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    Wands: The What? The Why? The Where and How?

    Magic Wand vibrators are packed with some of the most powerful motors on the market for out-of-this-world, all-over-body pleasure.

    For many people, wands are a staple in the old sex toy box, but for others they are still a mystical mystery.

    These days wands come in all shapes and sizes, colours and with an array of features, which can be a bit overwhelming if it's your first wand purchase.

    So we want to help you by going back to basics and answering all of the most asked magic wand questions.

    Let us know if you have any more questions in the comments section below.

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    Dom and sub. Secretary and boss. Disobedient student and teacher. What do these sexy role play situations all have in common?

    That’s right: an imbalance of power.

    In the BDSM community, any situation where one partner takes on a more dominant role than another is known as ‘power play’ - and it’s enormously popular, even in non-BDSM relationships.

    Many people have hypothesised about the reasons why transferral of power in the bedroom can be such a big turn-on, but whatever the psychological reason behind it, power play remains one of the sexiest role play characteristics.

    But how can you do it, and ensure that everyone remains safe and comfortable, and fully enjoys themselves?

    The good news is, there are ways to correctly incorporate power exchange into the bedroom, so that all parties can feel safe 'n' happy while getting down 'n' dirty.

    What To Do If You've Got Different Sex Drives

    Among all the billions of people on this planet, the likelihood of you and your partner being the duo that have perfectly matching sex drives is very small.

    One of you may want sex several times a day; the other may be content with getting intimate every couple of weeks.

    But as the nights get colder, it's the perfect opportunity to raise your bedroom temperature, and sync up your libidos.

    Although, as I learned in my mandatory biological behaviour module, individual sex drives are partially innate, there are still lots of things you can do to find the best balance.

    So to help you both I've put together some handy tips to help you match up those sexual appetites.

    Food Foreplay Tips (That Would Make Even Christian Grey Jealous)

    Last week saw the release of the steamy fifth book from international best-selling author, E L James.

    Darker retells the erotic rollercoaster ride that was Fifty Shades Darker, but this time from the perspective of its tortured and enigmatic male lead, Christian Grey himself.

    Though we get some exhilarating new insights into the sexy scenes that we know and love, we also learn more about Christian's tangled relationships with Elena, Leila, and his mother, as well as greater understanding of how a 27-year-old got that damn rich.

    But the scenes that have got everyone talking don't involve floggers, whips, or nipple clamps: they involve food.

    More specifically, a carton of Ben and Jerry's, and a chicken stir fry.

    If, like Ana and Christian, you want to involve something a little sweet (or savoury) in your lovemaking, we've whipped up our favourite food sex tips to make it extra-delicious.

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    So, you're the proud owner of a new toy from Lovehoney, and you're probably buzzing with happiness.

    Now that you've had some fun, what's next?

    We're big believers that there’s always room for improvement when it comes to using sex toys – they're an endless source of fun! 

    To help you get even more from your toys, we've put together a few tips and tricks, from choosing the right lube to playing with a partner.

    One of the most common questions we hear at Lovehoney is "what should I try next?"

    Often couples like the idea of progressing play, especially if they like their sex to be a little on the kinky side.

    Now, clearly, there never needs to be a "next" if you don't want there to be.

    Sex isn't a graded system or a "competition of cool", and you won't "flunk" sex class if you don't keep trying lots of new stuff.

    However, life does tend to be a lot more fun and satisfying when you're up for stepping outside of your comfort zone now and again - and never is that more true than when talking about sex.

    (What's that saying about "variety" and "spice" again?)

    So if you're up for trying something new in the bedroom and are looking for a few suggestions for what to try next, then this blog is for you.


    3 Common Kinks and Why You Need To Try Them

    Whether you prefer vanilla sex, or something a little more daring, there is always room for a bit more experimentation.

    Of course it's great to know what you like and dislike, but far too many people fall into the trap of finding a routine that works for them and never mixing it up.

    Some of the best sexual experiences you will ever have will be as a result of being bold and trying new things.

    The thought of something going disastrously wrong may be off-putting at first, but if you and your partner share a positive attitude then you both stand to have a great time.

    With that in mind, here is our list of 3 fab kinks and why you need to try them.

    Top Tips For Achieving Multiple Orgasms

    For most of us, regardless of gender, trying to have more than one orgasm is about as easy as finding the motivation to start work for tomorrow’s deadline. Much like academic motivation, it’s something we all dream about but doubt we can ever experience.

    I used to think that multiple orgasms (especially for women) were a bit of a myth. And to be honest, I thought it was just something they showed in porn films to make the action last longer.

    However, I am (very) pleased to say that I was wrong: they are not a myth! Regardless of your gender, there are a variety of different techniques, toys and positions you can try to achieve that ‘ooh’ feeling more than once.

    Tried and tested by myself, keep reading for my top tips on having that big finish again and again.

    The fun is never over with Fifty Shades Freed...

    You may have already devoured each individual offering with giddy glee but things are only just beginning.

    Offering much, much more than just 10 Days of Play, the Fifty Shades Freed Couples Gift Set has been designed to keep you thrilled well after all the doors have been opened.

    You might already have your own ideas on how to keep those blissful adventures coming, but, because here at Lovehoney we love to give, we thought we’d share with you a few more.

    BlowYo Texture Quiz

    Roses are red, violets are blue, blowjobs are great, which style best suits you?

    Our brand new BlowYo strokers are designed to improve both solo play and fellatio, improving the whole oral experience for you and your partner.

    From sensational swirling feelings to tantalising ticklers, each of our four BlowYo toys is lined with a unique texture to maximise your enjoyment.

    With so many amazing textures to choose from, it's hard to know where to start.

    Take our quiz to reveal which sensation will BlowYo-ur mind.

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