1. Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Egg Vibrator

    Remember that scene in the 2009 rom-com The Ugly Truth where Katherine Heigl’s character finds herself wearing a remote control vibrator at a restaurant?

    She’s trying to talk to her colleagues but she can’t stop squirming because the kid at the next table is playing with the remote.

    It’s a very uncomfortable and cringe-worthy scene in a not otherwise memorable movie, but I’ve secretly wanted to try a remote control vibrator ever since.

    Something about the idea of handing my partner the remote and giving them total control over my pleasure really gets me going.

    The Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Egg Vibrator seemed like the perfect way to live out this fantasy. Here’s what happened when it arrived…

    Tips for Writing Erotic Fiction

    Have you ever thought about writing your own erotic stories? Or maybe memoirs? Then you're not alone.

    Lots of people feel awkward about sharing their writing – understandably so, if you've ever read a comment section anywhere on the internet.

    It's scary to put yourself out there. But it can also be a huge turn-on, and ultimately rewarding.

    Even if your audience is just yourself and a lover, erotic writing is a great way to explore fantasies. Writing can relieve stress, and when you're doing it for fun, it can be a welcome break from academic assignments.

    If you've ever thought about putting pen to paper, or fingers to keyboard as it's now more often known (though it does sound slightly less romantic), here are some small steps to get you started.

    How to Explore BDSM When You're Single

    The BDSM community are a group who practise Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.

    If you’re interested in aspects of BDSM and you’re ready to further explore your sexuality – that’s great!

    If you have a partner or partners who want to go on this journey with you, then there are exciting times ahead. However, it can be hard to know where to start if you’re single.

    Here’s some advice for those of you who are sexy, single and ready to discover the world of BDSM.

    6 of the Best Toys for Couples

    Have you got a vibrator tucked away under the bed that your partner's never seen? Or perhaps your favourite Fleshlight never makes an appearance when your girlfriend comes over?

    Many of us have sex toys that we enjoy solo, but what about the ones that are designed to be used with another person?

    That’s yours, this is mine – it’s all overrated in my opinion. If you’re jumping in the sack with someone, it's time to share the love around.

    Lovehoney knows that sometimes it really does take two to tango, and that’s why they stock toys that are multiplayer.

    Here are six incredible couples’ toys that are sure to get two thumbs up from both of you.

    Pornography has come a long way over the past few decades. Well, maybe not so much in content, but in terms of accessibility.

    The fact is, most of the fantasies we see acted out in porn have existed for hundreds of years, but previously, you had to go to some lengths to see them. Like subscribing to 'specialist' magazines, or braving a seedy-looking sex shop in a back alley.

    With the internet age, our desires are at our fingertips.

    People who are curious about trying/viewing something other than vanilla sex are able to do so with more ease than they would have, say, thirty years ago.

    However, between the mainstream media, search engine algorithms and the influence of major pornography companies, it can be difficult not to become bored with the same ol' studio-filmed heteronormative perfect-bodied images flashing across our screens.

    Here are just some things we are tired of seeing in pornography:

    What Does it Mean to be Pansexual?

    Every time I come out as pansexual I have received comments like ‘Pfft, that’s not a real thing’, ‘So… you’re bi?’, ‘PANsexual?! Do you like pots too?’ or ‘What, you’re hot for Peter Pan?’.

    Trust me, I’ve heard it all.

    Even though I did have a huge crush on Jeremy Sumpter as a child and a non-stick frying pan does make my heart flutter, these remarks make me eye-roll so hard that in the moment, I choose to label myself as bisexual instead.

    After talking to some other pan-pals, I know my experience is pretty common.

    So, I’m here to shine a light on pansexuality, we’ll explore its definition, how it compares to other sexualities and I’ll give a bit of an insight to what it means for me to be pansexual.

    I recently found an old copy of Gary Chapman’s ‘The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate’.

    The pages are yellowed and some of the content is outdated, but overall it’s not a very sexy book.

    But just like any sex/relationship books I own, I like to see how things have changed over time (this book is almost 20 years old) and if any concepts can be applied to modern relationships.

    This book screams companionship and marriage issues, but I’m on a mission to steam it up and see how it can help in the bedroom.

    Gaz, I think you’re onto something – let’s do this together.

    What Does It Mean To Be Asexual

    We’ve all had those days where you just hate the idea of having sex.

    Sometimes it’s because of stress, or your period, or just because you ate an ungodly amount of spaghetti and feel ready to explode.

    You may have even heard people say things like ‘I’m so asexual right now’ or ‘I think I’ve turned asexual since my breakup’.

    But real asexuality isn’t just a temporary reluctance to have sex.

    It’s actually more like a sexual orientation, so instead of perhaps being attracted to two genders (bisexual), you’re attracted to no genders.

    Asexuality is one of the most misunderstood sexual orientations, so let’s clear up some of the myths and misconceptions about it once and for all.

    When you hear the term ‘erogenous zone’, what springs to mind? If your thoughts head directly below-the-waist, you’re not alone.

    We are all guilty of being a little too crotch-centric at times; focusing solely on the vagina or penis and forgetting to use other erogenous zones in the bedroom.

    An erogenous zone can be any area of the body that, when stimulated, gets you in the mood. That’s a pretty broad definition, which is good news!

    For those of you that want to spice things up, here are ten erogenous zones you may never have previously considered.


    6 Weeks of Sex: 6 Things to Try Over the Summer Break

    It’s finally time to crack out those swimming costumes that have been buried for months. Summer is here!

    In between all your fun at the beach, picnicking, relaxing at home, journeying abroad or working to save for next year, the summer break is a perfect opportunity to try out some new things and enjoy some true Danny and Sandy style summer lovin’.

    So whether you're committed, looking for love or single and living for it, here are some ideas to bring to the bedroom this summer.

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