• Crotchless Heart Thong

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Naked decorating…

    I've recently been painting my house and my fella has been exhausted from work and not fancying any action.

    To get his attention, every time I walked back into the room I'd already removed another bit of clothing - by the sixth time I was down to my thong and he could not get enough of me.

    So my tip is when decorating, do it naked. It has worked three nights running and has been out-of-this-world, mind blowing sex!

    A Bed of Roses

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    If you're married, make a romantic date - and then have great sex.

    Sometimes this is necessary for those of you who have kids and need to schedule time together. Just planning a romantic get together can get you in the mood for best sex ever.

    Also try coloured light bulbs (blue makes your skin look smooth and purple intensifies orgasms…) or light scented candles for romantic atmosphere. Flowers are a great way to add romance.

    Put some bouquets around the house or your room and put some petals on your sheets or in your bath.

    Lovehoney Dream Egg 10 Function Remote Control Vibrator

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Spice up shopping with a remote control love egg.

    We recently bought a remote control love egg. We thought it would be a great idea to use it while on our weekly shop at a certain superstore.

    It was fabulous, the remote was in my pocket and I kept zapping the button when my OH was not expecting it.

    Needless to say we were very horny when we got home and didn't have time to put the shopping away!

    We plan to spice up our shopping trips more regularly now as it makes a boring job very sexy.

    Get some handy hints on how to introduce a vibrator into your relationship here.

    Bondage Tape

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    For extra hot foreplay, simple bondage can be really fun.

    Wear a studded dog collar and stilettos ladies, then tie your lover to the bed head using anything you've got to hand: washing line, rope, string etc, or go for the ultimate, handcuffs or even bondage tape.

    Blindfold your lover with anything you have, then run different items up and down his naked body - I use things like a feather duster, followed by a scouring brush (Do be careful!), then a vibrator to rest on his balls… that's really good.

    Then ice, followed by your tongue - the mixture of cold and hot is a real winner. Just let your imagination run riot!

    Want to discover more about bondage? Learn more about bedroom bondage techniques here.

    Tracey Cox Supersex Mint Tingle Lube

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    This tip is for when your mouth is tired and you want to take a break without stopping.

    Lubricate the penis with a flavoured lubricant. Hold his penis firmly by the base of the penis with your thumb and pointer finger in a tight circle to force the blood to the head.

    Take your other hand and use your thumb and pointer finger to lightly slide up and down in a twisting motion. Then lightly run the tip of your tongue over the opening of his penis.

    Look at him lustfully as you lick the tasty lubricant off him. You will have him at your mercy!

    Check out Lovehoney's in-depth guide to choosing the right personal lubricant here.

    Dreamgirl Black Diamond Opaque Halter Bustier Set

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Surprise your partner with a sexy, slow, hands-on striptease show.

    Prepare well, get your music ready, making sure you've got a selection of songs that you love to move sexily to. Choose an outfit that is easy to take off (skin tight trousers are a big no-no).

    Skirts, dresses or anything with a zip or plentiful buttons should be easily slipped off. Hide some body lotion or baby oil in the area where you will perform for your partner.

    Whipped cream, ice cubes, chocolate sauce and champagne can all be options, too - but not all at once please :-)


    When your partner gets home or when you think the time is right, slip into your stripper outfit dim the lights, turn the music on and start moving provocatively in front of your loved one.

    Make sure it is a hands-on performance, let your partner help with stripping you down, but back off slightly when they get too greedy. You want to stay in control.

    When you are undressed uncover the body lotion (or your chosen liquid) put a bit on your bum and ask your partner to rub it in. Add lotion as often as you want - no part of your body should be left undiscovered!

    Licking whipped cream of my nipples has always been a great starter for more daring adventures during my stripteases.

    Sliquid Ride Silicone Lube "The secret to good underwater sex," writes Suzi Godson in The Times, "is lots and lots of lube." Not water-based lubes, Suzi says, because they wash off, but silicone lubes which are resistant to water and will last and last and last.

    Suzi recommends Sliquid Ride SIlicone Lubricant, because it's also vegan-friendly, non-toxic and free of glycerin and parabens.

    Another good choice, she says, is Yes Organic oil-based lube which is packed with lovely things that are good for your skin.

    Reader Tips: Anal sex advice

    If you're curious about anal sex but find the thought of being penetrated by something as big as a willy somewhat tear-inducing, try experimenting with a toy which gradually increases in girth, like the Spectra Gel Beaded Anal Vibrator.

    The smaller beads at the end allow you to start off with a little gentle probing and with time you can build up to a fuller sensation with the larger beads.

    Make sure to use a thick water-based lubricant such as Doc Johnson Anal Lubricant and go slowly. It really does make all the difference how gently you play.

    The beaded texture also allows the muscles in your arse to close around the toy, holding it in place, so you get used to having something up there. As it's also a vibrator, you'll get some new and interesting sensations. Well worth exploring!

    You can get sex tips in all sorts of funny places on the Internets. This disarmingly titled post popped up on Craigslist recently: "Just fucking fuck me, already."

    "OK, I know it's scary. There are lots of women out there who make fucking really difficult. So, I have compiled some handy tips. Don't think of this as complaining, or as schadenfreude for the Andrea Dworkins of the world. Just some simple tips, for timid men who have forgotten what it means to fuck like men: "

    What do we make of then, then?!

    How to look after your Fleshlight A little tender loving care will go a long way to ensuring your Fleshlight male sex toy will give you a life-time of enjoyment.

    After use, remove the gel Fleshlight insert from the plastic canister and run hot tap water through it to remove fluid deposits.

    Towel-dry or air-dry the gel insert.

    The gel insert will feel tacky or sticky after washing - this is normal.

    To restore the original silky feeling of the insert, powder it with corn starch. Powdering it is not necessary to care for the insert.

    To properly re-position the gel insert inside the plastic canister, reach through the small end of the canister and pull the insert down into place.

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