Sex toys are amazing because there are some kinks you just can’t fulfill without them if you’re single.
Spanking yourself with your hand is never as good as with a paddle, vibrators are often more enjoyable than your own hand and ditto for strokers and male masturbators. And there are definitely some sex acts it’s difficult to perform on your own, like fisting.
Yeah, I’m sure auto-fisting is doable, but it’s got to be awkward. Try just simulating the motion and it’s ‘Oh, hi, lobster claw arm, you look well sexy’ and ‘Hello, arm cramp’. To enjoy a little solo fisting, or perhaps just a slightly smaller fist than your partner’s, you can’t go wrong with Belladonna’s Bitch Fist (£34.99).
How do you like your orgasms? Through good old-fashioned lovemaking, delivered orally, or through the wondrous world of sex toys? We’re dying to know!
Take a moment to fill in our quickie survey and leave a comment if you’ve got an opinion to share.
By simply filling in our Orgasmic Pleasure Poll you could be in with a chance of winning a luxurious Tracey Cox Supersex Twin Silicone Vibrating Love Ring For Couples - worth a whopping £14.99 - and what’s more, we’ve got 5 to give away!
Giving firmer erections and providing intense and direct clitoral stimulation, you’ll both reap the benefits of this incredible toy. With its super-stretchy double love rings and a powerful, removable bullet vibe, this favourite from the Tracey Cox range packs a real punch, proving that very good things come in small packages…
Competition closed. The winners have been contacted by email.
As yours has started fairly recently, I think it’s likely to be more psychological than physical - but please don’t worry as it’s a common problem - and it can be got over.
Bedroom bondage is a great way to add some sauce to your scoop of vanilla, but for some people a light spanking isn’t enough. Traditional spanking paddles offer a wide range of pain thresholds for the methodical spanker, but sometimes the smooth surface doesn’t offer much of a thrill.
Another aspect of spanking is the visual appeal. The look of a reddened ass, the dappled pattern of a studded paddle all bring a little something extra to the spanking experience for both participants. If you like your spanking heavy handed and love to leave a lasting impression then this week’s awesome sex toy is for you. I give you the Jack Boot Print Wooden Spanking Paddle (£22.00).
This impressive bit of BDSM kit is more than just a pretty face. There’s definitely a novelty appeal to this little gem, and the very look of it is enough to make an unruly sub more inclined to behave themselves, but it’s impressively practical.
After winning the first Lovehoney Erotic Writing Competition, Lily Harlem has been a seriously busy bee. Her saucy style won us over, and, as predicted, she’s back with a vengeance (and a new ebook! Hurrah!).
Even better, Lily’s new erotic novel Scored is available FREE for your Kindle this weekend only!
Click here to get your free Kindle copy of Scored (if you're in the US, click here)
Set during the steamy battle for the Euro 2012 champions title, Scored follows Nicky, a female sports reporter who lives, breathes and sleeps football. As the Euro 2012 competition hots up, so does Nicky’s relationship with hunky England captain Lewis Tate. His distant manner, arrogance and incredible ball-handling skills along with his sex-on-legs body leads Nicky on an intensely erotic road to victory. One which she is unlikely to forget in a hurry…
If you don't have a Kindle, check out this list of Kindle Apps - so you can still read it!
After reading about all those hunks in trunks we’re looking forward to Euro 2012 more than ever. And make sure to keep your eyes peeled for this year’s Erotic Writing Competition winner, it’s going to be a sizzling summer…
Write a sex toy review for Lovehoney and you could be in with a chance to win a whopping £100 to spend on whatever you like!
Each month we also choose a selection of highly commended reviews and reward them each with a whopping 2,000 Lovehoney Oh! Points to spend as they wish, or perhaps save up to spend on a luxury sex toy.
Review of the Month
Our winning review this month blends humour with insight and expertise from an "experienced, versatile arse player".
We loved the way the reviewer explained the product's unique selling points while outlining how they enhanced his experience - not to be missed.
Review the full review by Ffuncub.
Is it just me, or is a bit hot in here? Yes, I know…the weather’s gone all gloomy, but while the sun was shining the Lovehoney Community was out making hay. And what hay they made!
It seems as if the sunshine and the May bank holiday has been an inspiration to us all. We received an amazing number of user uploads in the past month and the quality and creativity displayed was seriously impressive. Kudos to you all! Thanks to everyone who shared their sexy side with us this month.
Choosing a winner was trickier than usual, but one Community member not only wowed us with one incredible shot, she also made us go ‘awww’ in another.
The model of themonth for May is The Nymphomaniac for this incredible shot and this adorable shot featuring a very Happy Rabbit and an adorable mini rex. Now everybody say… awww!
Congratulations, you’ve won £100 to spend on Lovehoney goodies. Now that’s a great way to start the four-day Jubilee weekend. We also chose four members as runners up for their fun, creative and sexy shots.
Each of our runners up will receive 2,000 Oh! points for their hard work…
In a line up of sex toys, a butt plug could be pointed out by most people - they're fairly distinctive with a tapered tip to make insertion easy and a flared base that sits outside the body to stop the plug being drawn in.
But while the 'how' is self explanatory (it goes up your bottom, if you were still unsure), lots of people are left wondering 'WHY?!'
In a nutshell, why people use butt plugs is because wearing one during sex, masurbation, foreplay or any other type of sexy fun time can greatly enhance orgasms and pleasure (regardless of your sex or gender).
Read on for more, including which are the best butt plugs for first timers.
Ah, commemorative crap. All those chintzy plates, tea towels and special edition drinks bottles that unassuming folk purchase in the hope that it will one day acquire value. I’m telling you now, it won’t.
In order for something gain value, it needs to be relatively rare. Mass produced mugs aren’t going to do much for your bank balance as a few thousand people have the same idea. What you want is something unlikely to turn up in 50 years time…
When it comes to royal memorabilia, Lovehoney has 'previous' in the shape of the Commemorative Royal Wedding Ring. But for the Diamond Jubilee, we've really pulled out all the stops. Her Majazzle - a patriotic vajazzle dubbed "the most outrageous souvenir on offer" by The Sunday Times Magazine - truly is the crowning glory in jubilee ephemera.
Looking to recreate the full-on hen party look that Rochelle and Una from The Saturdays enjoyed at the weekend? Look no further than Hen Night HQ.
Lovehoney's sister site Hen Night HQ supplied all the tiaras, willy straws, l plates, fluffy boppers, foam fingers and sashes for Rochelle Wiseman and Una Healy's bumper hen party weekend.
Bedecked in tradional hen party accessories, the girls had a joint hen do to celebrate their last few nights of freedom.
To add a special musical touch to your hen night party, you should hire Stick It On, where wannabe DJs can take control of the dancefloor tunes. Stick It On prove decks, sound system, lighting and a friendly DJ to guide you - everything you need to have a hen party of a lifetime.
Rochelle Wiseman is marrying Marvin Humes from JLS (who had their own range of condoms on Lovehoney), while Una Healy is set to wed rugby ace Ben Foden.
Visit Hen Night HQ to recreate the look from The Saturdays hen party.
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