1. Take Our Sex Life Survey and WIN a Bundle Worth Over £100!

    Take our survey and you could win!

    How long have you gone without having sex? A week? A month? Five years?

    We all go through periods of our life where we have less sex than others, usually between relationships - but for some, the wait is longer than for others. Our latest sex survey gets to the nitty-gritty of sex droughts - do they just happen to single people?

    We're offering everyone who takes the survey the chance to win these fantastic Lovehoney goodies worth over £100:

    Here's what we're giving away:

    This competition is now closed. The winner will be contacted via email.

    Comments (84)

    • kittyondrugz: June 13, 2014 14:56
    • Claire: June 13, 2014 14:56
      I've been single for 4 years since separating from my husband. The first 2 were fine as there had been a bereavement so I concentrated on that but since then, even though I'm continually told I'm gorgeous, sexy etc men do not want to approach me when I'm out. I'm told its because I'm a confident, attractive woman (from male, honest friends) & that guys find this intimidating!! If I were to do the sleeping around thing then I'd be a "slut" a very frustrating. Anyone else have any comments on this?
    • blackjag63: June 13, 2014 17:14
      Good luck everyone
    • Katie: June 13, 2014 17:19
      Lovely bundle
    • lyndsey lumley: June 13, 2014 17:40
    • Sean Weasenham: June 13, 2014 18:12
      Done :-)
    • Vic: June 13, 2014 19:45
      Done! Been in a sex drought for years (thank you, husband...) could do with this! X
    • Debbs: June 13, 2014 19:48
      Done! :-)
    • Aoife: June 13, 2014 20:04
    • Michelle: June 13, 2014 20:18
      Good luck everyone :)
    • Rebecca: June 13, 2014 20:42
    • Kathryn Williams: June 13, 2014 20:54
      Love your products :)
    • Angeldelight: June 13, 2014 20:58
      Done x
    • holli: June 13, 2014 21:20
      done and good luck :D
    • karen: June 13, 2014 21:24
      I have been in a drought for the last 3 years due my husband having a medical problem. I am 16 years younger than my OH and highly sexed, so this would be a god send, Good luck everybody.
    • colin catanach: June 13, 2014 21:38
      good luck peps x
    • notmadetomeasure: June 13, 2014 21:46
      Me and my partner went through a sexual drought when he had a medical condition. It lasted over a year. We got through it thanks to love honey and now we're better than ever.
    • Mags: June 13, 2014 22:18
      Since discovering Lovehoney my husband & I have become more adventurous. I used to own one sex toy, now I have a drawer full & enjoy trying them all.
    • Lynz: June 14, 2014 01:52
      With my hubby being a serving soldier when he away on deployment is when it's at it's hardest...!
    • Andy gipson: June 14, 2014 02:33
      Love sex hated not having it thank god for wanking and sex toys ??
    • Darren: June 14, 2014 03:12
      Sex is like,the more you have the more you want , the less you have the less you want, which in turn creates issues between partners with people having differing sex drives
    • ChrisHughesy: June 14, 2014 05:57
      Brilliant competition! I think its good and healthy to have good sex often. Its also great if you go a few days without so it feels new again!
    • Dan Fogarty: June 14, 2014 07:43
      I love sex, it's happening more often now we have some toys to use. Great comp, great bundle.
    • Rosie: June 14, 2014 09:59
      Done x
    • Purring-Pussy: June 14, 2014 14:20
      Done with pleasure.
    • Karen: June 14, 2014 17:15
    • Terrible Ladygay: June 14, 2014 17:26
      Long distance relationships have been a huge opportunity for sexual drought. I'm largely monogamous in my relationships and have had several LDRs which makes everything so very frustrating. Luckily my current partner lives a 20min bus ride away!
    • vicky: June 14, 2014 18:17
      Awesome prize
      Someone will be so happy x
    • Sasha: June 14, 2014 19:44
      That is literally the perfect bundle right there- good luck every body!
    • ?Cat?: June 15, 2014 01:15
      ?? completed ??
    • wildflower: June 15, 2014 13:36
      Good comp and a nice bundle, someone will be pleased!
    • Natalie: June 15, 2014 19:31
    • Richard Ellerbeck: June 15, 2014 20:16
      Intresting questions
    • sarah: June 15, 2014 22:29
      Answered as honestly as i can . Good luck everyone :o)
    • Amanda: June 16, 2014 06:36
      Done! I've been through a huge "dry spell" in recent years. But my partner has stuck by me this whole time. Thankfully I'm back on form, medically fit "down there" now too! And thanks to lovehoney, we are having lotsa fun!! The competition ends on my birthday too!! X
    • Lianne: June 16, 2014 13:29
    • RichMag: June 16, 2014 13:43
      A canny survey, answered honestly & with a good prize for somebody as well......good luck
    • Ryan: June 16, 2014 19:08
      Good luck
    • Jon: June 16, 2014 19:14
    • robert sales: June 16, 2014 19:16
      I spent five years after a divorce. The last two years were the hardest.
    • colin smith: June 16, 2014 19:29
      if I win my lady friend will be in heaven .
    • paul: June 16, 2014 19:31
      I love sex toys when masterbateing specialy huge cock like dildos so fingers crossed legs spread plenty o lube .BLISS
    • elise: June 16, 2014 19:31
      cant find survey
    • martin taylor: June 16, 2014 19:52
    • Hells: June 16, 2014 20:25
      Absolutely love your products!!
      Me and my other half have great fun in the bedroom with some of these little beauties!
    • Ang: June 16, 2014 21:03
      Here's hoping, would be a lovely treat for me & my partner
    • Tee: June 16, 2014 21:06
      Good luck everyone ;)
    • Terry: June 16, 2014 21:08
      Done great fun start a forum or chat line could be fun try it lol
    • Zoey Shorter: June 16, 2014 21:30
      have fun
    • Martins: June 16, 2014 21:31
    • Colin: June 16, 2014 21:33
      Done, good luck everyone!
    • Steve: June 16, 2014 21:36
      Been through several droughts all due to serious medical ops. Wish Love Honey had been around 20 years ago there might have been more wet less drought! Toys put the fun back into overcoming medical ED :-)
    • Paul: June 16, 2014 21:46
      After the birth of my first son my then wife wasn't interested in having sex. This went on for 4 years which led me to have one night stands. It was a one night stand I which my new wife met. We are very happy and enjoy each other's company wink wink nudge nudge
    • Sarah Vassallo: June 16, 2014 21:50
      My partner and I have a high sex drive and always like to experiment and try new things but with myself putting a bit of weight on things have slowed down in the bedroom but working on it and love honey keeps me motivated as can't wait to buy some new sexy underwear x
    • Stuart: June 16, 2014 22:15
      Just started with toys and they are improving our sex life. Hoping to add a few
    • Lynsey: June 16, 2014 22:19
      I adore love honey. ??
    • Kaylee: June 16, 2014 22:33
      Done! Good luck everyone!
    • Paul: June 16, 2014 22:35
      Hi all, my drought started a couple of years after my second daughter was born she is now 22. I am still with my wife as the vows say better or worse. I'm 44 .
    • Naomie: June 16, 2014 22:40
      Hi Claire, I understand what you are experiencing, I can recommend that you read Rori Rayes' E book, called something like 'have the relationship you want'. Look on her web site. Some times when we are very confident we can put out a vibe that we don't need men, and they so want to feel needed! This book is worth it's weight in gold. good luck!
    • Granny Smith: June 16, 2014 23:34
      My drought started with the loss of my parents: I couldn't bring myself to enjoy anything, I was feeling guilty! My husband, with much patience and some help from Lovehoney, gave me back a reason to enjoy sex again.
    • Drew: June 16, 2014 23:34
      There is somebody for everybody a girlfriend said to me once after traveling on the underground in London "men always look at me and some are really fit if the were just to ask the answer would be yes - but they don't!) so don't hold back the answer to your question will probably be yes but you do have to make it known!
    • Missy: June 17, 2014 00:08
      I like to experiment
    • Myles.Tagoyet: June 17, 2014 00:09
      Lovehoney has provided a great opportunity to buy the things my lover and I have enjoyed together. We've stretched our boundaries as a result, finding new ways to enjoy each other.
    • Gav: June 17, 2014 00:39
      I have not had sex for 4yrs as my wife had a medical condition. Thank the Lord for love honey
    • Kylie Watson: June 17, 2014 00:58
      I love to experiment an try different stuff xx
    • Natasha: June 17, 2014 02:19
      Done, at the end my email address didn't show up in the box, did anyone else have this problem.
    • Deborah Fairclough: June 17, 2014 07:34
      I have not had sex for over ten years and could not have coped without sex toys
    • Deborah Fairclough: June 17, 2014 07:43
      I have not had sex for over ten years and could not have coped without sex toys
    • Lorna: June 17, 2014 10:19
      Love my hubby but now working again hes to tired and I am frustrated and i love sex
    • lilmissfrustrated: June 17, 2014 11:22
      Good luck everyone. What a fantastic prize.
    • sally: June 17, 2014 16:18
      Drought! Husband died 4 years ago, we hadn't had sex for at least 10 years before his death he was always tired, always moaning and unknown to me seeing working girls.. Last year I started a relationship with a great guy and had great sex but it's tailed off and now I'm left with a moaning tired man who's more interested in sleeping than sex. Finally however at the age of 50 something I've discovered 'toys' so boyfriend can watch tv in his own flat and moan to thin air, I'm happy at home with my lovely new acqusitions, men - why are they needed? I'm sure there are some good ones out there and lucky women who have them in their lives guess i just need to keep looking. Good luck with the competition everyone.
    • Mike: June 17, 2014 16:41
      Good Luck everyone
    • Holly: June 17, 2014 20:33
      Done :-) hope I win for once!!
    • Tasmin: June 17, 2014 22:14
      All done :)
    • SexiBexi13: June 17, 2014 23:07
      Amazing bundle of goodies! Love doing surveys for you Lovehoney :)
    • PinkyAllRed: June 18, 2014 03:18
      Hi Claire. Get out and about and join a dating agency. You're not a nun, so you don't have to behave like one. Enjoy life. Good luck and hope these toys get a good home, with lots of love and use!
    • Danielle: June 18, 2014 10:35
      Done! Would love to win this!!
    • Amanda: June 18, 2014 14:40
      Done hope I win ??
    • Betty: June 19, 2014 03:54
    • Sean chambers: June 19, 2014 06:44
      It just happens sometimes and there's not a lot you can do about it.
    • Colin middlemass: June 20, 2014 06:53
      I just take it day by day min by min and what happens happens best way for me
    • Monty: June 22, 2014 10:53
      Good bundle! Would make any barren streak worthwhile!
    • Bundy: June 23, 2014 06:17
    • Charlotte: June 23, 2014 15:47
      I won! Oh my gosh I hadn't even considered WINNING, I just think that people should have more conversations about sex, and any research, formal or informal can help start and support these discussions.

      That said, I can't wait until my package arrives! THANKS, LOVEHONEY! x