Reader Tips: Anal sex advice
If you're curious about anal sex but find the thought of being penetrated by something as big as a willy somewhat tear-inducing, try experimenting with a toy which gradually increases in girth, like the Spectra Gel Beaded Anal Vibrator.
The smaller beads at the end allow you to start off with a little gentle probing and with time you can build up to a fuller sensation with the larger beads.
Make sure to use a thick water-based lubricant such as Doc Johnson Anal Lubricant and go slowly. It really does make all the difference how gently you play.
The beaded texture also allows the muscles in your arse to close around the toy, holding it in place, so you get used to having something up there. As it's also a vibrator, you'll get some new and interesting sensations. Well worth exploring!