This situation must be incredibly frustrating - and not just sexually. It sounds as though you’re being very patient - perhaps a little too patient.
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You’re in good company! Strap-ons are becoming increasingly popular with more couples looking to add an extra dimension to their sex lives.Julie Peasgood
If your girlfriend wants to avoid the risk of losing clitoral sensation she should consider having her clitoral hood pierced, rather than the clitoris itself.
The natural acidity of your vagina seems to be off balance, so first and foremost see your GP for a prescription to get things back to normal.
Porn is well discussed in the blogosphere, with information readily available on everything from the best scenes to how to become a porn star.
In fact, some of the most frequently asked questions to our experts and on the Lovehoney forums revolve around porn which shows, yet again, that it is a popular subject with many issues surrounding it.
One of Lovehoney’s fans asked:
“My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and I think it’s starting to rub off on our sex life. He keeps bringing weird moves that he’s seen online into the bedroom and I’m not sure what to make of it. Help!?”
Rather than just point to our regular tried-and-tested advice, we thought we’d get the opinion of fabulous male sex blogger, Jake of Facts and Friction, to help out with this tricky situation…
Jake of Facts and Friction explains:
Porn can be great fun, and we all know it certainly has its uses, but it's important for everyone to remember that porn scenes are much more of just a visual performance than a how-to guide. With this in mind, lets discuss what porn can teach everyone, and what should stay firmly behind the screens…
I’d say half an hour maximum - but preferably only 20 minutes. Cock rings can be great for sustaining erections, but dangerous if left on for too long.
For you to feel confident, it’s vital that you’re fully informed about your health. Make a list of all the questions you have in your mind, and ask your GP.
Chris Gordon, in his Book of Weird Sex, lists some of the bizarre curiosities removed from the male rectum: here are 10 of the most interesting!
Anal play is now becoming far more mainstream for both sexes, whatever your sexual orientation, it’s worth observing the following ‘anal rules’…
Many men and women have experimented with household objects whilst exploring their sexuality and it’s not uncommon to hear of ladies enjoying anything that gives a good buzz - mobile phones, the washing machine, even their electric toothbrushes!
Powerful and oscillating, it’s no wonder that so many women turn to their electric toothbrush in their time of need! As these things aren’t specifically designed for intimate play, using them can lead to injury or your beloved piece of vibrating technology ceasing to work.
Don’t take the risk of ruining your brand new toothbrush head and purchase something small, discreet and specifically designed for erotic usage instead.