A man’s sexual performance is always going to be a sensitive subject, and very much tied up with his ego, but that doesn’t mean it’s off limits for discussion.
Backinthesaddle posted to our forums today after some prostate play failed to produce the desired results. As ever, our Orgasm Army have come up with some excellent advice to help Backinthesaddle and others make the most of the prostate or P-spot.
More and more people are enjoying the pleasures of sensual spanking - it's a great way to build sexual tension in the bedroom.
What is the spray called that you can use when giving blow jobs to your partner to stop you gagging?Julie Peasgood
The spray is Chloraseptic throat spray which anaesthetizes the throat - or some people find children’s teething gel also helps.Julie Peasgood
This situation must be incredibly frustrating - and not just sexually. It sounds as though you’re being very patient - perhaps a little too patient.Julie Peasgood
You’re in good company! Strap-ons are becoming increasingly popular with more couples looking to add an extra dimension to their sex lives.Julie Peasgood
If your girlfriend wants to avoid the risk of losing clitoral sensation she should consider having her clitoral hood pierced, rather than the clitoris itself.
The natural acidity of your vagina seems to be off balance, so first and foremost see your GP for a prescription to get things back to normal.
Porn is well discussed in the blogosphere, with information readily available on everything from the best scenes to how to become a porn star.
In fact, some of the most frequently asked questions to our experts and on the Lovehoney forums revolve around porn which shows, yet again, that it is a popular subject with many issues surrounding it.
One of Lovehoney’s fans asked:
“My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and I think it’s starting to rub off on our sex life. He keeps bringing weird moves that he’s seen online into the bedroom and I’m not sure what to make of it. Help!?”
Rather than just point to our regular tried-and-tested advice, we thought we’d get the opinion of fabulous male sex blogger, Jake of Facts and Friction, to help out with this tricky situation…
Jake of Facts and Friction explains:
Porn can be great fun, and we all know it certainly has its uses, but it's important for everyone to remember that porn scenes are much more of just a visual performance than a how-to guide. With this in mind, lets discuss what porn can teach everyone, and what should stay firmly behind the screens…
I’d say half an hour maximum - but preferably only 20 minutes. Cock rings can be great for sustaining erections, but dangerous if left on for too long.