• Why Everyone Should Own A Realistic Dildo

    Why Everyone Should Own A Realistic Dildo

    As someone who has owned and used sex toys for the majority of their sexually active years, I am a huge advocate of all types of toy and see no problem in possessing and enjoying them.

    With such a large range on the market, there truly is a toy out there for everyone.

    That being said, as the title of this article suggests, I am here to shout loud and proud about the fabulousness that is:

    The realistic dildo.

    Although many people would consider this a toy box staple, there are many others who are yet to be convinced.

    Why does it have to look so realistic? Surely if it doesn't vibrate, it's not worth it? Why does it have balls?

    Well, I'm here to enlighten you as to why these toys deserve a place in everyone's bedside drawer.


    What Is A Realistic Dildo?

    A realistic dildo is a dildo that is particularly phallic in nature.

    It tends to be modelled after the basic shape of a human penis, characterised with a fairly uniform shaft and pronounced head.

    Additional features often include veins, balls and sometimes a colour which is of some skin-toned variety, but these are not absolute necessities for a dildo to qualify. Check out the range available on Lovehoney to get a better idea of this!

    So, why are they so great?

    Lovehoney Lifelike Lover Realistic Dildo 8 Inch

    Lifelike Sensations

    Along with a natural shape comes a more natural feeling than with more zany designs of dildo.

    These other shapes and styles are great too (I have never met one I hated!), but some days, your body craves something a little more natural that can sate your needs in the way an actual human would.

    This natural feeling particularly lends itself to fantasies and imaginary scenarios, especially if they involve someone you know - it makes the fantasy all the stronger if you can feel a realistic shape inside you.

    If this person you are fantasising about is your actual partner, or at least someone who you very much trust sexually, you could even consider making your own realistic dildo with a Clone-A-Willy kit!

    Plus, because of the extra textures on the veins of the shaft and balls, you can benefit from additional stimulation (both inside and out) that you don't get with a smoother toy.

    All Genders and Body Types Can Use Them

    A wonderful thing about this type of toy is how inclusive it is. Literally everybody has the means to try one out and therefore nobody need miss out on this type of fun!

    Yes, wider traditional use is vaginally, but this is only one way a realistic dildo can be satisfying.

    They can used vaginally, anally (if the dildo has a flared base), and even for oral and manual sex fantasies!

    The point is, realistic dildos are great in that no one should ever feel left out, and anyone who wishes to delve into the world of sex toys can rest assured that a realistic dildo is a solid option for them to try out.

    They Can Be Incorporated Into All Types of Activities

    Lovehoney Lifelike Silicone 8 Inch Pink Dildo with Suction Cup

    Furthering their inclusivity, realistic dildos can be included as a part of all types of sexual activity too! Solo play, couples' play, BDSM, fantasies involving additional partners... the versatility really is an awesome thing with this type of toy.

    Due to the wide range of features available, there should be a realistic dildo out there which is perfect for whatever you are planning to do with it.

    For example, you can find vibrating ones (if that is the type of stimulation to get you off), ones with suction cups (enabling hands-free fun) and even strap-ons (perfect for activities such as girl-on-girl play or pegging).

    If you are looking for a realistic dildo with a particular purpose in mind, be sure to think about these extra features that could make a toy the ideal one for you.

    There even particularly niche ones, such as fisting dildos, which are also realistic in the sense they are like a human fist, or even dildos attached to sex dolls, so realistic dildos truly are universal.

    They Can Be Beautiful

    Icicles No 61 Textured Realistic Glass Dildo

    This is such a simple reason, but oh-so-true. Realistic dildos are just so lovely to look at. The human body is a beautiful thing, so how can something modelled after that be anything less than attractive?

    When I say "realistic", often the first thing that comes to people's minds are the flesh-toned variety, which can be off-putting to some. Whilst indeed many are of this type, if that is something that just isn't your thing, do not fret!

    Despite all falling into the same realistic category, the range of dildos you can buy is endless. Available in every colour of the rainbow, and made from all types of materials, I dare you to not find one that you find aesthetically appealing.

    If you really are averse to the look of extremely realistic toys, I definitely suggest checking out glass toys – it may surprise you to find that realistic shapes are available in this material, but I can assure you they are and they are truly breath-taking mini sculpture of pleasure.


    What do you think? Do you love realistic dildos? Or are you still not convinced? Let us know in the comments below!

    Blogger supercutesecret is an established sex and relationships blogger, who studies Maths & Statistics at the University of Warwick.


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    Comments (1)

    • Ggdub: May 05, 2017 23:38
      My wife's favourites are glass dildos, we have a couple of them, we have tried to enhance them, using cock rings etc. To give her extra pleasure, nothing fits, which is great means I'm bigger!!!
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