Tracey Cox is an acclaimed sex expert and one of the world's foremost writers on sex, body language and relationships. She has starred in and hosted many prime-time TV shows in the UK, US and many other countries.
The fabulous Tracey has been working in association with The Independent this week for their series on Love and Sex. She is offering some fantastic advice and top tips on how to spice up your love life, how to have better sex and how to conquer those bedroom blunders!
The first piece of advice from Tracey comes from The Independent's Monday issue of Love and Sex entitled "Five Steps to a Great Sex Life":
"Don't stop masturbating! In fact, do it more.
"Lots of people think they shouldn't need to masturbate once they're getting regular sex, and if you've just had it 25 times over the weekend you probably won't be locking the bathroom door Monday morning. But when your partner's away or you just feel extra sexy, it's a great way to keep your libido hot.
"I'd also suggest you take it one step further and do it in front of each other. You'll see first-hand what technique you each use."
Lovehoney Community members share their sex tips…
"The scrotum is a wonderful thing; it also tightens and constricts when men are aroused, making it extra-sensitive.
If you're looking for the happiest of finishes during oral or masturbation, a very gentle pull of the bottom of the scrotum will increase the intensity of his orgasm."
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Lovehoney Community members share their sex tips…
"I like to surprise my husband from time to time. I'll get a few hours off work and go home armed with dipping chocolate and whipped cream.
I usually make sure the blindfold is handy plus get a couple of his ties out of the cupboard for easy access.
Then I dress in either something saucy or some special lingerie and wait for him to get in, I'm waiting for him in the bedroom.
Although I've planned all this, for him it's spontaneous which increases the passion. Plus I've been thinking about it all afternoon so can't wait to hear his key in the door!"
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A SHORT REPORT ON THE TEXTURE AND TASTE OF A COMBINATION MASSAGE MOUSSE AND LUBRICANT
A Report by Carly "Pleasure" Drew
Durex Play 2 in 1 Massage Mousse is a 100ml canister of foam-like liquid that is designed to be used firstly as a massage enhancer and secondly as a lubricant.
The can is pretty and sleek with a purple and white printed bubble design. It resembles a tube of deodorant spray or hair mousse, which I realise could potentially lead to some confusion if grabbed from the bathroom cabinet in a hurry in the morning.
Upon opening the tube I realise it's not going to be easy to dispense - the button is stiff and requires some serious force to get it to work. Unfortunately this also makes the mousse spray out in a rather violent manner coating my black shirt in some rather suspicious white stains and ricocheting into my eye, resulting in much squinting and the desperate search for something that isn't covered in mousse to wipe it with.
It also doesn't help that the sound it makes when the dispensing button is depressed is exceptionally loud, causing a lot of attention to be drawn to myself in a very quiet office. The sound is similar to that of a shaken up can of fizzy drink exploding, except without the muttered curse words afterwards.
Everyone is starting to get in the Halloween spirit - even the supermarkets are breaking out the broomsticks and pointy hats!
Lovehoney Community members share their sex tips…
"A good sex tip is for when a man (or woman) is going 'down' on a woman is to have the woman's knees bent up and while licking the woman down there, using the hands to caress and tease her breasts.
The sensation has great effects!"
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Whether you want a little user-friendly advice or a full on debate on the merits of certain toys, the Lovehoney Community Forums are the place to be!
This week has seen some very interesting and lively discussion ranging from product suggestions to a written tour of the Lovehoney office!
If any of this sounds right up your street or you fancy taking a quick peek into a lively and burgeoning online forum, then have a look at the following suggested threads:
Orgasm Army
An old thread that keeps getting revived, and for good reason, is The Anal Sex for Beginners, Any Advice? thread. It's filled with great tips on how to have an enjoyable anal experience.
Which pump? Is another very informative thread that aims to help you in choosing the right pussy pump for you or your partner. With a mixture of official and tried-and-tested advice, you're sure to get the perfect fit for you!
The Magazines thread has sparked some interesting conversation on what different peoples reading preferences are! And it appears that there's not much difference between what men and women like!
Lovehoney Community members share their sex tips…
"If you or your partner are feeling brave light a candle!
Blow it out and cool slightly, while still warm drip the wax onto each other's skin, this feels so good!
Be really careful though, you don't wanna get burnt!"
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Lovehoney Community members share their sex tips…
"When I go down on my husband he likes me to lick down the shaft.
When doing this I let my breasts slide down his legs and the feeling of my nipples drives him wild!"
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Tracey Cox is an acclaimed sex expert and one of the world's foremost writers on sex, body language and relationships. She has starred in and hosted many prime-time TV shows in the UK, US and many other countries.
