Sex and relationships expert Dr Victoria Lukats has some advice for a wife whose husband is asking for anal sex but her sex drive is out of step with his.
"Why does having a lower sex drive than your husband make you frigid?" she writes in Metro. "It's not really your problem alone - it's an issue that affects you both as a couple…"
Talk over your issues helps enormously, and a better sex book can be a great ice-breaker.
Another great review from Orgasm Army!
"Unlike hard vibrators which can be a bit 'ouch' inside you (even with lots of lube), this vibrator is made from silicone, which is very soft and has a velvet feel so it feels AMAZING inside you.
The shaft is very flexible which is great for times of climax as it can be gently positioned to reach right where you want it.
The swirled ridges for extra stimulation work wonders, making climaxing so much easier to achieve.
It is waterproof, tried and tested!
Being waterproof makes this vibrator even more wonderful, as it can be used in the bath, for fun bath time play and even washed after use which is always a great hygiene feature!
This is my faveorite vibrator (I have another one and 1 rabbit) by far because it's feels so soft and wonderful inside.
Normally it takes me about 30 minutes for me to cum during sex (with foreplay) and about 20 minutes with a vibrator (about 10 minutes with the rabbit) but with this beauty it only took me 5 minutes to cum, I enjoyed every second!
Recommended to every woman! 10/10!"
See the full Pure Vibes Waterproof Silicone Swirl Vibe review at Orgasm Army.
Buy the Pure Vibes Waterproof Silicone Swirl Vibe at Lovehoney.
Another great review from Orgasm Army!
"This is a neat cock ring that vibrates when it's spread apart, which happens every time it comes into contact with another body!
It's made of a really strong, stretchy material that hugs you tightly, which makes it good for maintaining erections too. The vibrations go right through the whole ring, and my partner was obviously pleased with the strength of vibrations to her sensitive spots!
Unlike many rings this baby looks built to last, and you can replace the batteries too. In fact ours came with two with the package.
Il liek the fact that this is a toy for couples - two people can get pleasure from it in different ways! Recommended."
See the full Auto Pulsator Ring review at Orgasm Army.
Buy the Auto Pulsator Ring at Lovehoney.
10 out of 10 for a £1.99 vibe! Cripes!
"You know whatever I say, I love this vibe. It almost immediately became the one I reach for most and equally the one my partner reaches for first when he wants some supplementary benefits. It is a pretty shimmering blue colour but is made from cold, unyielding plastic, which makes a clunking noise whenever it meets other toys in action…"
See the full United Colours Smooth 8.5-inch Vibrator review at Orgasm Army.
Buy the United Colours Smooth 8.5-inch Vibrator at Lovehoney.
Research just in from Canada reveals that snoring may be ruining many couples' sex lives.
A poll of married Ontario couples found that 58% complained that their partner snores and that it has a negative affect on their sex lives.
36% agreed with the statement: "On most nights I would rather share my bed with a good sleeper who doesn't snore than a good lover who will keep me up with their snoring."
Canadian sex expert Sue Johanson warned that snoring and a lack of sex could lead to a disintegration of relationships.
We think that the safest bet is to make sure you have sex before you fall asleep (we've always found that we perform better then, anyway). And if it helps, use one of our Sue Johanson sex toys to get you in the mood. ;-)
Well, what a month it's been. First off, massive thanks to Sarah and Jason, and Maya and Shane for being the sexual guinea pigs in our trial.
The most obvious result is that Sweet Release didn't change the guys' flavour in 30 days. There was a hint of a change towards the end of the trial, but it didn't cause much more than a mild wobble on the Richter scale of taste.
So from that point of a view it was a disappointment, but along the way it's been very interesting to read the ups and downs as couples try to balance work, home life and pleasure with the demands of oral sex. It's a tough life…
Research just in from Canada reveals that snoring may be ruining many couples' sex lives. A poll of married Ontario couples found that 58% complained that their partner snores and that it has a negative impact on their ability to have nookie.
Canadian sex expert Sue Johanson warned that snoring and a lack of sex could lead to a disintegration of relationships. So make sure you have sex before you fall asleep and you won't go far wrong. ;-)
It's time to grab a sex toys bargain! Check out the sex toys sale section for five fab vibrators at just £1.99 each.
Lubricants such as ID Glide and Astroglide can help off-set the side-effects of lower oestrogen says Suzi Godson in The Times's Body & Soul section.
"Because oestrogen and testosterone play such a big a part in libido, women who decide not to take HRT sometimes experience a dip in their sex drive. One of the most common side-effects of declining oestrogen -- lack of lubrication -- is one of the easiest to rectify," she says before recommending that readers buy their lube at Lovehoney.
"There are millions of lubes on the market from basic KY Jelly to high-tech superlubes such as AstroGlide or ID. You will find extra slip and slide makes everything much more fun."
Friday, we went out and got drunk, came home and cooked and then just crashed in bed. I know, I know. It seems as though I'm becoming an alcoholic… I have drunk too much recently… Not good but will be sensible next week. Honest.
Today Shane and I engaged in an activity that is a fave with both of us… A nice long an relaxed oral sex session. I really love it when he goes down on me and I think he has such a beautiful cock! What can I say? I'm a very lucky girl.
Anyway, although Shane's precome tasted delicious, neither that nor his come tasted of apples I'm afraid to say…