• Since having my children I've gone right off sex. How can I go back to wanting and enjoying sex?

    Loss of libido after childbirth is incredibly common - it's nature's way of making sure we pace ourselves between children!

    How To Make Your Sex Life Sizzle - Sex Advice from Lovehoney's Bonny Hall

    This week Lovehoney's very own head buyer, Bonny Hall, was featured in the Daily Mirror discussing what it's like to work for the UK's best online sex toy retailer and what sex tips she's picked up along the way.

    Talking about her humble beginnings at Lovehoney, Bonny said:

    "The first time I walked into the Lovehoney warehouse about five years ago I couldn't believe my eyes - I'd never even seen a vibrator let alone some of the other stuff that filled its shelves. I was so embarrassed.

    Neal and his partner Richard Longhurst had been in business for a year at that stage and I was their first employee.

    Everything was a real mess. The warehouse wasn't alphabetically organised, it was arranged by which orifice a toy was designed for!"

    Several years later and not only has the warehouse increased to an unbelievably large size and been re-organised by the popularity of the products, but Bonny has also become the go-to-girl for any and all information about sex and sex toys.

    Bonny buys lots of weird and wonderful products from all over the world and makes sure they're ready to go within minutes of them arriving in the building, ensuring you get the right sex toy for you.

    Here are just a few of Bonny's brilliant sex tips that she's picked up since working for Lovehoney:

    Lovehoney 7 Function Magic Rabbit 2.0 Bullet VibratorBullet vibrators are small, discreet and unobtrusive making them a brilliant addition to foreplay or sex and best of all - they won't intimidate your partner, like some of our bigger products do!

    If you want to learn to talk dirty, buy an erotic book. Not only will the saucy stories give you some very hot inspiration but reading scenes out to your partner is sure to be the start of a great night in.

    Being adventurous in bed can be difficult, especially if you don't know where to start. Buying a naughty game like Monogamy is not only a lot of fun but it will introduce you and your partner to a whole new world of sexy ideas!

    Bonny Hall is immortal and has been working as the head buyer at Lovehoney for over five years. She is also a stealthy ninja and only eats food that has been named after mythical beings, so mainly fairy cakes and Angel Delight.

    My wife (of 19 years) and I would like to know more about talking dirty. What do you suggest?

    Talking dirty during sex can be a fantastic turn-on, and communicating with your partner about what specifically arouses you will bring you both closer.

    I have a low libido and struggle to orgasm, which is made worse due to medication. Any advice?

    Low libido is one of the most common sexual problems and, thankfully, one that can be treated. Our libidos can take a nose-dive for a whole host of reasons.

    My wife and I enjoy strap-on sex but I worry about the size of the toys she's buying.

    You are part of an increasing number of couples discovering the excitement and satisfaction for both partners that female-male penetration can offer.

    Lick it better! 5 Ways To Give Her Great Oral Sex

    A man that can give his lover amazing oral sex will have a partner that's putty in his hands. Here's 5 simple tips to make her purr with pleasure.

    My partner and I have trouble achieving orgasms. What can we do?

    Firstly, you're not alone - so please don't worry. There are so many variables that affect whether or not a women can orgasm - we're a lot more complex than men when it comes to climaxing.

    My partner has a problem with latex - can you recommend any non-latex condoms?

    There are several non-latex condoms on the market. The most widely available is the Durex Avanti, which is made from polyurethane.

    Pucker Up! A Better Blow Job In 6 Easy Steps

    Giving a great blow-job is one of the most pleasurable things you can do to your man. These easy-to-follow hints and tips will help make it better for both of you!

    The Earth AngelYou probably recycle your metal, glass, paper and cardboard already, but if you're looking to extend your eco-warrior credentials to other areas of your life, then you can pick up some top tips from this guide to green sex toys.

    Recycle, Recycle, Recycle… Then Recycle Some More!

    In August 2007, Lovehoney set up the Rabbit Amnesty Sex Toy Recycling Scheme and since then, over 5 tonnes of used vibrators have been disposed of in an ethical and completely green way.


    So instead of throwing out your old rabbit and hoping that the bin men don't find it, send it in to us and we'll recycle it in a totally discreet and eco-friendly way. And in return for your brilliant earth-kind actions, you can get one of our top rated Jessica Rabbit Vibrators for just half the price!

    The Earth Angel

    Bring the Outside, In

    Everyone likes a good frolic outside when the sun is shining and the flowers are in bloom and now there's no reason you can't bring a little of that natural goodness into your bedroom, especially when it comes to lubricants.


    Sliquid have recently developed an organic range of lubricants which don't contain glycerine, parabens, aspartame or petroleum and are completely 100% vegan. So not only are they body-friendly but they're Earth-friendly too - they even contain certified organic extracts!

    If that has piqued your interest, you may want to take a look at the Yes range of organic lubricants as well. These discreet little bottles of silicone, oil and water-based lube meet the Soil Association Organic Standard, are Vegetarian Society-approved and are made from all natural ingredients including hypoallergenic aloe vera.

    The Earth Angel

    Sustain Your Pleasure!

    Battery operated sex toys have an active life from anywhere between 35 minutes to a few years. The internal parts work well in the beginning, but after repeated use the battery connectors start to wear down.


    With The Earth Angel Vibrator, you need never buy another battery again! This clever 100% eco-friendly sex toy works on wind-up power alone and will outlast any other sex toy you own!

    By twisting the base for just 4 minutes, you'll have half an hour of intensely stimulating, vibrating power! But if you're thinking that having to wind-up your favourite vibrator for 4 minutes before you actually get busy is too much like hard work, you'll be pleased to hear that it can also be charged up via USB too!

    The Earth Angel

    Got Wood?

    We have. NobEssence wooden dildos we mean!


    These surprisingly smooth, splinter free sex toys are made of wood sourced from sustainable and responsibly managed forests. And if that isn't enough, they are also finished with a phthalate-free, odourless, colourless coating which forms an impermeable barrier to chemicals and bacteria.

    Available in several shapes and designs, there is a NobEssence wooden dildo for everyone! The Romp is ideal for prostate stimulation, whilst the Long Fling will without a doubt be your G-spot's new best friend!

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