Sex might simply not be as high a priority for you as it is for your partner, but I think it’s great that you want to initiate things - it’ll be a surprise and a treat for him too.
Real Housewives of New York star Bethenny visited a sex shop for her new daytime TV show, where she encountered a sex toy of the rotating kind. While seeking out some of the best sex toys on the market, she was shown the Lovehoney Sqweel, the world's first oral sex toy for women. Bethenny was intrigued by the toy and experimented by letting the 10 lapping tongues swirl around the palm of her hand. As she took a closer look at the rotating wheel she exclaimed, 'Who the hell is thinking up this stuff!'.
Bethenny is known for her entrepreneurial skills, self-help books and her former role in the hit show Real Housewives. In her new talk show she often focuses on sex toys and, judging by her excited reaction, loves the innovative, non-vibrating design of the Sqweel.
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For some, metal sex toys can seem intimidating. However, when you realise that they're smooth, sensual and used for hot and cold sensory play, that perception can soon change. Recently for Lovehoney TV, our resident model and writer Hella took at look at the Metal Worx collection, explaining how their weight, shape and cool feel can be used for exciting solo and shared pleasure sessions. With everything from cock rings to anal tools included in the range, we've picked out one of our favourite videos to share with you:
As Hella expains, the Metal Worx Double Trouble Metal Dildo is made from sleek polished steel, offering the shape and satisfaction of a rabbit vibrator, just without the motor. It's a toy designed for dual clitoral and G-spot stimulation, featuring an easy-to-use finger loop that allows for complete control over its exquisite stainless steel form.
So pillows. Yes, you heard me. If you haven’t already discovered them, pillows are your new best friend.
Male sex toys tend to fall into three categories: there are ones you put your penis in, ones you put on your penis and ones you put in your ass. Seems fairly logical, doesn’t it? But this week's Awesome Sex Toy defies convention by having nothing to do with your penis or your derriere, no Siree. The Adam and Eve Cyberskin Ball Sack Vibrator (£14.99) is all about your balls, baby.
This inventive vibrator has been designed to slip over your scrotum to give you a delirious cupped sensation to accompany masturbation, foreplay and other sexual pursuits. It’s made from Cyberskin for a skin-like feel that provides a comfortable cradle for your testes without being overly restrictive or inhibiting.
The genius comes courtesy of a bullet vibrator which slots into the base of this sack snuggler, transforming it into a whirring, shaking massager for your babymakers. Unlike a cock ring it doesn’t restrict blood flow to the penis, so you won’t experience numbed sensations or prolonged plateau, allowing you to enjoy enhanced pleasure without putting off your climax. Just pop it on as a side dish to your usual pleasure and enjoy the intensified sensations it brings.
Sex blogger and Lovehoney community member The Nymphomaniac has started a new weekly event for sex bloggers called 'Toy with me Tuesday'.
The idea is to take photos of sex toys in unusual or creative ways. We've spotted sex bloggers taking amazing photos of sex toys for some time, so it's really exciting to see them all being collected in one place.
Our entry for the clever Toy with me Tuesday is this archive photo we love of Hella with a pile of sex dolls.
So far we really adore Something Blue by newlywed bloggers and Lovehoney community members acoupleofwankers and Anyone for Espresso? by sex blogger and community member ruffledsheets. Both raised smiles in the Lovehoney office for their intelligence as well as their artistic flair.
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Yes - if they’re not properly cleaned. Non-porous toys, made from stainless steel, glass, or medical grade silicone, are the easiest to sterilize.
Sex toys are amazing because there are some kinks you just can’t fulfill without them if you’re single.
Spanking yourself with your hand is never as good as with a paddle, vibrators are often more enjoyable than your own hand and ditto for strokers and male masturbators. And there are definitely some sex acts it’s difficult to perform on your own, like fisting.
Yeah, I’m sure auto-fisting is doable, but it’s got to be awkward. Try just simulating the motion and it’s ‘Oh, hi, lobster claw arm, you look well sexy’ and ‘Hello, arm cramp’. To enjoy a little solo fisting, or perhaps just a slightly smaller fist than your partner’s, you can’t go wrong with Belladonna’s Bitch Fist (£34.99).
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