1. Prostate massage pleasure: the male G-spot

    If you want to drive your man wild in the sack or help him discover his G-spot, we've got the goods to turn you into a prostate massage sex god!

    Listen up ladies, and gents, because we will only say this once: the way to your man's heart is not through his stomach, it's through his prostate! That's right, hit his male G-spot smack on the bulls-eye with some prostate massage and he'll begging you for more. Want to know how to do it? Then read on, you sexy minxes.

    Discovering your man's prostate isn't that difficult, but pleasuring it in a comfortable and sexy way takes a bit more skill and sass. Luckily for you, there are tricks and toys available to help you in your quest to make your man come within seconds.

    The male G-spot

    For years women's and men's magazines have banged on about the female G-spot and where to find it, but it's high-time we spread the love and gave the male G-spot some time in the limelight. For delicious, intense and quite often numerous orgasms, pleasuring your man's prostate is one move every sex kitten needs to learn.

    But before we go any further, you need to know exactly what you're dealing with! In scientific terms, the male G-spot is the prostate perineum, which is a small soft spot between the anus and the scrotum.

    All those tingly nerves that control your man's erections, orgasms and ejaculations join at the prostate perineum, so controlling this baby is what we're talking about!

    Lovehoney Rookie 10 Function Vibrating Prostate MassagerMassaging the prostate gland, or the 'command centre' as it's comically referred to, will put you in complete control and send your man to seventh heaven with a powerful and overwhelming orgasm. Or three.

    Yes, you read it right. Sometimes, stimulation of the prostate gland can be so powerful that it's not uncommon for a guy to experience multiple orgasms. But let's not get ahead of ourselves just yet.

    Where to find it

    As we mentioned above, your man's prostate gland is located between his anus and his scrotum, so you will have to go where every bold women should go! Some guys may take a bit of convincing to understand that just because you want to play with their anus, it doesn't mean you're implying they're gay. Explain to your man that if he wants to explode like a rocket all over your face, he'd better let you get, ahem, cracking.

    The best position for you to discover your man's G-spot is to kneel or to lie between his open legs. This will allow you direct access to his anus and the area we need to get to.

    To find your man's G-spot, place your well-lubricated index finger inside his anus until you come to a small dime or walnut-sized mound on his rectal wall, otherwise known as his G-spot.

    How to stimulate it

    Lovehoney PRO-Stim Elite Silicone Prostate MassagerHoorah for finding it! Now, gently touch and massage your lover's prostate to get him to get used to the sensation. Remember: the nerve endings here will be ultra-sensitive, so go carefully. To make it feel a little less clinical and a lot more horny, combine your prostate exploration with some gentle oral sex. But don't get too vigorous, or the game will be over in seconds!

    If you need to, reapply some lubricant to your finger to make things nice and wet again, then re-insert your index finger and press against his prostate. If your man is enjoying the sensation, you may want to apply a bit more pressure to increase the thrill.

    You may also want to try a 'shunting' method, where you rapidly remove and insert your finger into his anus, pressing his G-spot for orgasmic stimulation.

    When your man becomes used to having his prostate stimulated and wants to take it a step further for even bigger, more intense orgasms, try using a prostate toy. Check out Lovehoney's range of prostate stimulators to delicately massage your man's G-spot for explosive orgasms.

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    Comments (12)

    • natebigboygunn: January 05, 2009 17:04
      me n the misus have tryed all this n still have no luck,
      where are we going wrong?
      please help?
    • anonymous: May 11, 2009 21:40
      i have tried this and the missus and no joy. Where am i going wrong
    • edmguy24: June 03, 2009 23:14
      Make sure you are very relaxed...sometimes it can be a little uncomfortable to have a finger or object insterted into this area! About 2 - 3 inches in you may find the spot.
      For me, it is quite further, more like 6-7 inches in...yes I know that may sound painful or freak you out, but once you get over the sterotypes of anal penetration, you may find it quite pleasurable. It has nothing to do with being gay(just for the record) Try it out, and hopefully you can find pleasure in it...i have had multiple orgasms from it...it may help to have your penis stroked during the process. OR, you may hot orgasm without even touching it!
    • Mslave: July 06, 2009 23:23
      is the any household object u cud use for this ? i dont seem to be able to get my ass hole wide enough ? what do u do when u hit it ?
    • LoveHoney - Carly: July 08, 2009 09:23
      It is definitely not advised to use any household items as sex toys! The potential for injury and infection is very high so instead, it is highly recommended that you use a dedicated prostate massager or well lubed fingers.

      Using lots of lubricant will make the process much easier and less painful too!

    • Dave: July 09, 2009 21:12
      words of addvice; dont spend out massvly on p-spot toys! take things slow.. start cheap and work your way up. I own most of the offical toys and none of them work, only my wifes finger and simple toys work for me. also dont think your being a big-man and buy somthink too big or you will pass out! also notice most plugs and toys have packs or training kits to help you work your way up.
    • mslave: July 10, 2009 08:14
      Thanks Carly ! so wheres the best place do get toys n what r they ? u have msn ?
    • LoveHoney - Carly: July 10, 2009 10:34
      Hi mslave!

      LoveHoney do a fantastic range of prostate toys - from the small and sensual, to the big and beautiful!

      You can see the full range here: www.lovehoney.co.uk/store.cfm?cat=5069

      However, I would highly recommend the Aneros range as they come in a variety of shapes and sizes, and they're also very highly rated by our reviewers: www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/aneros/

      Remember, take it slow and gentle, use lots of lube and be patient - it may not work for you at first, but once you find that little nub inside you - it will feel fantastic!

    • matthew: October 24, 2009 01:34
      i fond it embarresing buying toys, there is a sex shop here but i have never been in, i find it embaressing buyin condoms and lube aswell ? is there a reason for this ?
    • Tony: October 27, 2009 00:06
      Yes matthew, many people both male and female will always be too embarressed to buy such things. Good thing that places such as this mail discreetly.
      Just make sure it's a real and trusted site - con men love to steal credit card details of embarressed people too scared to report it.
    • J J: July 10, 2010 00:35
      Hi my name is jamie, my man is so much into anal pleasures. I was introduced to it about eight years ago forcefully and didnt enjoy it. Now i have this opportunity to see if i would enjoy it for my pleasure but my man wont let me please him. We have watched videos and i got turned on but he said im not into it. I really wanna please him and myself and show him that i am into it what should i do? How would i shock the hell out of him ans spice up our sex life?
    • D: September 26, 2016 05:37
      I tell you I bought 9" vibrator from lovehoney, am straight guy but wanted to find my inside pleasure. At first was a bit unsure as when it came forgot about girth, but once lubed I started playing. I eased the sphincter and then gently went further when I found it I was amazed but paralyzed with orgasm which I have never had before, so don't be shy explore and you will not look back. BLOWN AWAY IN ORGASM