Ladies, These Are The Best Toys For Wearing Out and About
If your housemates are so chilled that they won't raise their eyebrows if you close yourself for an hour in your bedroom with that sexy guy you just met, well, you're super lucky.
For some of us, things just aren't that easy.
No matter how friendly your housemates are, sometimes living with them just makes it impossible to have sex in your bedroom. Would you truly want to be heard by your friends while you moan and scream of pleasure?
So, sometimes, we are forced to be a little creative: we need to explore other places for intimacy instead of the old plain bedroom and create new scenarios to fulfill our desires.
I'm not saying you must limit yourself to the classic bathroom quickie: it can be exciting, as we all know, but sometimes it may be difficult to 'get to the point' in such a short time.
This is where super-discreet sex toys that you can wear out and about come into play…
Ben Wa Balls
One of the cheapest toys you can buy is a good pair of Ben Wa balls (also known as kegel balls, jiggle balls, or geisha balls).
You may have heard of them in Fifty Shades of Grey, when Christian slips a pair into Ana's body before spanking her. What E. L. James doesn't tell you, though, is that you aren't limited to wear those balls in the Red Room (if you can afford to have one into your student dorm!).
Instead, while you wear them inside your vagina, try going for a walk - yes, in public! While you walk, these weighted little balls move around your vagina, stimulating your most sensitive spots and, most important, you'll keep on thinking to the moment when your guy has put them inside you or when he'll find them as a surprise. Sounds arousing, doesn't it?
Unless you choose metallic Ben Wa balls, it's very unlikely that someone will hear them moving inside you. Choose instead the ones made of silicone, PVC or latex, which are all completely silent when set in place.
Butt plugs are great, if you're a fan of anal play. You slip the plug inside with a little lubricant, and perhaps with a little help from your partner, and then you secretly wear it while doing your normal everyday activities.
You can find good quality soft silicone plugs at a very reasonable price. Remember, always use a good water-based lube with silicone anal toys!
If you are ready to invest some extra pennies, then you can go one step further, and try vibrating love eggs with a wireless remote control.
A love egg is simply a little egg-shaped vibe that you can wear inside your vagina exactly as you would do with Ben Wa balls, and with the same discretion you can dare to wear it in public, but the wireless remote adds a whole new dimension of fun.
With the remote in their hands, your partner has full control of your toy: they can switch your egg on and off when you don't expect it and change the intensity and speed of the vibrations as they wish. You can play like this almost everywhere: a good quality wireless egg typically is very silent so no one can hear its vibrations once it's in place inside your vagina.
For extra discretion, the remote often looks just like a keychain so other people cannot guess what you are doing with it: just try to keep the moans down in public!
There are also high-tech toys available that you can control with a smartphone app rather than with a physical remote. They're definitely on the pricey side, but helpful for many of us coping with a long distance relationship: when the app has been downloaded on both your phones and you both are connected to the Internet, your partner can control your toy from anywhere in the world.
Written by Ambra, a student at Università degli studi di Macerata.
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