Top 10 Disabled-Friendly Sex Toys

by Lindsay

on 1 Aug 2019

There's no one-size-fits-all way to experience sexual happiness – and with so many sex toys, bondage items, and sexy accessories at Lovehoney, your path to pleasure is practically endless.

That's why we've gone through a quarter of a million of our customer reviews to find the finest recommendations for differently-abled pleasure.

If you have a disability that makes intercourse, foreplay, or masturbation tricky, you may find one of our top 10 sex aids listed here can enhance your sexual happiness.

      1. Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer Chair

      Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer Chair


      By far the toys that receive the highest ratings from our disabled reviewers are position enhancers like this one.

      Durable and practical, it's usable in many different positions to reduce muscle strain and provide extra bodily support.

      What you say:

      "I suffer from a chronic pain condition that leaves my muscles and joints feeling stiff and sore, so I am always on the lookout for new ways to both spice up my sex life and ease any associated pain. [...] This seat allowed me to enjoy positions I previously could not enjoy and even allowed me to experiment with entirely new ones." - Fluffbags

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      2. BASICS Love Bullet Vibrator

      BASICS Love Bullet Vibrator


      There should be a bullet in every toy box: these tiny vibrators are light yet powerful enough to thrill almost any external erogenous zone.

      Battery-powered with one satisfying speed, this bullet is a quick and easy way to amp up foreplay, solo play and sex.

      What you say:

      "Perfect for those who might struggle with insertable toys because of movement issues or disability, as it can be moved easily with one finger." - AmbiguousBliss

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      3. Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo

      Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo


      Liberator makes soft, cushioned furniture designed to elevate and support the body during sex.

      The wedge and ramp combo makes finding – and staying in – a great sex position comfortable and easy.

      What you say:

      "I have a chronic health condition which means I deal with fatigue and muscle weakness. These wedges make getting into, and holding positions so much easier. The material is soft and non-slip so I don't have to work to stay in the right place!" - Lightowler

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      4. Lovehoney Venus Butterfly 10 Function Hands-Free Vibrator

      Lovehoney Venus Butterfly 10 Function Hands-Free Vibrator


      Hands-free or remote controlled toys like this one remove the need to press or hold a vibrator in the same position for a long time.

      Instead, after positioning the toy, you or your partner hold onto an ergonomic remote and explore vibration patterns that are sure to delight.

      What you say:

      "I suffer with fibromyalgia, which can make it difficult to do much or anything for any length of time, so this you came in handy to keep that spark. [...] This has become an every-time essential." - SJcouple

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      5. Fetish Fantasy Series 360 Degree Spinning Sex Swing

      Fetish Fantasy Series 360 Degree Spinning Sex Swing


      Sex swings take the idea of body support to a whole new level.

      They're sturdy enough to take your whole body weight and fully adjustable so you can enjoy complete comfort and great sex.

      What you say:

      "It really helps my wife because she is paralyzed from the waist down. [...] Fixed so many things the day it was hung up I'm not sure I could function right without one! Wouldn't want to." - Chris&Rusty

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      6. Lovehoney Luxury Orgasm Balm

      Lovehoney Luxury Orgasm Balm 30g


      If you're disabled, you may have reduced sensitivity in places you wish you didn't.

      Orgasm balms tingle the skin and heighten sensation when applied on sensitive areas like the nipples, the head of the penis, and the clitoris.

      What you say:

      "I think for anyone with decreased sensitivity (I take strong pain meds which can 'numb' me down there if I get my timing with a sex session wrong), this would help very much - it does for me anyway!" - LadySpider

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      7. Bondage Boutique Plush Sex Position Restraint with Cuffs

      Bondage Boutique Plush Sex Position Restraint with Cuffs


      A lot of our disabled reviewers haved talked about sex aids that take their weight and let them relax into a position.

      This is another restraint that does just that – using your own body weight, it lets you raise and keep your legs in the air without the need to strain your muscles to hold them in place.

      What you say:

      "My arthritis is in my hips & knees, with my back problems to it means a lot of positions are out of the question but this 'restraint' allows you to relax into the position so takes the pressure off your hips & lower back which is a huge help." - StayStrongLoveFun

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      8. Bodywand Mains Powered Wand Vibrator

      Bodywand Mains Powered Wand Vibrator


      Wands are super toys for anyone who likes ultra-powerful vibrations.

      They're also great because they have long handles and scroll wheels that make them easy to control for maximum pleasure.

      What you say:

      "Firstly, before I relive my experience with this wonderful toy, please let me tell you that I have a disability labelled "Cerebral Palsy" [...] So I switched it off, took it through to the bedroom, plugged it back in and had the best orgasm I've had in my life, and didn't even take my tights off!" - Tights Wearer

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      9. Lovehoney Oh! Purple Sensual Body Massager

      Lovehoney Oh! Purple Sensual Body Massager


      Sensual massages are intimate, relaxing and sensational, and everyone should be able to enjoy giving and receiving them.

      This handy tool makes it easier to knead your lover's muscles for longer.

      What you say:

      "If you aren't confident in using your hands when massaging, or if you have problems that stop you using your hands (such as arthritis), then this little beauty is for you." - Charliebee121

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      10. Impulse E-Stim Rechargeable Remote Control Kegel Exerciser

      Impulse E-Stim Rechargeable Remote Control Kegel Exerciser


      Not all disabilities are external or externally visible.

      A remote control love egg like this one can be instrumental in maintaining your pelvic floor and enjoyment of sex. Its E-stim functions also stimulate internal muscles for great results.

      What you say:

      "I'm paranoid about losing function in my pelvic area so over the last few years I've used quite a few manual balls and eggs. They're great and can be fun to use but I prefer e-stim as I know it gives great results. I've used the Tenscare iTouch and Mystim Tickling Truman that Lovehoney sells, but this is my favourite so far." - VR

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Written by Lindsay. Lovehoney Editorial Team
Lindsay has been Lovehoney's specialist sex toy writer since 2018.
Originally from Canada, Lindsay loves to champion diversity, support the LGBTQ+ community and celebrate all things sexuality.

Originally published on 1 Aug 2019. Updated on 5 Aug 2020