How to use a vibrator

Experience mind-blowing orgasms with our easy-to-follow tips on using a vibrator. Ready, steady, orgasm!

How do I use a vibrator?

If you normally let your fingers do the walking, give them a hard-earned rest and discover ways to use a vibrator. Whether you're part of a sexy twosome or flying solo until the right playmate comes along, smooth Ladyfinger-type vibrators will make you scream, moan and writhe with pleasure - once you've discovered the best vibrator use.

Beautiful, sleek and relentless in their quest for your orgasm, these slimline vibes are a great place to start for vibe virgins and for girls who want clit and vaginal stimulation without deep penetration.

Ladyfinger vibrators are perfect for those of you who like your vibes immaculately packaged and easy to handle. Our favourites include the Lady Lustfinger, a sleek 5-inch vibrator with twist-operated base control and multispeed function, available in white, silver and gold; the Crystal Clear mini vibrator, available in purple or pink, dainty enough for your handbag but powerful enough to pack a clit-tingling buzz

The Deluxe Super Sleek Smooth vibrator, shiny enough to act as a mirror if you've lost your compact, and the Tracey Cox Supersex Pleasure Vibe are also top of the pops for super smooth and incredibly quiet vibrations.

Use a vibrator on your own

For those of you playing by yourself, the vibe world is your erotic oyster. There are several ways to use a vibrator on your own, the most common of which is to use it as a clitoral stimulator.

You can do this by simply choosing your desired vibration pattern and speed, applying some lube to make things nice and slippery, then moving the vibe around your clit until you come. That's a basic, but extremely enjoyable approach to orgasming with a vibrator. But why not spice things up a bit?

If you're the type of girl who comes in seconds when using a vibe, why not prolong your orgasm by concentrating your efforts on other parts of your body first? Depending on the material of your Ladyfinger vibe, you may want to warm the cold plastic feel with some warming lubricant such as WET Warming Lubricant, KY Warming Liquid or ID Sensation Warming Liquid.

Once you're all fired up, start by choosing the slowest speed setting or gentlest vibration pattern (you can work your way up to the more powerful settings).

Experiment with your vibrator

Experiment and track down your different erogenous zones by rubbing your vibrator over various parts of your body including those you
wouldn't necessarily think were sexy, like behind your neck, behind your knees and down your sides, as well as over your breasts, abdomen and the inside of your thighs.

You can try out the various speed settings and vibration patterns on these areas of your body before eventually reaching
your clitoris.

Use a vibrator with your partner

Ladyfinger-type vibrators are also couple-friendly, and while your partner can use one on you, you can also use one to masturbate in front of him or, even better, masturbate him.

To do this, get your partner to lie on his back with his legs open, apply plenty of lube and hold the vibe against the shaft of his penis, gently sliding it up and down, on the tip of his penis and on the base of his shaft and round to his balls and perineum for a rocket-launch orgasm he won't ever forget!