The Weekly Sexpert Round-Up - Threesomes minus the jealousy!

Posted on: September 12, 2008 09:09 | Posted by: Carly

Want the best tips and the hottest advice from the world's greatest sexperts? Then look no further!

LoveHoney has searched through masses of articles and websites to bring you the best and most useful advice on everything sex-related!

This week, the Mirror's Dr. Catherine Hood answers a very interesting question about whether threesomes should become a reality as opposed to just a fantasy:

"Having sex with other men in your mind is a common sexual thought and can be powerfully arousing. In your husband's mind, it would be like viewing a personal X-rated show you're putting on just for him. But there are risks in bringing this to life - jealousy being one.

Many couples on the swinging scene enjoy participating in group sex - they say it strengthens their relationship. So it is possible to make your fantasies come true, but you both have to feel comfortable with the situation."

Another way to indulge in your multiple-partner fantasies without the jealousy is by introducing sex toys into your love-making.

By penetrating you partner vaginally with your penis and anally with a toy you will create the fulfilling feelings of double penetration without the need for a third person! Similarly, you can create the sensations of a 2 female, one male threesome by getting a toy for him!

My suggestions for the perfect threesome-esque sex would be the Penis Smoothy Anal Dildo Prober 6 inch and the Raven Riley Fleshlight Girls Wonder Wave Fleshlight.

The Penis Smoothy Anal Dildo Prober 6 inch is the perfect toy for anal sex due to its subtle, tapered tip which is perfect for the anal-play beginner and a thicker, penis-shaped end for further stimulation! Simply lube it up and slide it inside, for double penetration fun for her and the sensation of a tighter vagina for him!

If you use the Raven Riley Fleshlight Girls Wonder Wave Fleshlight too, you'll have the effect of a foursome! Engulf his penis in the super-skin sleeve and he'll experience the ultra-realistic sensations of the rippled interior!

The Sun's Dear Deidre offers some advice to women who find sex too painful or suffer from vaginismus:

"When a couple can't make love because the woman finds it too painful it is usually because the wall of muscle around the woman's vagina is staying clamped shut in a firm 'no'.

There are exercises to help you begin to get in touch with your body's signals of sexual pleasure.

At first concentrate on discovering what you find pleasurable and arousing sexually. When you feel comfortable, start touching the sexual parts of your body, explore the genital area, find the clitoris.

Such self-pleasuring is a normal part of sex therapy."

To help discover your body and aid the natural lubrication needed for sex, LoveHoney suggests using a wonderfully, water-based lubricant such as Sliquid H20 Original Glycerin and Paraben-Free Lubricant. It's the safest lubricant you can buy and is formulated to emulate your body's own natural lubrication. It even comes highly recommended with a 9 out of 10 star review too!

AskMen.com's Ellouise Moore provides advice on the playful experimentation that is food sex:

"Single cream: Forget it. Its consistency is a little thicker than milk, pour it on her body and it will go everywhere, and not in a good way. In thirty minutes you will be lying in a sticky, smelly mess.

Double cream: This is better and can work very well in small doses. Its consistency is much thicker and you can control where it goes. This can be very sexy if you drizzle it over her body in small amounts, watching it trickle down the contours of her body before catching it with your tongue -- works for me! Just avoid smearing it or rubbing it in.

Whipped cream: This is great and fun, especially for beginners. You control where it goes, so minimal mess. It doesn't smell and can be ticklish when applied to certain areas. If you haven't ventured into food sex before or just want to have a bit of a giggle, then this is the way to go. "

If you don't have cream, in any form, to hand, then it's good to make sure your toy box is stocked with plenty of rude foods that won't go off so quickly! Fun Factory has just released a new range of body paint called Colore Moi Kissable Body Paint which comes in some gorgeous colours and delicious flavours.

Whether you like the taste of sweet chocolate, heavenly vanilla or refreshing peppermint, there's sure to be something that you'll be hungry to lick off your partners' body! And with the Fun Factory Body Paint Brush to go with it, you can create a masterpiece or simply have some ticklish foreplay fun!

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