You’re one of the lucky women who enjoy female ejaculation - also known as ‘gushing’ or ‘squirting’.Julie Peasgood
It’s much easier to put a ring on before you’re erect - especially the one that goes around both your penis and scrotum.
Just because you're not wet it doesn’t mean you’re not interested. A little lubrication can go a long way in improving your sex life.
Recently a customer posted a thread in the Lovehoney Forum about female dominance. Her partner was asking her to be more dominant in bed and she wanted to know how to go about this without hurting him. It raised a little alarm in my mind. Do people really equate dominance with inflicting pain? Living in my own little bubble I presumed that the world of dominance had much more understanding.
Negative images of bondage often begin with the idea that anyone into such stuff must be a ‘pervert’. But there is nothing shameful or wrong about having a taste for bondage, and accepting this is the first step to a kinkier sex life. The BDSM world is often misrepresented by the general media, giving us a distorted view on what it means to engage in 'alt. sex'. The myths surrounding BDSM are almost exclusively spawned from the extreme depictions that are commonly circulated and have gone some way to giving the scene its reputation as a seedy sexual underworld.
You don’t say whether it’s a new problem. If she’s always been like this, it may be because of some misplaced ideas about sex.Julie Peasgood
An orgasm is actually a reflex reaction - and we can learn how to stimulate ourselves sufficiently so that one is naturally triggered.Julie Peasgood
You don’t mention the size of the butt plug. If you’re using one for the first time, then I suggest something small and slim.