6 Best Toys For Mind-Blowing Foreplay
I've often found that foreplay is very underrated.
Whenever you see sex scenes on television, there's never any foreplay (I'm looking at you especially, Game of Thrones).
Porn? No foreplay.
Even when talking about sex, it tends to fall by the wayside.
Personally, it's always been my favourite part of sex; having somebody bring you right to the edge, and then going all-out for the grand finale.
So, for those of you looking to explore the art of tease and up your arousal game, here are my top picks of the best toys for mind-blowing foreplay.
I love a good love egg, because they're brilliant for both solo play and using with a partner.
After my old one finally gave up, I thought I'd make a savvy life choice and invest in something a little sturdier and more durable. And wow, I don't know why I didn't make the change sooner.
With three speeds and seven patterns there will be a sensation to suit everybody; plus, it's also a great toy for spicing up a sensual massage.
Anybody who has a pair of wireless headphones will know how being freed from the controlling device can open a world of possibilities.
You can tuck the egg into your underwear, or use it on any erogenous zone, and go about your day with a dirty little secret, either controlling the remote yourself or handing it over to a partner to set the mood for you.
If you're new to anal toys, then these toys are perfect for beginners as it offers stimulation to sensitive nerve endings.
Small but powerful, this petite plug has a tapered tip for easy insertion and the T-bar offers extra security to prevent unwanted travel. Plus, if you're unsure about using a vibrating butt plug, then the bullet vibrator can be removed and used elsewhere.
Anal toys offer new sensations and heightened pleasure for users of all genders, especially when receiving oral sex, and make orgasmic contractions feel more intense.
Sensual massage is a wonderful way to get your partner in the mood, and offers plenty of variety to find what feels best for you and your partner.
Lickable massage oils and candles can help you set the mood and make the most of a romantic night with your partner(s), as well as the different smells and tastes teasing you as you go.
LoversPremium Energy Vibrating Massager is a highly versatile massager, as it's easy to use with oily hands, and helps to take an erotic massage to a new level of indulgence.
Just be careful when it comes to using your sex toys around massage oils, as they can sometimes react with certain materials and damage the toy. And NEVER use massage oil as lube, unless it's specifically designed for that purpose, like the Durex Play Massage Gel.
Foreplay isn't just limited to physical play; it's about getting into the right mood and mindset too.
Lovehoney's Hot Knots Bondage Game is a satisfying combination for the two. I'm a big advocate of using games to expand one's sex life, as they provide you with a simple yet structured guide to get the ball rolling and explore new sensations and positions.
It can sometimes be tricky to know what to do when a partner is tied up, but with a deck of inspiration you have many possibilities at your fingertips.
The silky restraints are also comfortable and easy to use, with loops at one end making them adjustable for every size and level of mobility. Why not pull out all the stops when trying this and set the scene with Romantic Red Rose Petals and a few candles?
I always love playing with a new gel or balm. It's so much fun experimenting with sensations and finding which feels best for you!
Sensuva Ice Cube Flavoured Cooling Nipple Balm for example is a great investment for, well, anybody with nipples! The near-instant cooling sensation increases sensitivity and that lovely perky look.
It can be a real game-changer when having a partner lick, suck, or kiss your nipples, as changes in moisture and temperature gives this product an edge.
Pin Ups Bombshell Orgasm Balms are a firm favourite of mine too, as they're the definition of 'good things come in small packages'.
Beautifully packaged and discreetly sized, it's perfect for those who are new to balms and gels. Slick a small amount on to your finger and rub onto your nipples and/or clitoris (or have a partner do it for you), and let it work its magic, helping to bring you a quicker and more mind-blowing orgasm.
However, I would advise making sure such items are tidied away when you have company, as I found out when a friend of mine mistook it for a tin of lip balm...
Lizi is a Sociology student at Northumbria University, often found blogging about as Some Angry Northern B*tch. While she may not have the solutions to the world's problems just yet, she certainly has some for your sex life.
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