Many women think their ladybits are ugly or disfigured - let me reassure you that in 99.9% of cases they’re not, and luckily any man, or same-sex partner, who wants to become intimately acquainted with your nether regions is biologically programmed to find the sight, and smell, extremely arousing.
Could it also be that as your partner is 20 years older than you, he may feel a bit insecure or lack confidence when it comes to having sex with you?Julie Peasgood
First of all let me reassure you that you’re certainly not a freak, and you’re not alone in what you’re going through.Julie Peasgood
I don’t think you should feel either guilty or dirty about your need to masturbate. You obviously have a powerful libido.Julie Peasgood
When it becomes so difficult to hold an erection that it stops you having sex altogether, you may have what’s termed ‘erectile dysfunction’.Julie Peasgood
You’ve obviously been unlucky in love but are still willing to get yourself out there and find the right guy.Julie Peasgood
Let's look at the positives - you love your husband, you've enjoyed 14 years together and you want to spend the rest of your life with him.Julie Peasgood
I don't think losing your virginity is the main problem here, as I'm pretty sure you could go out on a Saturday night and sooner or later pull a girl.
Attractive, intelligent, talented and tattooed. You may never have heard of Zak Sabbath before, but after this interview you'll definitely be Googling his name and searching for preview clips.
Zak is one of the leading males in the alt porn industry. Having acted in porn for Vivid Entertainment and Bad Seed Productions, Zak's colourfully decorated body is becoming a regular and much appreciated sight for those who like their erotica to have some real grit and substance.
Not only does Zak star in porn but he produces some of the most amazing and unique art under his real name Zak Smith. In fact, the talented chap received an MFA from Yale University in 2001 and his newly released book We Did Porn is already highly rated and reviewed by those lucky enough to get their hands on a copy
We caught up with Zak to find out more…
Carly Drew: What are your feelings in regards to the porn industry right now, this second?
Zak Sabbath: I like it when it lets people who are smart make the movies they want, I don't like it when it doesn't.
CD: Very rarely do you see any natural light (unless it's an outside scene) so it's hard to figure out if porn is a naked 9 - 5 job or if you're all burning the midnight oil. What hours do you normally work on a porn film?
ZS: They usually try to shoot during normal business hours, but they're movies, and movies can sprawl sometimes.Julie Peasgood
Yes they do - and yes it's a lot to do with age! Many factors can cause vaginal dryness - it's extremely common.