Penis size is a sensitive subject that society tends to place a great deal of importance on, but the truth is that a penis of almost any size can satisfy a woman.
Erotica has taken a classy and artistic turn with Suraya Singh's brand new pervery magazine known simply as Filament.
Unlike female-friendly print-porn of the past, which seems to target the gay male market or giggling girls out on their hen night, Filament showcases the kind of attractive males you'd see at a Faith No More concert or grabbing a cup of java from your local fair-trade coffee shop.
But not only is Filament filled with fantastically shot, beautifully lit photography akin to that of Lithium Picnic or Steve Prue, it also contains genuinely challenging articles, believable erotic fiction and even some rather enticing recipes.
It seems that most media outlets have already caught on to the news about Filament magazine, with the Daily Mail and The Independent getting in on the act, but the general mainstream consensus seems to be that no one could possibly find slim, slightly androgynous men attractive.
The Daily Mail's Olivia Lichtenstein balks:
"I turn the pages and there are the pictures of 'Boys'. Most of them are somewhat effeminate, and none of them is arousing.
They are apparently intended as an alternative to the oil-slicked musclemen that proliferate elsewhere. The editor claims her 'research' has shown her these models represent the sort of men women really find sexy."
Yes, heaven forbid that women have different tastes in men! We should all be admiring photos of men who drive white vans and eat nothing but raw meat and fried carbs, obviously.
Suraya's target audience is quite clearly not Daily Mail readers.
In fact, Filament is more for the kind of women who don't read any mainstream newspapers.
The kind of women who have heard of Chuck Palahniuk.
The kind of women who have more records in their collection than food in their fridge.
The kind of women with dye under their nails, rather than false ones stuck on top.
The kind of women who have visible tattoos and have scored top jobs due to their impressive qualifications and talents, rather than what they look like.
And the kind of men that these women go for? The 'effeminate boys' to which the Daily Mail refers.
The tag line of 'the thinking woman's crumpet' is spot on. Filament combines artistic photography and arousing pornography perfectly, making it more of a classy art magazine rather than an out-and-out sausage-fest.
Filament magazine may not be everyone's cup of tea but for the target audience its aiming itself at, it does a bloody good job!
The book of the month for June is the fabulous, five-star rated In Too Deep by Portia Da Costa.
Well written and utterly filthy, whether you're new to erotica or a long time reader, In Too Deep is the perfect book for you.
Portia has created lead character, Gwendolyne, to be someone we can all identify with and easily imagine ourselves indulging in the fantastic sex that she gets to enjoy!
In this extract, we join Gwendolyne in a hotel romp and discover the precise details of one of her ultimate fantasies:
This gorgeously shaped vibrator has a pointed tip for precision stimulation, a swirling shaft that creates divine internal sensations and 7 functions of vibration to send you to orgasm heaven with a single click!
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But that really shouldn't be the case! Bikinis aren't reserved for size zero women with a tan comparable to well oiled leather, they're for everyone and finding the right size, shape and colour has never been easier.
This June is potentially going to be one of the hottest ever which is why the bikini should become a staple piece of underwear, swimwear and lingerie for everyone. After all, if you get invited to a spontaneous pool party, you want to be prepared!
The basic piece everyone should have in their lingerie collection is a triangle bikini. In one of the most flattering fits, the triangle bikini provides support via halter neck straps and a sexy amount of coverage that just hints at the curves that lie beneath.
Simple and sexy, the triangle bikini can be spiced up with interesting details and sexy patterns, but beware - certain patterns can make your body look bigger or wider than it really is!
Dreamgirl have created a fabulous range of triangle bikinis known as the Aqua Diamond range and one of the highlights of the collection is the Dreamgirl Aqua Diamond Gold Ring Swimsuit Bikini Set.
Reminiscent of that scene in Fast Times at Ridgemont High, this gorgeous red bikini is particularly flattering on fuller figures.
The smooth material is surprisingly thick, allowing for extra support to the bust and the tanga-style bottoms have extra coverage to the back - perfect for complementing curves!
To the front of the bikini top and briefs, there are smooth gold rings which will really offset your tan nicely.
For slimmer figures there's the Dreamgirl Aqua Diamond Ruched and Sequinned Bikini. If you don't have curves already, this sexy piece of swimwear will create some!
The gorgeous triangle top is lined with vertically striped sequins that mould around your bust, creating the effect of bigger, fuller breasts.
Not only does this bikini emphasise your chest, it works wonderfully on flat bums too! The tie sides help to create smooth sexy hips and the back is shirred in the centre, shaping the buttocks into perfect curves.
Worried about tan lines? Then pick up a C-String bikini! These clever pieces of 'invisible' underwear just slide into place and allow you to tan your thighs, hips, bottom and stomach without the fear of those leftover pale patches.
They also come in a range of different colours with matching bikini tops too! If you're pale skinned then go for the shimmering red bikini for a stark yet sexy contrast and for darker skin tones, go for the polka dot version - it really highlights your colour!
If you're still unsure about flashing your flesh, maybe consider a bikini 'body'. These are designed to be a cross between a bikini and a swimsuit, so give you the cut of a bikini but the coverage of a more substantial piece.
- Tight, tie-up bust that pulls the breasts against the body in a curve-creating, support-enhancing fit.
- Tie side briefs which flatter hips and bums.
- Extended central section that covers the stomach.
- Cute patterns and sexy bows that draw the eye to your favourite parts.
Whichever style and design you prefer, these are all available and in stock at Lovehoney today! And with something to fit every budget, you're sure to pick up a bargain.
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Come on, don't be shy - you would wouldn't you? A fiver to flash your baps on the motorway, twenty quid bet to take your top off in the pub… And before you know it, you're seriously considering that £200 offer for a spread (and I use the word advisedly) in Men Only. Or Playgirl, as the case may be.
But where do you fall on the clothes-off-for-money spectrum? Are you no-way-not-ever-in-a-million-years? Or anything-if-the-price is right?
Tell us, do!
Everyone who fills in the survey will be entered in a draw to win £100 of sexy lingerie - good luck!
If you can't see the submit button at the bottom of the form, you can click here to fill in the Would you take your clothes off for money? survey.
We'll announce the winner of the lingerie sometime after the psychologically tidy closing date of 30 June.
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Doctor Lisa Turner is everywhere at the moment - newspapers, magazines, lectures, television shows - and for good reason too! Lisa is the UK's first Orgasm Coach and her unique approach to sexual improvement has done more for her clients than just boosting bedroom confidence.
In fact, many of the people who come to Lisa for orgasm coaching walk away with a new outlook on life and renewed determination and motivation.
The most recent and biggest piece of research by Doctor Lisa was into the effect of an orgasm on a woman's career. Lisa discovered that while men lose energy through orgasm, women are empowered by them and gain clarity of thought.
June's Book of the Month is the amazing In Too Deep by Portia Da Costa and to get your summer off to a sexy start, we're offering you a free Lovehoney Buzz Tingler Finger Vibrator when you pick up a copy!
As one of Black Lace's longest serving authors, Portia still continues to create page-turning, red-hot, nail-biting, collar-loosening erotica even to this day. In fact, one of her latest tales appears in the best selling short-story collection Seduction.
Recent reports from New Scientist Magazine suggest that bondage and domination activities can be stressful at first but will actually bring consenting couples closer together in the long term.Julie Peasgood
Loss of libido after childbirth is incredibly common - it's nature's way of making sure we pace ourselves between children!