How to initiate sex

Posted on: October 06, 2007 10:10 | Posted by: Bad Kitty

You don't have to wait for your man to initiate sex, and we bet he'd love you to make the first move for once in the bedroom. So what are you waiting for?

Taking the lead and actually initiating sex with your lover is a major turn on for them, making you look confident, in control and powerful.

The trouble is, most women don't take advantage of this situation and often leave it up to their partners to make the first move. Not only can this lead to your man feeling as though he does all the work, but it can also make he feel a little undesired. How would you feel if you had to chase him for sex 100 per cent of the time? Exactly...

If you want to make a break for change and start to initiate sex with your lover, here's a few tips to help you make your mark:

Tease, tease, tease!
If you don't have the confidence to come straight out and ask for sex, use some subtle signs and movements to let your man know what you want. By simply putting on some sexy lingerie and lighting candles in your bedroom, your man should get the message.

Surprise, surprise
Surprise is always the best form of advance. Why not give your man head while he's drifting off to sleep? We guarantee he'll soon wake up...

Play on his anticipation
The most powerful tool you have when trying to initiate sex is creating a sense of anticipation. Do it when you're out for dinner with your lover by telling them exactly what you're going to do to them when you get home... He'll be getting the cheque in next to no time.

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