Ask Tracey

It's not a case of someone being right or not. Sexual taste and preferences are individual and one person's idea of heaven is another's person's hell.

Full story: My partner thinks I'm a prude because I said no to a threesome. Who is right?

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Put a tampon in, tuck the string inside and have 'femoral' intercourse. Instead of him penetrating, use his penis as a masturbatory tool.

Full story: I'm at my horniest during my period but hate the messiness of it all. What can I do?

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Some women can certainly ejaculate. Can you teach yourself to ejaculate if you try hard enough? Some say yes, others say no.

Full story: I've read that women can ejaculate like men. Any tips on how can I achieve this?

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The first thing to realise is that you really don't need to have an erection to make your wife happy in bed. You're beating yourself up unnecessarily.

Full story: I'm a 42 year-old happily married man but I don't think I last long enough. Help!

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It could be something that happened in his childhood or it might be an ex-lover who ridiculed him or made him feel not good enough sexually.

Full story: I love my boyfriend but he doesn't want to have sex with me. What can I do?

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Shift the focus from concentrating on intercourse positions to foreplay and get him to give you an orgasm before having one himself.

Full story: I don't feel satisfied with my sex life. What can we do to make sex last longer?

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If it's painful you could have a condition called phimosis. This means the foreskin is too tight to be completely pushed back over the head of the penis.

Full story: I cannot pull back my foreskin as it is too tight and I can't ejaculate during sex. Help!

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You remind me of a couple I worked with on The Sex Inspectors. They had done just about anything when it came to pushing the boundaries.

Full story: I've tried everything when it comes to sex and now I'm bored. Any suggestions?

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You could try telling him a fantasy of yours. Or 'cheat' by grabbing a copy of a lad's mag and reading out a raunchy reader letter.

Full story: My partner and I live miles apart and he wants phone sex. Do you have any tips?

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If you went to a strip club on a friend's hen's night and watched male strippers, would you consider you'd been unfaithful to him?

Full story: My boyfriend is travelling abroad and visiting sex shows. Can I trust him?

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