After a question from a man wanting to know what he could do now that his long-term girlfriend is gone, it spurred some discussion on how singledom can actually help you make your sex life even better. Last week (and then earlier this week for a more practical take) I looked at how things were for women. But I believe in equality in pleasure, so now let's look at men.
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If your guy likes his ass stimulated, forgo your fingers and use your knuckles
Oh, Sex Toys. So tempting, but how do you know what to buy? What works? What doesn't? What is even OUT THERE to try? You have questions, I have answers (most of the time…)
I have have lately been in situations where additional lubrication would have increased the enjoyment of sex. How do I introduce lubes and other sexual aids to relatively new relationships?
Also do you have a recommendation for an all purpose lube?
A sure-fire way to get an intense session of thrusting between you and your lover
As I talked about on Friday, being alone doesn't have to mean the end of your sex life. On the contrary, for women on their own, it can be a time when they finally nail down their elusive orgasm, learn what works for them, or increase their sexual responsiveness.
Whether you want to have your first orgasm, start having regular orgasms, just enjoy touching your own body, or hunt down that sneaky g-spot orgasm, there are many things that you can do alone so much better than you can with a partner…
Here then are 5 ideas and tips for enjoying your solo flight:
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Red hot and Dutch! A fantastic new range of top-quality silicone sex toys has arrived from the Netherlands – and they're selling like hot pies.
Even Lovehoney's 'seen-every-vibrator-there-is-to-be seen' staff gaped in stupefied awe at the magnificent Feelztoys Eilium Silicone Clitoral Vibrator (pictured left), which has a tiny tip that delivers pin-point pleasure.
Give yourself a real treat this Christmas.