In the 21st century, pornography and erotica are never more than a Google search away.
For as long as the internet has existed people have used it to find porn, and the availability and range of content means that online porn and erotica seem to be most people's preferred way of getting in the mood.
But looking at porn isn't the only way to turn yourself on. There are lots of ways to get yourself excited without any need for your favourite adult website.
Tumblr's ban on pornographic content at the end of 2018 got me thinking about some of these alternative ways to turn yourself on.
Here are some of my suggestions for when you're on your own and ready to get a little raunchy...
With all the other things going on in our lives - work, family, socialising, and not to mention sleeping - it can be easy to let taking care of your sexual self slide.
But just like skincare, haircare, eating right, and exercising, sexual self-care is important to keep yourself happy and healthy.
So whether you decide to treat yourself to some brand-spanking new sex toys for men or get stuck into some new reading material, here are 5 ways to fit in some very special 'you time', and really up your sexual satisfaction.