My previous misconceptions of Tantric sex involving marathon coupling sessions that only Sting has time for, have given way to a new found respect. This is an ancient Indian practice that promises increased energy.
Tantric sex also helps provide a sense of well-being and greater intimacy for couples - physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Your partner certainly isn't the only one with these thoughts, but my advice is that the reality here can be very different from the fantasy.
As you're so precise about the date your sex life started dwindling it seems likely that there is a specific reason or event behind this.
The anal area isn't self-lubricating, so it's absolutely essential to use a thick, gooey, silicone - or water-based lubricant (both latex-friendly for condoms).
Your husband knows he's not fulfilling you sexually which is probably a serious confidence blow for him - as it would be for any man - and it needs to be remedied.
No you're not strange - and I'm really pleased for you that your sex life is getting better and better! Masturbating in front of each other takes courage.
I recently saw a documentary in which a man far older than you experienced huge relief at being freed from a lifetime of pain by having a circumcision.
Our libidos can go into cold storage for a whole host of reasons - stress, tiredness, negative body image, depression and some prescription drugs (like antidepressants, antihistamines, etc) can all dampen our ardour.
It's important to realise that the occasional dry spell is natural and nothing to worry about - we all have different levels of desire and they change according to our circumstances. Here's how to revive your sex drive in 7 steps…
The entirety of June is orgasm month here at Lovehoney and what better way to celebrate than with some top tips from Lisa Turner - the UK's first Orgasm Coach.
Using some special techniques and your own personal energy, you can learn to not only enjoy longer, more intense orgasms but use the energy they create to lead a more fulfilling life too.
We caught up with Lisa and asked her to give us her top tips for living orgasmically:
Penis size is a sensitive subject that society tends to place a great deal of importance on, but the truth is that a penis of almost any size can satisfy a woman.