1. Get jiggy with a vibrating butt plug

    Buy Tantus Zing Wireless Vibrating Silicone Butt Plug at LovehoneyI've been using a butt plug for a few years now, but I don't mind saying how weary I was the first time I tried one. It wasn't just because I was afraid of how it would feel when inserted, but more because I was broadening my sexual repertoire and that can always be a little scary as well as exciting.

    Because it was a few years ago, and because the butt plug was bought for me as a present, I can't actually remember the name of the first ever plug I used. But since then, I have finally settled on my absolute favourite plug, which is the one I want to tell you about.

    Using a butt plug as part of your sexual repertoire will lead to intense anal fulfilment and amazing orgasms. They're a fabulous way to initially explore the boundaries of anal sex, either through solo masturbation or for anal stimulation during vaginal sex with your lover. But if you have never used a butt plug before, I'd recommend you start off with some anal beads before graduating to a butt plug (check out the Small Beginners Anal Beads or Latex Power Balls).

    The butt plug I would recommend, because it's the one I keep using again and again and again, is the Tantus Zing Wireless Vibrating Silicone Butt Plug. This little cutie is a luxurious vibrating treat for your anus. It has a number of different speed settings, so you can vibe as hard or as slow as you want.

    The reason why I love using the Tantus Zing butt plug is because the vibrating action helps turn me on a lot quicker than a normal butt plug; helping to prepare my anus for bigger things to come in the shape of my lover's penis.

    The Tantus Zing butt plug is extremely easy to use and looks pretty funky, too. Made of bright purple silicone, all you need to do is apply a generous amount of lube to your anus and the plug and slowly insert it into your anus. You may choose to switch off the vibrating function until the butt plug is fully inside your anus, as some people find it a little overwhelming when dealing with the double sensation of anal penetration and vibration. I find it helps to relax me a lot more, though.

    The lubricants that work well with any kind of anal activity are Doc Johnson's Anal Lube or Bioglide Anal Lubricant, so don't forget to lube up properly before getting down to any plugging action.