Foreplay doesn’t just have to be a kiss and a cuddle within the confines of the bedroom. In fact, erotic massage is the perfect way to connect physically and emotionally.
The majority of our everyday communication is non-verbal and body language plays a huge part in how we communicate and understand other people. It should therefore make sense that massage, one of the most intimate kinds of touch, is a good way of communicating with your lover. Each caress, stroke and rub can be used to say anything from “I adore your body” to “I hope you had a good day at work”.
Finding tense spots in your partner’s neck, shoulders and back then kneading and massaging them with your hands will not only remove physical pain, but it can help unblock their mind as they focus less on the pain and the stress associated with it.
A massage can be a simple stroking of the hands or a good going-over of the whole body. Whatever you decide to do, you’ll soon realise the benefits to your heath, your body, your relationship and your sex life.
When you’re indulging in a spot of anal sex or masturbation with anal play, anal lube should never be left out of your fun and games.
Anal lubricant differs from regular lube as the consistency is much thicker which helps to protect the sensitive skin of the anus. It's not just a safety issue for the health of your sensitive anal tract: it's also a pleasure thing.
Almost all sex is enhanced with a good slick of lube and by making sure that there will definitely be no harsh friction, you'll enjoy your anal sex experience much more.
For most women, the key to orgasm is direct stimulation of the clitoris. Packed with nerve endings and a one-track mind for pleasure you'd think giving the clitoris what it wants would be easy? Unfortunately, many of us know from experience that just isn't the case. But don't worry, help is on hand!
Orgasm boosters are effective and easy to use. Simply apply to your favourite spots before playing with a toy or lover and you'll soon feel a growing tingle that makes you more aware of your body and heightens your sensitivity to touch.
Promising twice, sometimes three times the stimulation of a standard vibrator, plus the chance of a blended internal and external orgasm, it’s no wonder ladies are ‘lapin’ up the rabbit vibrator, now the best-selling sex toy model worldwide.
Above: Get the lowdown on all the different types of rabbit vibrator in Tilly's sexpert video guide.
An iconic media favourite, rabbits first exploded onto the nation’s consciousness in the ’90s, and in the years that followed a wealth of new designs have been brought out to offer a wide spectrum of functionality. Some rabbits can curve into your G-spot, some rabbits can shake your bottom, some rabbits can brush your teeth. (Okay not that one.)
Bells and whistles aside, all rabbits follow a core structure: one or (usually) two ears that rest externally on your clitoris, and a shaft for vaginal insertion. By stimulating these two areas at the same time, rabbit vibrators create intense all-encompassing pleasure.
Lovehoney has a whole warren full of rabbit vibrators to suit every pocket and honey pot. Read on for your formal introduction to the wonderful world of sunny bunny lovin’.
Many of our first-time anal sex experiences are accidental or ill prepared for at best, giving a poor first-time impression of all things anally sexual. Many couples don’t tend to talk about anal play and as individuals, we’re often quick to write it off, especially if we’ve had a bad experience in the past.
These self-imposed taboos mean that scores of us are missing out on the joy of anal sex and the pleasure that both men and women experience through anal penetration.
This first-time anal sex guide will talk you through anal experimentation and anal penetration, helping you to progressively experiment both alone, with a partner or with anal sex toys to achieve a satisfying anal sex life.
While solo toys have been popular for decades, only recently have toys that couples can use together become common in the bedroom and now, more and more couples are experimenting with toys together for shared pleasure.
These are the 10 best couples sex toys according to our customers. Dive in!
Chastity is usually associated with abstinence, but it isn't just about refraining from sex.
A lot of couples experiment with chastity to enhance their sex life and for most people, the first steps into chastity will revolve around sexual experimentation as opposed to a serious lifestyle choice.
This guide is designed to help you chastity-curious people decide if chastity is right for you and help you in choosing a chastity belt or device that will make your chastity-related fantasies come true.
People who use lubricant have better sex. It eases penetration and makes playing, with or without sex toys, so much more enjoyable. It’s the easiest and cheapest way to make every sexual experience you have smoother and more pleasurable.
Above: Confused by lubes? Watch this video guide with Annabelle and you'll be a lube pro in no time.
Even if you feel that your body is doing a great job without any assistance, you might be missing out on reams of extra pleasure without knowing it - over 70% of women find sexual experiences more satisfying with lube.
Whether you just want a water-based lube or if you're feeling more experimental and keen to try other types such as flavoured lube or silicone lube, this guide will help you to find the perfect sexual enhancement for any occasion.