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    Curious about butt plugs? Want to know what they feel like and why people use them? You've come to the right place.

    Your butthole is packed with sensitive nerve endings that can feel incredible when stimulated. But how do you get to them when they're tucked away in your butt? Of course, a finger or a willing partner's penis can help you out, but there is another, super-pleasurable option if you're keen for a little bumfunnery.

    Enter the trusty butt plug: an intrepid little toy that's shaped to fit your body and more than happy to help you explore the pleasures that lie beyond your backdoor.

    Butt plugs come in different shapes, sizes and materials, so which one's best for you will depend on your experience, anatomy and what kind of sensations you're after.

    With the right prep and progression, a butt plug can offer a new, and potentially more intense, way to orgasm.

    Read on to find out how...

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    The term 'self-care' has become a bit of a buzzword over the last few years.

    And while the two words clearly mean lots of different things to different people (a quick scroll through Instagram posts tagged #selfcare brings up 12 skin care adverts, a lot of gym selfies and a Kermit the Frog meme) at their core is a pretty simple idea:

    Actively taking control of your personal wellbeing.

    From using mindfulness techniques to help you focus on the moment to Marie Kondo-ing your bedroom, everyone can introduce a little bit of self-care into their sex lives, too.

    Here's how...

    Position of the week: Sexy Yoga

    6 Discreet Sex Toys for Guys

    Sex toys aren't meant for just one particular gender or sexuality – they're for everyone!

    But not every man wants an enormous strap-on or a realistic butt lying around his abode; some guys like to keep their sex toy preferences on the down-low.

    Here are 6 discreet sex toys for guys, with tons more for you to choose from.

    Anal play: it's super-popular with all genders because, well, everyone has a butt! Not to mention it can be a great way of discovering a new way to enjoy sexual pleasure and sensational orgasms.

    But knowing which anal sex toy to buy can be difficult, particularly when there are so many available.

    In this weeks sex tip video, Annabelle tells you the key differences between some of the most popular types of butt plug, to help you choose which anal plug is best for you.

    Got a question? Make sure you pop it in the comments below.

    Position of the week: Voyeur's Delight

    Does Using a Sex Toy Count as Cheating?

    When writing this blog, I found myself stuck in a rut as I stubbornly held on to my own answer to this question, which is “no, absolutely not”.

    But I wanted to explore it further, as I know plenty of others who’ve had experiences different to my own.

    So, I asked some friends.

    Every single one of them said “no, but…” and continued on with a story of an ex who felt inadequate whenever they used a sex toy, so they hid it from their partner.

    This made me realise that the question has a tonne of variables, and is a lot more complex than how it first appears.

    Position of the week: Hot Seat

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    Televisions may have been using remote controls since the 1950s, but remote controls for sex toys are relatively - and excitingly! - new.

    Even now, we've come a long way from where we started, with toys such as app-controlled love eggs that can be operated from anywhere in the world. Thanks, Internet!

    But what is it that makes remote control vibrators such an enticing part of today's high-tech sex toy world?

    Read on to find reasons you need one in your life, and discover which is the best remote toy for you.

    How to Explore and Enjoy Double Penetration

    Double penetration (DP) describes the simultaneous penetration of the body at two points.

    It is also used to describe a scenario where two people use the same toy at the same time, like a double-ended dildo.

    Not just for adult performers or lesbian couples, double penetration can be enjoyed by everyone.

    Some people enjoy the feeling of several orifices being penetrated at once.

    Simultaneous stimulation of the bum, the mouth and the vagina (if you have one) can make for mind-blowing sex if it's done correctly.

    Other couples want to experience what it's like to use the same toy together, which can be intimate and arousing at all once.

    You may enjoy double penetration for no clearly defined reason at all, and that's totally cool as well.

    There's no need to justify your sexual pleasure to anyone.

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