The main problem is that there may be bacteria on the toy - which could introduce infection into the vagina, so make sure it's 100% clean.
It can be surprisingly difficult to talk frankly about your desires, even if you’ve known someone for years.
You can never underestimate the skill required to deliver a fantastic hand job - here are a few simple tips that will help to drive him wild.Julie Peasgood
It sounds as though she can’t manage to say ‘No’ to him - with the result that his demands have become more and more extreme.Julie Peasgood
Stress, heavy drinking, smoking, and a lot of spicy, animal or dairy products all affect the way we smell.
Many women think their ladybits are ugly or disfigured - let me reassure you that in 99.9% of cases they’re not, and luckily any man, or same-sex partner, who wants to become intimately acquainted with your nether regions is biologically programmed to find the sight, and smell, extremely arousing.
Could it also be that as your partner is 20 years older than you, he may feel a bit insecure or lack confidence when it comes to having sex with you?Julie Peasgood
First of all let me reassure you that you’re certainly not a freak, and you’re not alone in what you’re going through.Julie Peasgood
I don’t think you should feel either guilty or dirty about your need to masturbate. You obviously have a powerful libido.Julie Peasgood
When it becomes so difficult to hold an erection that it stops you having sex altogether, you may have what’s termed ‘erectile dysfunction’.