Upgrade Your Sex Life [4/4]
on 22 Aug 2017
3: What Now?
So now you’re a pro, what’s next?
There’s always something new to discover when it comes to getting down and jiggy with it. Sex with a trusted partner can be a place where you can comfortably explore your wildest fantasies, provided you’re both on the same page.
Keep An Open Mind
There’s an ancient proverb - ‘don’t yuck my yum’.
When it comes to fantasies, fetishes and kinks, there’s a lot to choose from, and what may be one person’s cup of tea might be a total turn-off for someone else. Of course, that’s perfectly fine.
At the same time, if your partner suggests something you can try together that you don’t completely understand, discuss what they like about it - you may find that it shares similarities with your own naughtier bedroom antics. If it’s something you’re comfortable with, give it a go. Even if it’s not your thing, you may find that the fun your partner gets is a turn-on by itself!
Take It Outside
Sex in the open air can be a whole new experience - the breeze in your hair, the cold on your skin, the thrills of potentially getting caught... except, don’t get caught.
Subtlety is the key. Choose a location where you won’t be discovered: a tent, car or your own garden can be great places to start. Clothes that can be removed and replaced easily are top of your list, just in case you need to cover up quickly.
There are toys that are perfect for outdoors fun - remote control love eggs can turn a boring shopping trip into a mad dash to the closest covert location.
Remember, the general public wants nothing to do with your sex life - so be respectful!
Toys, Toys, Toys
Toys are an endless supply of sexual inspiration.
There’s always something new to try - if you’re a rookie, toys like bullets, cock rings, and love eggs are a great place to start: easy to introduce to your partner, or hide from prying eyes. Expand your horizons with butt plugs and strap-ons, or get tied up with bondage. There’s something for everyone.
Have a sit down, by yourself or with your partner, and get stuck in! Our Shopping Guides are a fantastic place to start planning your next sexual escapade if there’s simply too much choice - have fun!
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