Hanky Spanky: The Simple Guide To Sensual Spanking
More and more people are enjoying the pleasures of sensual spanking - it's a great way to build sexual tension in the bedroom.
More and more people are enjoying the pleasures of sensual spanking - which is ultimately more about submissive helplessness versus power and control, rather than the pain factor.
The most popular position is over the knee, and the erotic charge can be heightened if a specific time is fixed for the ‘punishment’ or ‘discipline’ to take place. Make sure to aim for the ‘sweet spot’, the fleshiest bit of the bottom where it meets the thighs, and always avoid the kidneys and lower back.
Attend to one bum cheek at a time, and if they’re rubbed before and after each stroke, it’ll build sexual tension whilst also soothing any pain. Take your time too - a quick succession of frenetic slaps isn’t sexy.
Stick to hands, and then purpose built paddles - Lovehoney has a range of these - or save money and try a plastic spatula or fly swat (test out on your own hand before turning it on your partner). Start lightly and go slowly - you can intensify your strokes when you see how your partner responds…
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