• I'm a 37 year-old virgin and I lose sexual sensation when I put a condom on. What should I do?

    Your ex-boss’s gesture of packing you off to a brothel may have been well-intentioned, but either way, it wasn’t the right approach for you.

    Chastity Belts - A Modern Take on a Medieval Idea

    Everyone has heard tales of damsels in distress being locked away in tall towers, with chastity belt’s encasing their most secret of areas, making sure their virginity is kept intact for their knight in shining armour - but how much of that story is true? And what relevance do chastity belts have to modern day sex lives?

    I Hate Valentine's Day - A Survival Guide for Singletons

    If you're spending the most romantic day of the year alone, then you may be tempted to spend the day weeping in to your cup of tea and singing Bonny Tyler songs at full pelt. Although this sounds like fun (!), we've come up with a better way to enjoy Valentine's Day if you're single…

    Can you recommend a vibrator to relieve frustration for a 23 year-old virgin?

    I’d focus on a clitoral stimulator for the moment, as that’s much more likely to bring you relief.

    I have a daughter and a male partner but I'm turned on by lesbian porn. Is this normal?

    The fact that you like lesbian porn doesn’t mean you’re gay/bi-sexual or any other label - it just means you have a healthy imagination!

    What can I do to make my partner more willing to swallow my sperm?

    By making sure it tastes as palatable as possible for her! Every guy has a different taste, which varies according to his diet.

    Lovehoney's Simple Sexy Shortbread Recipe - Perfect for Valentine's Day!

    Cooking with your lover is a fun experience that brings you closer together.

    Many attempts at baking with a partner end in playful food fights or licking left-over cake mix off each others’ bodies, although we doubt Delia would recommend that (Nigella would though).

    If your cooking skills consist of knowing how to operate the microwave, we’ve got a super simple recipe for you that will really become the food of love! Not only is it easy to do but you won’t have to buy a single thing as you will more than likely have all three of the ingredients in your cupboard already.

    We've been happily married for over 25 years and we'd like to try swinging. Any advice?

    It won’t suit you if you’re prone to jealousy and it’s certainly not likely to help if there’s any kind of tension or rift between you.

    Coming out as kinky is a difficult process, especially if you’ve only just realised it yourself.

    Whether you’re in an already established couple or you’ve just got together, being honest about your sexual needs and desires is incredibly important if you’re to have the sex life you really want.

    There are several sure-fire ways to approach the subject of kink with a partner without making them want to run away in horror, so listen up!

    My wife has put on weight, which I find unattractive. How can I discuss this without upsetting her?

    You’re right to tread carefully - this is a tricky one. I think you have to be honest with your wife, but you also need to be hugely sensitive.

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