Our libidos can go into cold storage for a whole host of reasons - stress, tiredness, negative body image, depression and some prescription drugs (like antidepressants, antihistamines, etc) can all dampen our ardour.
It's important to realise that the occasional dry spell is natural and nothing to worry about - we all have different levels of desire and they change according to our circumstances. Here's how to revive your sex drive in 7 steps…
The entirety of June is orgasm month here at Lovehoney and what better way to celebrate than with some top tips from Lisa Turner - the UK's first Orgasm Coach.
Using some special techniques and your own personal energy, you can learn to not only enjoy longer, more intense orgasms but use the energy they create to lead a more fulfilling life too.
We caught up with Lisa and asked her to give us her top tips for living orgasmically:
Penis size is a sensitive subject that society tends to place a great deal of importance on, but the truth is that a penis of almost any size can satisfy a woman.
Loss of libido after childbirth is incredibly common - it's nature's way of making sure we pace ourselves between children!
This week Lovehoney's very own head buyer, Bonny Hall, was featured in the Daily Mirror discussing what it's like to work for the UK's best online sex toy retailer and what sex tips she's picked up along the way.
Talking about her humble beginnings at Lovehoney, Bonny said:
"The first time I walked into the Lovehoney warehouse about five years ago I couldn't believe my eyes - I'd never even seen a vibrator let alone some of the other stuff that filled its shelves. I was so embarrassed.
Neal and his partner Richard Longhurst had been in business for a year at that stage and I was their first employee.
Everything was a real mess. The warehouse wasn't alphabetically organised, it was arranged by which orifice a toy was designed for!"
Several years later and not only has the warehouse increased to an unbelievably large size and been re-organised by the popularity of the products, but Bonny has also become the go-to-girl for any and all information about sex and sex toys.
Bonny buys lots of weird and wonderful products from all over the world and makes sure they're ready to go within minutes of them arriving in the building, ensuring you get the right sex toy for you.
Here are just a few of Bonny's brilliant sex tips that she's picked up since working for Lovehoney:
Bullet vibrators are small, discreet and unobtrusive making them a brilliant addition to foreplay or sex and best of all - they won't intimidate your partner, like some of our bigger products do!
If you want to learn to talk dirty, buy an erotic book. Not only will the saucy stories give you some very hot inspiration but reading scenes out to your partner is sure to be the start of a great night in.
Being adventurous in bed can be difficult, especially if you don't know where to start. Buying a naughty game like Monogamy is not only a lot of fun but it will introduce you and your partner to a whole new world of sexy ideas!
Bonny Hall is immortal and has been working as the head buyer at Lovehoney for over five years. She is also a stealthy ninja and only eats food that has been named after mythical beings, so mainly fairy cakes and Angel Delight.
Talking dirty during sex can be a fantastic turn-on, and communicating with your partner about what specifically arouses you will bring you both closer.
Low libido is one of the most common sexual problems and, thankfully, one that can be treated. Our libidos can take a nose-dive for a whole host of reasons.
You are part of an increasing number of couples discovering the excitement and satisfaction for both partners that female-male penetration can offer.
A man that can give his lover amazing oral sex will have a partner that's putty in his hands. Here's 5 simple tips to make her purr with pleasure.
Firstly, you're not alone - so please don't worry. There are so many variables that affect whether or not a women can orgasm - we're a lot more complex than men when it comes to climaxing.