• Dreamgirl Corrupt Policewoman Set

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…


    Fantasies are a must! My personal favourite?

    Getting pulled over by a traffic cop!

    An American traffic cop pulling me for speeding (you do have to use your imagination as a costume is impossible to get!).

    Outdoors on a car, being told what to do, feeling naughty… WOW! (Beware of real police! LOL!)

    Switch Strap-On Dildo

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Use a strap-on for better sex.

    My man loves to use a strap-on on me. He's not very long (he makes up for it in width) but with a strap-on he gets really turned on.

    One tip that we use is to put the strap-on lower than his own cock so that as he's servicing me, I can give him a hand job.

    This drives him wild and he explodes really quickly - the good thing for me though is that he can go all night using the strap-on.

    The Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex

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    5 quick blow job tips…

    Tip: Have some ice cream before giving a blow job, the cold sensation will drive your man through the roof!

    Tip: When giving a blow job, encircle your tongue around and around the helmet of his penis, meaning that you lick with the front and back of your tongue - it sends my husband wild.

    Tip: When I go down on my husband he likes me to lick down the shaft, when doing this I let my breasts slide down his legs and the feeling of my nipples drives him wild.

    Tip: When giving your man a blow job, have a hot drink and a cold drink to hand. Drink some of the hot drink, swill it round your mouth and then go down on him for a while. Then alternate and have some of the cold drink, and carry on giving him oral. Alternate again between the cold and the hot.

    Tip: While his penis is quite far in, gently (very very gently) just bite the shaft and drag yourself up. It shouldn't hurt - just makes a change that's all!

    Chocolate Body Paint

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    Surprise him with dipping chocolate and a blindfold!

    I like to surprise my husband from time to time. I get a few hours off work and go home armed with dipping chocolate and whipped cream.

    I usually make sure the blindfold is handy plus get a couple of his ties out of the cupboard for easy access. Then I dress in either something saucy or some special lingerie and wait for him to get in - I'm always waiting for him in the bedroom.

    Although I've planned all this, for him it's spontaneous which increases the passion. Plus I've been thinking about it all afternoon so can't wait to hear his key in the door!

    Sexy Long Blonde Wig

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    Disguising yourself for sexual encounters.

    I once watched an episode of Columbo where a female psychologist dressed herself up as a working girl and met her husband in order to seduce him. Actually she intended to murder him – but that is Columbo for you!

    But as an idea for spicing up your relationship it is a lot more fun without the murder. In fact you don't really need to go as far as being a working girl – but a wig to disguise yourself and a new name are essentials.

    If your partner has no regular haunts you will have to arrange to meet them somewhere and then turn up in disguise.

    Lelo Luna Bead Pleasure System

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Using masturbation practice to overcome one of the barriers to the simultaneous O.

    One of the reasons women tell me they miss when it comes to being able to orgasm simultaneously with their partners is simply that there is a range of different types of stimulation all coming at once and therefore it is very difficult to concentrate on actually cumming.

    If you are aiming for simultaneous orgasm you cannot take away the thrusting or you'll probably miss it for the man.

    And for the woman often the main stimuli driving them towards orgasm are the clitoral stimulation, their pulsing muscles, the intimacy of body contact, breast play, eye contact, mental fantasy etc.

    Crotchless Heart Thong

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Naked decorating…

    I've recently been painting my house and my fella has been exhausted from work and not fancying any action.

    To get his attention, every time I walked back into the room I'd already removed another bit of clothing - by the sixth time I was down to my thong and he could not get enough of me.

    So my tip is when decorating, do it naked. It has worked three nights running and has been out-of-this-world, mind blowing sex!

    A Bed of Roses

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    If you're married, make a romantic date - and then have great sex.

    Sometimes this is necessary for those of you who have kids and need to schedule time together. Just planning a romantic get together can get you in the mood for best sex ever.

    Also try coloured light bulbs (blue makes your skin look smooth and purple intensifies orgasms…) or light scented candles for romantic atmosphere. Flowers are a great way to add romance.

    Put some bouquets around the house or your room and put some petals on your sheets or in your bath.

    Lovehoney Dream Egg 10 Function Remote Control Vibrator

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Spice up shopping with a remote control love egg.

    We recently bought a remote control love egg. We thought it would be a great idea to use it while on our weekly shop at a certain superstore.

    It was fabulous, the remote was in my pocket and I kept zapping the button when my OH was not expecting it.

    Needless to say we were very horny when we got home and didn't have time to put the shopping away!

    We plan to spice up our shopping trips more regularly now as it makes a boring job very sexy.

    Get some handy hints on how to introduce a vibrator into your relationship here.

    Bondage Tape

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    For extra hot foreplay, simple bondage can be really fun.

    Wear a studded dog collar and stilettos ladies, then tie your lover to the bed head using anything you've got to hand: washing line, rope, string etc, or go for the ultimate, handcuffs or even bondage tape.

    Blindfold your lover with anything you have, then run different items up and down his naked body - I use things like a feather duster, followed by a scouring brush (Do be careful!), then a vibrator to rest on his balls… that's really good.

    Then ice, followed by your tongue - the mixture of cold and hot is a real winner. Just let your imagination run riot!

    Want to discover more about bondage? Learn more about bedroom bondage techniques here.

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