these emails from royal mail but there is no mention of LOVEHONEY.
Royal Mail has received your item from [THE SECRET PHRASE] (Tracking No: XXXXXXXXXXXXX) at XXXXXX Delivery Office. Your item is now ready for delivery and we'll attempt to deliver it today subject to any alternative instructions that you've previously agreed with us.
Having looked in to this further I dont beleive there is cause for alarm or panic, names and address have to be passed to couriers and royal mail inorder for goods to be delivered.
It would be different if Lovehoney were prining the contents of the box on the lable but they are not.