"The secret to good underwater sex," writes Suzi Godson in The Times, "is lots and lots of lube." Not water-based lubes, Suzi says, because they wash off, but silicone lubes which are resistant to water and will last and last and last.
Suzi recommends Sliquid Ride SIlicone Lubricant, because it's also vegan-friendly, non-toxic and free of glycerin and parabens.
Another good choice, she says, is Yes Organic oil-based lube which is packed with lovely things that are good for your skin.
If you're curious about anal sex but find the thought of being penetrated by something as big as a willy somewhat tear-inducing, try experimenting with a toy which gradually increases in girth, like the Spectra Gel Beaded Anal Vibrator.
The smaller beads at the end allow you to start off with a little gentle probing and with time you can build up to a fuller sensation with the larger beads.
Make sure to use a thick water-based lubricant such as Doc Johnson Anal Lubricant and go slowly. It really does make all the difference how gently you play.
The beaded texture also allows the muscles in your arse to close around the toy, holding it in place, so you get used to having something up there. As it's also a vibrator, you'll get some new and interesting sensations. Well worth exploring!
You can get sex tips in all sorts of funny places on the Internets. This disarmingly titled post popped up on Craigslist recently: "Just fucking fuck me, already."
"OK, I know it's scary. There are lots of women out there who make fucking really difficult. So, I have compiled some handy tips. Don't think of this as complaining, or as schadenfreude for the Andrea Dworkins of the world. Just some simple tips, for timid men who have forgotten what it means to fuck like men: "
What do we make of then, then?!
A little tender loving care will go a long way to ensuring your Fleshlight male sex toy will give you a life-time of enjoyment.
After use, remove the gel Fleshlight insert from the plastic canister and run hot tap water through it to remove fluid deposits.
Towel-dry or air-dry the gel insert.
The gel insert will feel tacky or sticky after washing - this is normal.
To restore the original silky feeling of the insert, powder it with corn starch. Powdering it is not necessary to care for the insert.
To properly re-position the gel insert inside the plastic canister, reach through the small end of the canister and pull the insert down into place.
This glass dildo is sublime for either solo masturbation or for use on your lover
If your man needs a little kick-start to bring about an orgasm, there is help at hand
Even though your leg muscles may get quite tired in this position, it'll be well worth it!
The prettiest dildo in town!
Some girls are finicky about going down on their man if they're not sure he's 100 per cent clean. We say, give him head in the shower!