Prostate massage pleasure: the male G-spot

If you want to drive your man wild in the sack or help him discover his G-spot, we've got the goods to turn you into a prostate massage sex god!

Listen up ladies, and gents, because we will only say this once: the way to your man's heart is not through his stomach, it's through his prostate! That's right, hit his male G-spot smack on the bulls-eye with some prostate massage and he'll begging you for more. Want to know how to do it? Then read on, you sexy minxes.

Discovering your man's prostate isn't that difficult, but pleasuring it in a comfortable and sexy way takes a bit more skill and sass. Luckily for you, there are tricks and toys available to help you in your quest to make your man come within seconds.

The male G-spot

For years women's and men's magazines have banged on about the female G-spot and where to find it, but it's high-time we spread the love and gave the male G-spot some time in the limelight. For delicious, intense and quite often numerous orgasms, pleasuring your man's prostate is one move every sex kitten needs to learn.

But before we go any further, you need to know exactly what you're dealing with! In scientific terms, the male G-spot is the prostate perineum, which is a small soft spot between the anus and the scrotum.

All those tingly nerves that control your man's erections, orgasms and ejaculations join at the prostate perineum, so controlling this baby is what we're talking about!

Massaging the prostate gland, or the 'command centre' as it's comically referred to, will put you in complete control and send your man to seventh heaven with a powerful and overwhelming orgasm. Or three.

Yes, you read it right. Sometimes, stimulation of the prostate gland can be so powerful that it's not uncommon for a guy to experience multiple orgasms. But let's not get ahead of ourselves just yet.

Where to find it

As we mentioned above, your man's prostate gland is located between his anus and his scrotum, so you will have to go where every bold women should go! Some guys may take a bit of convincing to understand that just because you want to play with their anus, it doesn't mean you're implying they're gay. Explain to your man that if he wants to explode like a rocket all over your face, he'd better let you get, ahem, cracking.

The best position for you to discover your man's G-spot is to kneel or to lie between his open legs. This will allow you direct access to his anus and the area we need to get to.

To find your man's G-spot, place your well-lubricated index finger inside his anus until you come to a small dime or walnut-sized mound on his rectal wall, otherwise known as his G-spot.

How to stimulate it

Hoorah for finding it! Now, gently touch and massage your lover's prostate to get him to get used to the sensation. Remember: the nerve endings here will be ultra-sensitive, so go carefully. To make it feel a little less clinical and a lot more horny, combine your prostate exploration with some gentle oral sex. But don't get too vigorous, or the game will be over in seconds!

If you need to, reapply some lubricant to your finger to make things nice and wet again, then re-insert your index finger and press against his prostate. If your man is enjoying the sensation, you may want to apply a bit more pressure to increase the thrill.

You may also want to try a 'shunting' method, where you rapidly remove and insert your finger into his anus, pressing his G-spot for orgasmic stimulation.

When your man becomes used to having his prostate stimulated and wants to take it a step further for even bigger, more intense orgasms, try using a prostate toy. The Aneros range has a massive selection of prostate stimulators to delicately massage your man's G-spot for explosive orgasms.

Toys such as the Aneros Eupho Prostate Massager, the Aneros MGX Massager and the Aneros Maximus Prostate Massager will deliver the goods with varying degrees of pressure and pleasure.

If your man needs a bit of extra lube, inside as well as out, the Aneros Lubricant Applicator is a genius invention for inserting lubricant internally and reaching the parts that matter. If you're not sure what lubes to apply to your guy's anus, stick with specifically designed anal lubes such as Aquaglide Anal Lubricant or Golden Girl Anal Jelly, and add some Anal Eaze Desensitising Cream for an even smoother ride.

Other prostate pleasure tools to get to grips with include the Dr Joel Kaplan Vibrating Prostate Massager and the Tantus ProTouch Silicone Vibrating Butt Plug - a double hit for your man's sweet spot!