Sex in Public - Without Getting Caught!
Posted on: June 04, 2009 11:06 | Posted by: Tracey Cox
It's all about the situation: he's immune to seeing you naked pre-bedtime, but a flash of thigh by the roadside is unexpectedly voyeuristic. Learn how to have sex outside the confines of your home, without being arrested for indecent exposure!
The secret to loving lustily in the long term is to surprise each other sexually. Take sex outside of the bedroom and passion is instantly renewed. But although sex on the car bonnet might seem raw and unromantic when you've a big, soft bed to roll around in contrast is key.
Standing positions are better for high-risk outdoors sex as you can easily extricate yourselves from the situation and make a run for it! Stand with your back to him, bend over and grab your legs or the nearest available surface. With him slipping his trousers down just a tad and you lifting your skirt, he can penetrate you and stimulate that nerve-packed God-that-feels-good front vaginal wall.
Sex in the midst's of nature is fun as you don't have to think about long term comfort. Fields, hedgerows, bushes and forests can be amazing locations but are not for the shy and retiring. If you're worried about being exposed, find a barn on a quiet farm and enjoy the shelter from the elements and prying eyes.
Choose your time carefully. Waking your partner up in the middle of the night, the day before an important business meeting is not going to end well. Wait for the weekend and take short naps throughout the day to build up your energy for later. Remember - early mornings are great for urban escapades as the streets are deserted but farmers get up at the crack of dawn to start work so avoid fields and country lanes between 3 and 7am!
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God, it's Awesome having sex outside.
Forget the Car.
Try driving out to the Country and doing it in the middle of a field or in a Forest that is thick and you can go off the track.
Find a Barn.
Try going out at Night to a field.
There are SO MANY Places you can have Sex, you just have to use your imagination and take a drive around to suss out places where you can.
Just make sure that you both do it somewhere where there is not much chance of seeing anyone else.
Seek and You will Find.
Go have Fun.
Why bother driving around?
Do it in your back garden, on a hammock is brill!
Or even try the garden shed...in the dark's so great.
The thrill of the air hitting you on a warm summers' night and full in the knowledge others can hear but not see you is an experience just too great to miss.
I don't think the Garden Shed is such a great place especially if it's full of spider webs; and why in the dark?
Get out in the Night Light sure.
Doing it in the Rain somewhere secluded is fun and Thunder and Lightening just adds more electricity to the moment lol.
my beds the best place for hot passionate sex!
I so prefer my new bhs sofas, soft and bouncy for a good hard shag :P
I'm only interesting in being inside when it's an occasion for B & D or S & M.
@ Sharon
How about a threesome or an orgy?
Would you be outside for that too?
Sorry Mazz,
I'm a Happy Newly Wed and I enjoy what I have with my husband.
If you want to watch a really cool DVD go get "Short Bus", it's really rad.
Sorry Sharon, never heard of that one!
Mazz, if you Google DVD's you will find it.
It has all that you were seeking, even an Orgy.
I saw it in New Zealand at a Theatre on the Big Screen and I have had it out on DVD from Blockbusters Video Stores.
All I can say is it was well worth the watch.
Thanks Sharon!!
I'll keep an eye out for that, seems right up my street that one...so yea thanks!!
You got any more tips??
Yes Mazz,
Broaden your horizons and expand your imagination.
That's what I did and still do.
Possibilities are endless......
Have fun and enjoy yourself but don't forget to make sure who ever your with enjoys their-selves too.
Has any 1 tried cinema sex??
Yes I so have done it in the cinema at all times of the day! ;-)
Its awesum...believe me you don't know what you're missing if you haven't yet tried it!
Go have fun fun fun!
Cinemas are fine but not that exciting.
Try a Pub full of people as you sit at a Table with a nice table cloth and giving a your partner a blow job.
Now that's risky and fun. :)
Public places are one of the best for having a good time, not too sure about pub though Sharon! Must be a bit on the smelly side!
Katie,
No, it wasn't smelly.
It was a Pub come Night Club in Auckland, New Zealand and it was St Patrick's Day.
Our Pubs in the Cities are very clean; Country Pubs in New Zealand are dirty as the Farmers go to the Pub with their Gumboots on after a hard day on the Farm.
Any new ideas?
Be adventurous Mazz! Try new stuff, the summer weather aka hot nights are the perfect setting for sex in public...wait until it rains and have sex in the rain, the feeling of the rain on your body on a hot summers night is amazing!
I agree with Katie, it's great in the Rain.
Feels great having the Rain running over your body while your having fun with your Partner, licking the Rain from each others bodies.
Like u need any new idea's mazz!!!
Mazz, have you been holding back on us.
Cheeky B----r...
Please enlighten me as to what other Interesting places you have
experienced Pleasure.
I suppose you have tried B & D or S & M.
Different Strokes for different folks lol......
So Mazz, what's new in the world of sex in public places? Please do share with us! :)
Yes Sharon, thats right, I am impartial to a bit of S & M who would have guessed? :-P
Down in the countryside is brilliant, laying in the verges making mad mad love knowing someone could be walking or driving by only inches away!
Telephone booths, and the bus stop are also one of my haunts!
Katie...go explore!
x
Mazz, so you must not be a screamer/moaner if you like S&M with the possibility of people being inches away from you.
You have a high tolerance for pain?
How do you hide the scratch marks on your back?
The bites and strap marks don't worry you?
Brave Lad!
Recently after walking along a river bank, we sat down for a rest and watched the boats going by, sounds boring, oh no!. Before many minutes had passed we were snogging and one thing led to another and our clothes were flying everywhere, all our garments removed, we thought we had better move to somewhere a bit less conspicuous and went to the other side of the bank, where we lay down and had sex and all the trimmings, in private, no, there was a small plane buzzing over head for the whole time but it didn't put us off in fact it made it better. It was a glorious summers day and the sex was wonderful.
Sounds like Fun in the Sun.
Yea lol
More idea's!! :-P
Mazz, your replies lately lean toward you getting off on what escapades others write about.
Got no more stories to share?
Have you run out of Partners?
Has your well dried up :p
I own a small woodland in rural North Wales, my wife and I sometimes like to go there to have outdoor sex, it's fenced off, gated, and so completely private.
I sometimes wonder if I could rent it out to couples who would like to do this; maybe clear a space in the middle of the wood, put some decking down, then carry in a double bed.
I would be interested to receive feedback as to whether anyone thinks this is a good idea or not.
John that sounds great not sure about the bed tho!
Oh I see - yes, that makes sense, part of the attraction is lying naked on the grass, looking up at the sky and the trees....... perhaps if I just made sure that there was a nice smooth patch of grass, with no nettles or thistles?? Mind you we have had some very erotic times there standing up, with my wife tied spreadeagled between two trees!! Nuf said.
@John
Sounds really nice. A bed would be nice with one of those Netting things that you hang over your bed to keep the insects away.
Also if it was a 4 Poster Bed there could be handcuffs.
I was thinking it would also be a real turn on to know that you and your partner were being filmed whilst "Getting it on in the Green", a momento to take home.
The Video Recorder could be set up in a Tree over looking the scene.
Yep, sounds like a really good idea.
Sharon, a 4 poster sounds divine!
I wonder what mazz thinks of this...he/she has gone a bit silent...very unlike you mazz come out where ever you are!
You may find it easier to continue this conversation on the LoveHoney forums, rather than clogging up a Tracey Cox advice thread!
ive had fun in an outdoor pool in the early hours of the morning now that i would do again. me and my fella have been talking about having sex outdoors.
Spontanious sex in the great outdoors is a must do for everyone that likes change. its like going back when your having sex whilst hopeing your parents dont find out. The risk factor alone makes the sex amazing, well more so than usual.
if your a bit more shy, try having a few drinks first, and wait untill its dark.
or if your inlove with the risk do it in a more public place, but out the way.
feel your heart beat a million times a minute!
Peace
I don't need any drinks first!
I'm always up for sex, indoors or outdoors!
There really is nothing quite like making love next to a gently babbling brook in a secluded woodland glade, dappled by warm summer sunshine with the smell of newly-mown hay wafting on a soft breeze... Just watch out for the wood ants going about their business, though..!
Nothing like making love to warm you up on a cold winters night :)
About the "Short Bus" comment, Yes, great movie!!!! Highly recommend it. About the sex outside, sex is great no matter where you are as long as your enjoying it, right? At least it is for me.
I'm getting ready for another week of spontaneous outdoor shagging with my hubby in my back yard :P
Wiil you both be wearing galoshes, Jackie..?
galoshes?
Rubber overshoes, like cut-down wellies... (Sounds a bit kinky , I know!)Happy New Year, Jo..!
Thanks DimWIt....I luv kinky
Me too, Jo! Any Marigolds under the sink? A chamois leather in the garage?
Thats a bit kinky DimWit!
I tell you something Jackie, having one's bits tickled with a chamois leather is the best - just let your imagination run wild...mmmmm! Not sure about the Marigolds, though - I'm not into rubber. Quite partial to being spanked on the bum with the Woman's Weekly though (as advocated by Victoria Wood).
Have a Happy and Horny New Year!
All this talk is turning me on as I recall the good hard outdoor sex. I'll be getting down & dirty this weekend, thanks DimWit for the suggestions!
My pleasure, Jackie! Hope you didn't get cold feet in the snow last weekend. Also, I forgot to mention that the chamois leather should be dry - so it's no good straight after cleaning your windows. As for the Marigolds, I suppose a drop of Fairy Liquid might help things along if no KY to hand...
U guys are so kinky, I deffo got to try these ideas :D
Kinky? Moi? No way, Mazz! We are all limited only by our imaginations...
The recent cold spell has offered me and my partner unlimited passion for spontaneous outdoor sex with no need to hide away for fear of an audience!
Well Jackie, I'd always thought that the possibility of there being an audience tended to add a bit of spice to outdoor sex. (Or am I confusing 'al fresco' with 'dogging'?)
The fear of there being an unwanted audience is exhilarating!! The thought of voyeurs spying on your hidden activities sounds thrilling!
Reminds me of the time my partner and I almost got caught (or at least we thought) and knowledge that someone was watching over us for some time now turns me on so so much!
My partner and I very nearly got caught last Monday morning when the window cleaner's ladders suddenly appeared above the window sill - another 10 seconds..! We were actually caught alongside the Loch Ness back road one autumn afternoon some years ago, in the bracken next to a footpath when a walker came ambling along as we were in flagrante delicto. Not sure who was more embarrassed...
PS. Have you tried the chamois leather yet, Jackie?
i am a builder and i have had a few clients that have taken advantage of me wile working round there houses when there husbands were at work i had one lady i caught looking up my shorts when i was on the next door roof and asked me to look at a job for her. when i went around there she got hold of me and started kissing me what could i do i had to have her there and then in the back garden i bent her over the cement mixer and took her from behind and nearly got caught when the lady i was working for came out with a coffe and heard loud moaning asked if she was ok.
The current snow and cold spell is great for outdoor sex, makes it so much more fun in the cold as u turn up the intimate heat! ;)
A favourite place in the summer is the beach. there's one on Devon that has some rocks at the end, we get just a tad behind do we can shag beautifully but the rocks provide some privacy, just enough!
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Do it in the car, its awesum!
Find a nice quiet deserted place and away you go!
Posted by: Mazz, June 06, 2009 20:06