Tracey's Sex Tips

Having a child creates a violent upheaval in your sex life. Things do return to normal but it takes effort and a very long time.

Full story: I've heard that sex disappears after a baby arrives. Is it true - and what can we do?

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As much as it’s awful being pressured into sex, it’s not so great being constantly rejected either. He may have decided it’s not worth trying anymore.

Full story: I've constantly rejected my partner's requests for sex - and now he's rejecting me. What can I do?

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Your mood, how much foreplay you’ve had, how turned on you are, how much you’ve had to drink – there are dozens of reasons why it can happen.

Full story: Sometimes I find it really easy to come and other times it takes real effort. Why is this?

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The obvious and easy place to start is to look through some good general sex books for ideas.

Full story: How can I keep our sex life fresh with my new girlfriend? I really want this one to work!

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Give a ‘criss-cross’ position a whirl! You lie on your back with your knees bent. He lies on his side beside you.

Full story: I like face-to-face sexual positions but am sick of me or him on top. Any suggestions?

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The prostate gland is inside his anus but it can be massaged externally as well as internally.

Full story: My partner wants me to give him a prostate massage - can you tell me what this is and how to do one?

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An ideal sex bed would have no headboard or footboard so legs and arms and heads can loll over the sides if you fancy it.

Full story: Are certain beds better for your sex life? We want to buy a new one - can you recommend anything?

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Actually, not all women do have sensitive nipples – and it’s the same deal with men. Some men’s nipples seem directly linked to their penis.

Full story: My guy loves to have his nipples played with. Is this normal - I thought only women enjoyed this?

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If it happened in his teens, I wouldn’t worry too much about it. Lots of guys experiment, especially if they’re boarding at a same sex school.

Full story: My boyfriend recently told me he'd had sex with a guy in the past. Is he secretly gay?

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Generally the sooner you get help, the more chance you’ve got of solving problems and the less damage they will cause long-term.

Full story: My husband and I have problems but I really don't want us to break up. Would counselling help us?

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