I've got no confidence in the bedroom - any advice on how to change this?
Sexual confidence is something that all couples have to create together.
I'm not the most confident in the bedroom and feel like I'm letting myself and my girlfriend down. Have you got any tips and advice on what to do to improve my confidence?
Sexual confidence is something that all couples have to create together. Every single one of us is unique, so no matter how many partners you’ve had, or how many sex manuals or porn films you’ve seen, you still need to learn about your partner as an individual and find out what turns them on.
My top tip for anybody who wants to become a more confident lover is to ask their partner what they enjoy. Start by asking your girlfriend what kind of kissing turns her on while you’re snuggling up on the sofa. Then if you get into the bedroom, begin stroking her all over and ask her what areas of her body are her most erogenous.
When you make contact with her hot spots, get her to show you the kind of touch she prefers. In just one evening you’ll learn more about her than any guide could tell you - and your confidence will start to soar.