• My partner and I love anal sex but recently it's been causing me discomfort. What can we do?

    Even a tiny haemorrhoid or fissure can cause pain or discomfort, and trust me, doctors aren’t fazed at all by checking bottoms.

    Safe Words and Bondage

    It might seem like a minor detail – unsexy, even – but choosing the right safe word for BDSM play is an important decision to make.

    Whether your partner's wielding a 22 Inch Sportsheets Rubber Whip or the Fetish Fantasy Singapore Stinger Paddle III, you really need to know how to make them stop. No, I mean stop. I said stop! It's not fun anymore!

    I've started to suffer from premature ejaculation. Is there anything I can do?

    Unfortunately, once men experience premature ejaculation, they can get very anxious about it, which doesn’t help matters.

    How to avoid gagging when giving oral sex

    Dentists have discovered a technique to considerably reduce a patient's gag reflex - and you can use it during oral sex!

    Since starting the menopause I'm not as horny as I was - is there a female equivalent of Viagra?

    I haven’t come across any guaranteed pill that does the trick, but there are currently extensive trials into finding a female equivalent to Viagra.

    STIs have tripled in people over the age of 45 in a decade - make sure you practise safe sex!

    When we have unprotected sex with someone, we’re also in effect having it with all the previous partners they’ve had unprotected sex with.

    I've just bought an anal dildo but I'm having trouble finding my P-spot. Any tips?

    The prostate is small, highly sensitive and well tucked away, so you’re far more likely to ‘hit the spot’ with a specialist toy.

    I'm 66 and have problems maintaining an erection. Would a penis pump and cock ring do the trick?

    If your penis loses the plot in the middle of the action, you could find a cock ring really helps. They convert a weak erection into a strong one.

    I've split with my husband and he's met someone else. I don't know how to move on. Help!

    I don’t think either of you can move on whilst you’re still in contact with each other, raking over old ground and going round in circles, getting nowhere.

    The three golden rules for having sex in the car!

    Having sex in a car is not for the fainthearted or the romantic, but it’s a surprisingly popular pursuit in the UK.

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