I have never masturbated ever or used sex toys before. Can you give me some ideas?
The kind of touch that you’ll enjoy may be very different from someone else, so each of us has to discover what we like for ourselves.
I have never masturbated or used sex toys before. I'm 24, in a good relationship and even though he satisfies me I want more. Can you give me some ideas for toys and some tips to help me to learn how to masturbate?
Masturbation can be a fantastic way of caring for ourselves and giving ourselves a treat when we need and deserve one. Using toys can definitely add an extra twist of excitement and pleasure, but fingers alone are fine.
It’s difficult to teach someone how to masturbate because we’re all so uniquely different. The kind of touch that you’ll enjoy may be very different from someone else, so each of us has to discover what we like for ourselves.
I would suggest that you start by having a lovely soak in the bath so you feel really relaxed and then take some time to lavish your skin with some sensual massage lotion. Allow yourself to drift off into a quiet place and let your fingers explore. Take as much time as you need to experience the different sensations around your labia and clitoris, using some lube to keep things really silky.
Start by experimenting with different kinds of touch until you find what really turns you on - then just keep on doing it. If you want to experiment with toys, have a look at the range of sex toys that Lovehoney offer, perhaps starting with a bullet vibrator or something else that’s small and not too threatening, and see what tickles your fancy.
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