1. One of the most common sex toy questions we get asked is "how do I care for my Fleshlight?"

    Like many sex toys, a good scrub under warm water followed by a spritz of antibacterial sex toy cleaner keeps your toy fresh.

    But have you noticed how real feel toys, like Fleshlight, THRUST and TENGA, don't feel the same after cleaning?

    In this weeks YouTube video, Jess gives you step-by-step instructions for how to clean your realistic sex toy and maintain its soft skin-like feeling.

    (Hint: use renewer powder!)

    What is Liberator?

    Liberator are a brand of sex furniture who specialise in sex position cushions for easier, more satisfying sex.

    Now you might be thinking: "I can use any old cushion for sex - I don't need a special sex pillow to improve my sex life", but you'd be wrong.

    Liberator have every base covered, from ensuring their cushions provide ample, reliable support of two bodies in motion, to making sure clean up is hassle-free.

    Their renowned wedge-shaped cushions all boast an orgasm-inducing 27° angle that makes precise G-spot contact and deeper penetration a cinch.

    Plus, they take the strain off of more complex sex positions, allowing you to experiment more, play for longer, and increase your chances of climax. Hooray!

    To help you get the most out of your Liberator, we've listed four of our favourite ways to use one below...

    4 Ways to Turn Yourself on Without Using Porn

    In the 21st century, pornography and erotica are never more than a Google search away.

    For as long as the internet has existed people have used it to find porn, and the availability and range of content means that online porn and erotica seem to be most people's preferred way of getting in the mood.

    But looking at porn isn't the only way to turn yourself on. There are lots of ways to get yourself excited without any need for your favourite adult website.

    Tumblr's ban on pornographic content at the end of 2018 got me thinking about some of these alternative ways to turn yourself on.

    Here are some of my suggestions for when you're on your own and ready to get a little raunchy...

    Position of the week: Tip to Toe

    Finally, it's here: the much-anticipated part 2 of our Sexy Valentine's Date Night ideas video!

    Last week we showed you sexy bath bombs and inventive ways to set the scene for romance.

    This week, we're looking at mutlitasking candles that do far more than just smell nice and make you look good, and fun ways to keep the intimacy alive all year round.

    Missed part 1? Watch it here.

    Shop the vlog and read the rest of the blog here.

    Sensory Deprivation: What Is It and How Can It Improve Sex?

    Normally when you’re having mind-blowing sex, you don’t want to miss a thing.

    The way your lover looks, the feel of their skin against yours, the naughty words they’re whispering into your ear.

    So why would you want to try sensory deprivation?

    While the term suggests you’re missing out on something, sensory deprivation during sex is actually more like taking part in a trade.

    By momentarily sacrificing one of your senses, you could end up having the raunchiest sex of your life.

    When I read the words 'sensory deprivation', I immediately think about those tanks of salt water you can pay to float in at spas and shopping centres (I can't help myself).

    But this isn't the kind of sensory deprivation we're talking about.

    Position of the week: Head Over Heels

    Valentine's Day: love it or hate it, it's happening on the 14th of February.

    Now, we believe that being romantic shouldn't be limited to just one day, but who doesn't love an extra excuse to get sexy with a friend? (And yes, that friend can absolutely be yourself!)

    In this weeks YouTube video, Jess and Roy are looking at some of their favourite sex toy gifts for Valentine's Day, as well as some unique ways to present them to you lover.

    Think we missed a trick? Come back next week for part 2 where we come up with even more inventive ways to surprise your Valentine this year.

    Shop the vlog and read the rest of the blog here.

    SingleMansSexualSelfCareGuide

    With all the other things going on in our lives - work, family, socialising, and not to mention sleeping - it can be easy to let taking care of your sexual self slide.

    But just like skincare, haircare, eating right, and exercising, sexual self-care is important to keep yourself happy and healthy.

    So whether you decide to treat yourself to some brand-spanking new sex toys for men or get stuck into some new reading material, here are 5 ways to fit in some very special 'you time', and really up your sexual satisfaction.

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