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    I think all guys like getting blow jobs. We don't really expect girls to be able to deep throat but there are a few things that girls can do to pretend.

    Firstly, licking over the whole shaft is good. Suck on the head, or as much as you can get into your mouth, and put your hand around the base.

    If you move your mouth up and down then move your hand with it. It will feel to him like you're deep throating. Maintain the illusion by blindfolding him while you work.

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    Spank Ties Through national newspapers, weekly magazines and on daytime television shows, we are inundated by advice from sexperts telling us the dos and the don'ts of our relationships and love lives. This weekly update is here to take all that information and glean the best bits from it, leaving you with the hottest advice and the top tips!

    The Metro reports this week on the subject of spanking.

    Lisa Scott explains: Peter Jones is a solicitor in his fifties and lives in London. He claims to be one of the most feared yet sought-after men in London. Why? Because beautiful women want to be put over his knee and spanked.

    Many say they enjoy the pain because it releases endorphins. Others, say the humiliation is cathartic - something Jones believes is true. He meets various women who ask him to help them quit smoking, stop spending on their credit cards and lose weight.

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    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Spanking can be good fun in the bedroom. A good way to find out if you like it is to playfully pull your partner over your knee when you're messing around.

    Start with light spankings with your hand. This is often as far as your partner will want to take it. My wife enjoys this but doesn't like hard spankings. On the other hand, I do enjoy it harder.

    If you find that you like harder spankings experiment with whether hand spanking is hard enough, and whether it hurts the other partner's hand too much.

    To go harder try a variety of paddles. Some are very soft and bendy, others are more rigid. Try slapping them against your hand to find out roughly how it will feel when bent over.

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    My fiancé really gets a kick out of this, and for a woman who doesn't like to spend a lot of time giving oral to a man, this is for you.

    First, start out with the foreplay, the neck, then nipples, then caress the front part of the hips ever so lightly with your nails or tips of your fingers (not too long or it will tickle).

    Gently lick the very middle of his balls up and down, then lick the balls in a swirl motion one at a time. Now swirl your tongue around the tip of the penis, tease him a little.

    After that, place your tongue flat on the tip and move it side to side really fast, you'll have to move your head side to side if you really want it to work.

    Finally, give him what he wants and place your right hand on his shaft and move it up and down.

    Don't slide your hand, just move it while you are giving him a blow job, then when your jaw gets tired, make sure the penis is wet, and slide your hand up and down while licking the tip, preferably the very bottom of the tip.

    While doing that, caress his balls, the part in between the balls and the anus, or the anus, depending on what he's comfortable with; you can also caress the inside of his groin.

    Keep going back and forth between the two techniques. It never takes me longer than 10 minutes to get his toes curling.

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    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips…

    Both your ability to orgasm, and the amount of pleasure you receive from them, isn't a static thing. You have the power to vastly improve both.

    One of the best ways you can do this is by making sure that your pelvic floor muscles are strong.

    You may have heard about exotic strip shows in foreign lands where women are able to do 'tricks' with their vaginas (like picking up coins, or squirting water at patrons).

    They're able to do this because they've trained and strengthened their PC muscles (or pelvic floor muscles - official name, pubococcygeus muscles) to a point where they have total control of how they use them.


    I'm not suggesting that you learn how to pick coins up off the floor with your vagina in order to thrill your boyfriend (though of course you can), but I am suggesting you do the very same exercises in order to reap the great benefits.

    Strengthening your PC muscles (which are those that surround the opening of the vagina) not only makes your vagina tighter, it can also increase the pleasurable sensations your vagina feels during intercourse, the intensity of the orgasms you experience, and both in turn will increase your sexual confidence.

    It can be done anywhere, at anytime (in order to do them you simply pretend you need to stop peeing). Try having him do this after you've done the exercises for a week or two and see the difference it makes!

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    Reader Tips: You give us your favourite sex tips

    My number one sex tip is really for couples in a reasonably long term relationship. Once that initial excitement and urgency has started to fade the most important thing is to make time for sex.

    That's not to say that it's important to do it every second Sunday.

    It's just important that you both understand that it takes time to get in the mood properly and make love properly so that you're both satisfied.

    It's no good leaving it to the end of the evening when you've got to be up for work the next morning. If you're in the mood and your partner isn't try some seduction.


    Take your time over it. Don't necessarily always expect it to work and don't try to force the other person.

    I'd rather have good sex once a month with my wife than every day if it's rushed and neither of us are really into it.

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    Bathtime bubble fun!

    Fill the bath halfway, then pour plenty of bath gel/bubble lotion over each other's bodies.

    He is lying down in the bath, lie on top of him and, instead of going for penetrative sex, stimulate each other to climax by rubbing your body on his.

    Nice way to get clean and have fun!

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    My sex tip is when pleasuring a man's penis, place your hand firmly on the penis.

    Then gently move your hand up and down in an 's' shape. Men go wild for this.

    Also when you give a man a blow job, nibble on the end of his penis gently with your teeth.

    And I mean gently, this will give him a fantastic sensation!

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    Ever woken up during the night feeling horny?

    As men tend to get a lot of erections while they sleep don't be afraid to feel his cock while he's in the land of nod and if it is half erect or better, slowly and gently wank him; he will love this and both of you are free from the pressure of having to perform.

    Irrespective of if he shoots his load or just gets very wet with lots of pre-cum this is a very enjoyable experience!

    Don't forget, you only need one hand to wank his cock so don't waste your free hand!

    A quick bit of clitty play is usually enough to make it worthwhile… and you get a good sleep afterwards!


    Let him know that you would like something similar on certain nights… it's a lovely feeling, your nipples being teased while you slumber, having your bottom stroked tenderly and feeling a tongue on your pussy… I've orgasmed several times while being in slumberland and it's wonderful.

    I've even had anal sex and my hubby orgasm inside me in this state and enjoyed it… yet will not let him in normal state. You need the right relationship or some would label it abuse, but if you've ever had this type of sex, it's like a very sexy dream!

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