The trouble with this is that the longer it goes on, the more pressure we can put on ourselves (and if we don’t, others will, as you describe!) And pressure is one thing the female body does not respond well to.
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Experience the erotic sensation that is Fifty Shades of Grey for yourself. Buy your copy of the Fifty Shades trilogy at Lovehoney and, while you're here, why not pick up some of the toys in the book so you can get your very own taste of Christian and Ana's explosive relationship?
Britain has gone silver ball crazy thanks to Fifty Shades of Grey but there are so many random names to describe them (jiggle balls, ben wa balls, kegel balls) that you may be finding it hard to figure them out.
As well as providing pleasure, regular use of vaginal balls will help to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles over time which will make your vagina feel tighter, improve bladder control and best of all, bless you with more intense and longer lasting orgasms. No wonder Ana Steele loves hers so much.
Sizes, shapes, weights, materials and designs vary wildly and this guide will help you decide which kegel balls are right for you.
Twisting, twirling, thrusting and spinning rabbit vibrators have all been created, but this week’s Awesome Sex Toy takes things back to basics. The Happy Rabbit is home to three vibrating motors which operate in sync with one another to create powerful vibrations which are consistent throughout the full length of the toy.
Motors are housed in the base and tip of the shaft, providing the bulk of the rabbit’s power, while a third motor offers animation to the rabbit stimulator. The most impressive part of this set-up comes from the patterns. Many vibrating sex toys have motors that follow the same patterns at the same time, but Happy Rabbit chooses to operate different motors at different times, offering a sensation that feels more like throbbing than buzzing.
The beautiful Icicles Rose Glass Dildo is our entry for Toy with me Tuesday this week. Don't be fooled into thinking it's just a novelty though, this glass dildo is as satisfying as it is romantic.
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Review of the Month
Our winning review this month gives one of the first opinions on the hotly anticipated Lelo Smart Wand.
We loved the way the reviewer combined practical commentary with an expressive and creative use of language to make us lust after the wand ourselves!
Each month we also choose a selection of highly commended reviews and reward them each with a whopping 2,000 Lovehoney Oh! Points to spend as they wish, or perhaps save up to spend on a luxury sex toy.
This month we were overwhelmed with brilliant reviews for male sex toys - congratulations to all our runners up, and happy shopping.
Perfect for spicing up a weekend away (or just a Friday night in) Nookii: The Hot Game for Passionate Lovers and Monogamy: A Hot Affair Game are two of our most popular games for adults. But what exactly is the difference and which is best for you and your partner?
Both increase intimacy, fun and pleasure between two lovers using fantasies, ideas and objects. Monogamy revolves centrally around rekindling lust and attraction and detailing your desires, while Nookii is intended for all couples as a means of discovering your lover's passions and enjoying a sensual build up to sex.
The games use a traditional setup, with dice that determines your move and cards that describe actions to be carried out. Monogamy’s gameplay can take long, sensual hours, whereas Nookii takes approximately 30 minutes, or longer if you decide to extend your pleasure. Read our guide for details on gameplay and see which suits you best.
Happy July! We’re half way through 2012 already and that means it’s time to announce our 6th model of the month winner this year.
Thanks to all of our entrants for making the June Model of the Month competition one of the most creative and competitive to date.
Congratulations to Mr.T who we have chosen as June’s model of the month.
A fan of lacy lingerie, Mr.T uploaded two photos showing off some of his favourite sexy men’s underwear to Lovehoney customers. We chose this shot of him in his Male Power Stretch Lace Tanga Brief as we love the drama in his posing and the saucy outdoor setting. Mr.T wins £100 to spend at Lovehoney on anything he wants. Enjoy your prize!
The quality of entries was so high this month that we’ve chosen five runners up to win 2,000 Oh! Points each.
The July Model of the Month competition is now open. To be in with a chance of winning £100 to spend on Lovehoney or 2,000 Oh! Points, all you have to do is upload a photograph showing off a Lovehoney product between now and July 31st. At the end of the month we’ll pick our favourite photos.
Our entry for Toy with me Tuesday this week comes courtesy of Rebecca from luxury toy brand, njoy.
Rebecca popped by Lovehoney to help us celebrate our 10th birthday and pulled this pose with the njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo.
Njoy specialise in "everything but the clit", with a range of exquisite solid metal butt plugs and dildos.
Njoy's founder and designer, Greg, has a background in bicycle design - which means crafting metal into the most ergonomic and pleasurable forms is second nature to him.
Want to find out more? Watch our interview with Rebecca after the jump.